I think I'm bisexual, but not sure. Please help.

shannoninBC
shannoninBC Posts: 345 Member
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How does one know?
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  • Snow__White
    Snow__White Posts: 1,650 Member
    do you have sex with women?
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    Easy. Play the field!
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    Easy. Play the field!

    And post pictures! ;)
  • TxAlpha
    TxAlpha Posts: 173 Member
    NOTHING TO ADD.....BUT....GREAT TOPIC.....LOL...
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249
    Gotta see what happens here....
  • ToEKnee213
    ToEKnee213 Posts: 1,031 Member
    Why must we label? Bisexual, gay, lesbian, straight....isn't it just about love in general. Why does the public feel the need to fit everyone in a neat little package?

    Love whomever you want because it feels good, not because it's what is accepted.
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249
    Why must we label? Bisexual, gay, lesbian, straight....isn't it just about love in general. Why does the public feel the need to fit everyone in a neat little package?

    Love whomever you want because it feels good, not because it's what is accepted.

    Pretty sure she was just asking a question. Why are you trying to label her???
  • VeganPanda
    VeganPanda Posts: 582 Member
    Bummp
  • ToEKnee213
    ToEKnee213 Posts: 1,031 Member
    Pretty sure she was just asking a question. Why are you trying to label her???

    I'm not :smile: She said bisexual m'dear.
  • theoriginaljayne
    theoriginaljayne Posts: 559 Member
    Are you sexually attracted to both genders?
  • RestartThisRight
    RestartThisRight Posts: 115
    Are you sexually attracted to both genders?
    this.
  • susannamarie
    susannamarie Posts: 2,148 Member
    Easy. Play the field!

    And post pictures! ;)

    oink oink!
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    Why must we label? Bisexual, gay, lesbian, straight....isn't it just about love in general. Why does the public feel the need to fit everyone in a neat little package?

    Love whomever you want because it feels good, not because it's what is accepted.

    :flowerforyou:
  • Caligalslim
    Caligalslim Posts: 39
    Try it out??? If you like it then you know the answer your question.
  • Mizzou91
    Mizzou91 Posts: 249
    Easy. Play the field!

    And post pictures! ;)

    oink oink!

    You want her to post pictures of pigs?? Ummm....that's weird.
  • Snow__White
    Snow__White Posts: 1,650 Member
    Are you sexually attracted to both genders?
    yes...yes i am:tongue:
  • nicolecassidy
    nicolecassidy Posts: 1
    If you are attracted to both genders in a sexual way, you are. If you're wondering about it, you're curious and may be. The way to find out for sure is to experiment.
  • entropy83
    entropy83 Posts: 172 Member
    Well, at the end of the day it is just a label. Some ppl define it by activity, others by attraction. If your feelings/attraction/activity extend beyond a single girl crush/ boy crush (don't know which way ur currently swinging), you might feel like bisexuality is part of your identity.
  • shannoninBC
    shannoninBC Posts: 345 Member
    Okay, so clearly I need to experiment. Any takers?
  • VeganPanda
    VeganPanda Posts: 582 Member
    Come to Ohio.
  • TheFunBun
    TheFunBun Posts: 793 Member
    Yeah, you also have to think of it in terms of preference vs orientation.

    You may be technically bisexual if you would scissor the bejesus out of Angelina Jolie and equally attractive women, but for all intents and purposes you are hetero since you prefer men.
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    smash.

    oops, wrong thread :blushing:
  • twisted88
    twisted88 Posts: 294 Member
    To me it's not necessarily about attraction (I believe heterosexuals/homosexuals can find the same/opposite sex attractive and even have sex with that person and not be bi or gay.) To me it's about the feelings (and even then people can have mixed feelings). I have feelings for men and I have had feelings for women. I can guarantee if a gal I know and I lived closer, we would be in a relationship, but neither of us would expect the other to swear off men either.

    I guess in summation, a person's sexual orientation is what they believe themselves to be, not necessarily what society/others dictate what they are.
  • VeganPanda
    VeganPanda Posts: 582 Member
    smash.

    oops, wrong thread :blushing:

    Yet appropriate.
  • jupityjupe
    jupityjupe Posts: 86 Member
    if you find yourself attracted to a gender you did not previously think you were attracted to, and are still attracted to the other gender then, yes, you might be bisexual. you seem to be concerned with the fact that you may be bisexual as apposed to really the question of how to figure out whether or not you are, and i hope you find peace with that because it really does not matter.
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    Yeah, you also have to think of it in terms of preference vs orientation.

    You may be technically bisexual if you would scissor the bejesus out of Angelina Jolie and equally attractive women, but for all intents and purposes you are hetero since you prefer men.

    sexuality really isn't a this-or-that kind of issue

    i used to think i was bi for years

    before i realized that my sexuality was something more like "gender-not-important"
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    Come to Ohio.

    Shannon, I approve of this since it is close enough for me to come watch. :wink:
  • supertracylynn
    supertracylynn Posts: 1,338 Member
    Are you sexually attracted to both genders?
    yes...yes i am:tongue:
    Me too!!
  • TanyaCurtis
    TanyaCurtis Posts: 630
    Ur not if u don't know lol. I find woman attractive and check them out, but it's not sexual, I just like to see what they have going on, and what I can improve or whatever lol I look at woman 100 times more then men. I'm totally straight
  • ToEKnee213
    ToEKnee213 Posts: 1,031 Member
    sexuality really isn't a this-or-that kind of issue

    i used to think i was bi for years

    before i realized that my sexuality was something more like "gender-not-important"

    :flowerforyou:

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