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I think I'm bisexual, but not sure. Please help.

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  • Posts: 5 Member
    What kind of help do you want? If you think you are, you probably are. But, there's no sin in that, it's how you were born. Love yourself and accept yourself for who you are.
  • Posts: 356
    I think Paul Walker and George Clooney are good looking Men, but noooooooooooooo way their gonna tap my *kitten*! I can say those Men are some good lookin dudes!

    :laugh:
  • Posts: 383 Member
    Why must we label? Bisexual, gay, lesbian, straight....isn't it just about love in general. Why does the public feel the need to fit everyone in a neat little package?

    Love whomever you want because it feels good, not because it's what is accepted.

    100% agree with this. Just fall in love with who you fall in love with - keep an open mind. No need to apply a label :)
  • Posts: 241 Member
    I guess I just see its as more of a connection thing with me, rather than a gender thing.


    this.
  • Posts: 1,658
    Okay, so clearly I need to experiment. Any takers?

    I knew it was just a matter of time. Another sleaze. Get a life.
  • Posts: 2,670 Member

    I too like unicorns, puppy dogs and fairy dust...

    and rainbows! and bunny rabbits! and cupcakes with little sprinkles!
  • Posts: 556 Member

    :flowerforyou:

    ^^ These. AND in addition, just play the field and see if you enjoy any form of sexual relations with both genders. If it feels right to you, then you know that your hunch was correct... don't feel the need to label yourself and put yourself into a cookie cutter category, but know that finding the truth after you "experiment" (the most cliche thing I've ever said on a forum) will help you feel better! Best of luck and enjoy it! :wink: :drinker:
  • Oh come ON; that is easy...have relationships (and plenty of sex) with partners who make you feel happy, good , alive, hopeful, joyous, complete and all of the gaps in between.

    And then, when you find a happy place in your life, look at the gender you are partnered with...simples!
  • Posts: 533 Member
    This thread is full of WIN!!!
  • Posts: 1,345 Member

    ummmmmmmm...no

    ^^This.

    Even tho I am beyond that scope, there was already a forum regarding your ignorance. Lol.
  • Posts: 2,576 Member

    and rainbows! and bunny rabbits! and cupcakes with little sprinkles!

    Now you are just describing your ticker!
  • Posts: 417 Member
    Why must we label? Bisexual, gay, lesbian, straight....isn't it just about love in general. Why does the public feel the need to fit everyone in a neat little package?

    Love whomever you want because it feels good, not because it's what is accepted.

    ^^^This.. It is not all about sex. I have been in love with women before and have never had sex with them.
  • Posts: 1,063 Member

    Hhmmmm you can have kids and a family and be with a women.

    Lmfao.

    ...stop taking the negative from these posts ; it does not give you a higher authority because you can find fault with them. In this instance biological offspring was an inferred sense.
  • Posts: 5,860 Member
    I think you should move this post to Facebook, we are concentrating on Bigger and Better things on this site

    She's right. Next up in the "Chit-chat, fun, and games" forum will be threads devoted to the Middle East Peace Process, Global Warming, The Rising Inequity Gap, Worldwide Labor Fairness, Does God Exist, and Reading Comprehension. This is a VERY SERIOUS FORUM!!! (note that capital letters ALWAYS indicate seriousness)

    How those relate to your attraction to both oppposite and the same sex partners is up to you to decide.
  • Posts: 1,345 Member

    ...stop taking the negative from theseposts ; it does not give you a higher authority because you can find fault with them. In this instance biological offspring was an inferred sense.

    LMFAO. Jump off your horse plz.
    I wasnt taking any negativity from it.
    Just stating a fact.
    I know plenty of gay and lesbian parents with children who are raising a family.
    One mother can bare biological offspring in a lesbian relationship
    Same with gay men, one father can bare biological offspring.
    My point was made.
  • Posts: 644 Member
    I have always been in relationships with men, but I have experimented with women. I do not consider myself "bi" though. You can as a fellow female admire the female body and not be bi, or gay.
    There are some people that just know what gender they prefer and don't differentiate, and others that like both. Either is okay. Just be with whomever makes you happy.
  • Posts: 2,670 Member

    Now you are just describing your ticker!

    ho-leee CRAP. I MUST have a ticker with bunnies and cupcakes and fairy dust.

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  • Posts: 225
    Some interesting perspectives here.....Just wondering how this has affected your fitness/weight issues?
  • Posts: 2,484 Member
    Why not experiment? Women can be kinda hot. (i am a women)
  • Posts: 1,345 Member
    Some interesting perspectives here.....Just wondering how this has affected your fitness/weight issues?

    Maybe strressing off her sexuality will cause her to binge and make her gain weight. Lmfao.

    Im jk!!!
  • Posts: 1,195 Member
    Labels??? So, when a homosexual/gay person says he/she is gay is that a label? Or when someone is straight and says so is that also a label? As far as I know, homosexual, bisexual, heterosexual, pansexual, etc are just a way to say what sexual preferences someone has. Nothing wrong with that.

    Anyway, back to the topic, you can be attracted to women and not wanting to do anything sexual with them, or you might try it and not like it. If you try having sexual intercourse with someone of the same sex and you enjoy it and want to continue doing it, still liking the opposite sex, then you can say you're bisexual. If your attraction doesn't go beyond that, just an attraction, then I wouldn't say you're bisexual.
  • Posts: 154
    Ur not if u don't know lol. I find woman attractive and check them out, but it's not sexual, I just like to see what they have going on, and what I can improve or whatever lol I look at woman 100 times more then men. I'm totally straight


    THIS
  • Posts: 607 Member

    I knew it was just a matter of time. Another sleaze. Get a life.
    Someone needs to just get sum regardless of their partners sex. Just sayin
  • Posts: 225

    /points up to "Chit-chat, fun, and games"

    Not even
  • Posts: 2,576 Member

    I knew it was just a matter of time. Another sleaze. Get a life.

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  • Posts: 212 Member
    My opinion is this....you don't have to have sex with a man to know that you like men. The attraction is there. It's the same with a woman. You don't have to have to sex with them to know that you like them. The attraction is there. A straight man does not have to have sex with a female to know he is straight. He knows he has zero attraction to men and 100% attraction to women. He's straight!
  • Posts: 318 Member
    YOLO!!


    You may be bisexual if you like to eat outback steakhouse.
    Can I say cunnalingus on Mfp?? Are we allowed to say anatomically correct words on Mfp ? If i type vagina or a*** lingus or oral copulation will I get a note?
  • Posts: 510 Member
    I think it comes down to what fulfills the longing in your heart. Does a relationship with the opposite sex provide you with fulfillment or does a relationship with the same sex provide you fulfillment?

    In the end I believe it depends on the person and not their sex. Ultimately, it is a choice to prefer one or the other.
  • Posts: 2,687 Member

    I knew it was just a matter of time. Another sleaze. Get a life.

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  • Posts: 2,687 Member
    I think you should move this post to Facebook, we are concentrating on Bigger and Better things on this site

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    Do you know what section of the forum this is?
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