I think I'm bisexual, but not sure. Please help.
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Here!! :flowerforyou:Okay, so clearly I need to experiment. Any takers?0 -
you dont need to experience it right away!
just be open to the thing that love and attraction can not be defined by gender.0 -
do you have sex with women?
Even though this was a legit reply, I lol'd pretty hard.0 -
You were bored last night. Tonight you are wondering about your sexuality.
It is either about being promiscuous (not good) or being true to your self and your partner (good).
Think and act. Good luck and you have my best wishes for success.0 -
I'm so sad that I have to go to bed now! I really need to know what happens. :laugh:0
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finding it funny that everybody automatically assumed she was straight and now might also be interested in girls instead of the other way around0
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If you have not ever participated in sexual relations with a member of the same sex and the opposite sex, then you are not bisexual... You may be bicurious... Meaning that you are simply exploring your sexuality. I would think that when the time comes, you really will be the only one able to answer that question for yourself... As for me, I am straight.0
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I remember going through a period of time where I was absolutely terrified that I was lesbian or bi. I literally used to worry about it constantly. I am very open minded and not homophobic in the slightest, but the thought of being lesbian scared me.
But, deep down, I don't think I am. I want to experiment, because I think it'll be one of the best ****ing sexual experiences of my life, but I don't want to be in a relationship with a girl. And, *shrug* I like lesbian porn and admiring girl's bodies, but I don't want to live with a girl and fall in love with one.
Do you, OP. Experiment, and try to imagine yourself in a relationship with a girl. There's a difference between being sexually attracted and being actually attracted to the same sex.0 -
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finding it funny that everybody automatically assumed she was straight and now might also be interested in girls instead of the other way around
So true!! But I think when people question, it's usually because it's attraction to the opposite sex.
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I think Paul Walker and George Clooney are good looking Men, but noooooooooooooo way their gonna tap my *kitten*! I can say those Men are some good lookin dudes!0
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Yeah, you also have to think of it in terms of preference vs orientation.
You may be technically bisexual if you would scissor the bejesus out of Angelina Jolie and equally attractive women, but for all intents and purposes you are hetero since you prefer men.
sexuality really isn't a this-or-that kind of issue
i used to think i was bi for years
before i realized that my sexuality was something more like "gender-not-important"
Totally works in your case, too, I always say I have no sexual orientation, but a preference for men. You, however, have no orientation and no preference.
If I didn't have such a huge aversion to mowing the lawn, I'd probably be the same way.0 -
I think she GAY with all capital letters. Can we say L E S B O
I think you're an idiot.0 -
I think Paul Walker and George Clooney are good looking Men, but noooooooooooooo way their gonna tap my *kitten*! I can say those Men are some good lookin dudes!
If not *kitten*, anywhere else? :laugh:0 -
Try and see.0
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LMAO!If I didn't have such a huge aversion to mowing the lawn, I'd probably be the same way.0 -
:bigsmile:I think Paul Walker and George Clooney are good looking Men, but noooooooooooooo way their gonna tap my *kitten*! I can say those Men are some good lookin dudes!
If not *kitten*, anywhere else? :laugh:0 -
I didn't know I was attracted to the same sex until I had a relationship with a woman. I knew I found women attractive, but never really thought about it in a sexual way. I think we're conditioned as a society to think of sex when we see someone attractive,and because the societal and political norm is to think about opposite gender, it never occurred to me that finding women attractive meant a sexual attraction.
Not only that, but what I miss abou that woman? Not the sex. I saw her the same way I would see a man. Someone I cared for, someone I liked a hellofa lot, and someone I enjoyed spending time with. Someone I wanted to be around. Does this make me bi? I don't know. I married a man, but had a woman come along with the qualities my husband has, I would have married her. I guess I just see its as more of a connection thing with me, rather than a gender thing.0 -
im attracted to the opposit sex, but i dont want to date a woman. nothing wrong with an inocent kiss though. :blushing: think about what you want in life. i want kids and a family, but that dosnt mean i dont want some fun along the way.0
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I think she GAY with all capital letters. Can we say L E S B O
I think you're an idiot.
Idiot in all caps too.
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Do you, OP. Experiment, and try to imagine yourself in a relationship with a girl. There's a difference between being sexually attracted and being actually attracted to the same sex.
This is another good point. I've dated lots of women, but only managed to form lasting relationships with men.
(Though I think that has less to do with my preference than with my compatibility with women. I am hyper-feminine in appearance and taste, but I communicate and behave in a more "masculine" way. Guys dig a girlie girl who likes fart jokes way more than girls do.)
There is always a difference between self, the self seen by others, fantasy, attraction, and action. Thus the ridiculousness of the perceived importance of labeling sexuality.
The only good thing about a label is in dating. People can ask you, "what are you into?" and if you say "bi" you're basically saying
ANYTHING GOES!0 -
I'm bisexual. For me, I've just always known. I've always been attracted to men and women and I have had relationships with both. Personally, I'd rather date men, because there is less drama, but honestly, I'm a tad more attracted to women.
As to the OP, no one can really just tell you if you are or aren't. It's something you have to figure out on your own, maybe experiment with, or talk to someone else who is and see how much your feelings are in line with that.0 -
I think Paul Walker and George Clooney are good looking Men, but noooooooooooooo way their gonna tap my *kitten*! I can say those Men are some good lookin dudes!
If not *kitten*, anywhere else? :laugh:
no sausage for me0 -
If you have sexual attraction with both men & women then you're a bi. I agree with the other posters, why not experiment to see if you're really bi or just admire someone of the same sex. I also have girl crushes, admire lots of women & tried having a relationship with a woman but in the end, I found out that I'm 100% straight.0
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no sausage for me
LOL
George Clooney though? Really?0 -
Okay, so clearly I need to experiment. Any takers?
Come to Melbourne Australia
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I am sure that I'm NOT... LOL I can absolutely define it all by gender... Females only! :P0
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Easy. Play the field!
And post pictures!
oink oink!
You want her to post pictures of pigs?? Ummm....that's weird.
Oink oink0 -
If you ask my husband, he'll tell ya every-one is bisexual. lol Now on a serious note, I can't help ya, sorry0
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How does one know?
If there is doubt, refer dictionary:
.... an animal or plant that has the reproductive organs of both sexes.
It is VERY rare amongst humans.
As far as feelings, how reliable are they ? Really ?0
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