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  • brandi22479
    brandi22479 Posts: 81 Member
    I must be the ugliest chick on here...no one has ever done that to me!! :cry:
    Would some creepy married guy PLEASE harrass me so I can at least be in the club!!
  • katicasi82
    katicasi82 Posts: 121 Member
    No one has hit on me...I feel slightly offended ;) ah no really men are such pervs...I was out in the real world and this guy came on to me, later I saw him at a concert with his wife - who looked so like me that my mate commented...freaky!
  • katicasi82
    katicasi82 Posts: 121 Member
    I must be the ugliest chick on here...no one has ever done that to me!! :cry:
    Would some creepy married guy PLEASE harrass me so I can at least be in the club!!

    I feel your pain :)
  • blair_bear
    blair_bear Posts: 165
    <--- Just another reason to make my avatar my current inspiration... No man hits on Matt Stutzman, no man. (Maybe some men but I don't have to worry about those men:wink: )
  • rob1976
    rob1976 Posts: 1,328 Member
    I must be the ugliest chick on here...no one has ever done that to me!! :cry:
    Would some creepy married guy PLEASE harrass me so I can at least be in the club!!
    Okay...hey mother - want another?
  • WILSONBA
    WILSONBA Posts: 197
    I'm pretty sure it has something to do with our profile pics ladies. Sometimes i will change mine to a bikini shot and BAM..... friend requests from creepers and men talking dirty in messages... so to help with this epidemic we should make our pictures modest, this will not cure our problem but it will help.
  • rob1976
    rob1976 Posts: 1,328 Member
    I'm pretty sure it has something to do with our profile pics ladies. Sometimes i will change mine to a bikini shot and BAM..... friend requests from creepers and men talking dirty in messages... so to help with this epidemic we should make our pictures modest, this will not cure our problem but it will help.
    The cleavage in your profile pic right now is enough to get me looking...
  • missmuse06
    missmuse06 Posts: 50
    I must be doing this wrong. ;-)
  • tangal88
    tangal88 Posts: 689
    wow, all the male bashing in here sucks.

    Yep there are jerks here, and everywhere in the world. Thats life. Wherever you have groups of people you have good and bad, and the internet makes it easier to be "bad" because of anonymity..

    But don't paint all men with such a brush. Many women can be as bad. But again, not all.

    There are also a lot of really really great guys and girls here as well.

    I have a number of male friends, and though many display cute "flirty" behavior (guys and gals) - none are actively really trying to "get some", its all fun banter - and the ones that do have a partner in their life, seem to respect that person/relationship, as well as mine, and don't try to encroach.

    If you have some people that are acting in appropriately - just defriend them or report them, and move on.

    If you have a suggestive photo, message, or name, maybe rethink it, if it generates attention you do not want.
  • rbear713
    rbear713 Posts: 220 Member
    Speaking as a married (and faithful!) man, I have to say that it is disappointing to see the sanctity of marriage being so...neglected. I am a friendly person, and like talking to people, but will not for an INSTANT think of taking things further. I wish I could say the same for all married men.

    Im wit you...talk with lots of girls. Do this with my wife's full knowledge. I wouldn't dream of going any further - love her waaaaay too much for that. But talking to girls (esp pretty girls) is fun AND exciting, so why not?

    Its about keeping life fun and interesting and exciting for me. My wife is my ROCK - I'd be lost without her, and she knows it.

    How's this for trust/love: Last week (on my 40th birthday), I told my wife "I will love you till the world stops spinning - there is no doubt in my mind that you are my best friend and will be forever. I just don't like you very much sometimes."

    Her response? " Go F yourself, d|ckhead!"

    HAAHAAAA!!! Did i mention I'll love her till the world stops spinning?? How did I get SO DAMN LUCKY??
  • WILSONBA
    WILSONBA Posts: 197
    I'm pretty sure it has something to do with our profile pics ladies. Sometimes i will change mine to a bikini shot and BAM..... friend requests from creepers and men talking dirty in messages... so to help with this epidemic we should make our pictures modest, this will not cure our problem but it will help.
    The cleavage in your profile pic right now is enough to get me looking...

    maybe i should change it to a pic of my shoes...didn't realize i had a cleavage shot. :/.....okay that's better
    <<<<<<<<
  • rob1976
    rob1976 Posts: 1,328 Member
    I'm pretty sure it has something to do with our profile pics ladies. Sometimes i will change mine to a bikini shot and BAM..... friend requests from creepers and men talking dirty in messages... so to help with this epidemic we should make our pictures modest, this will not cure our problem but it will help.
    The cleavage in your profile pic right now is enough to get me looking...

    maybe i should change it to a pic of my shoes...didn't realize i had a cleavage shot. :/.....okay that's better
    <<<<<<<<
    I dunno...those are some pretty sexy shoes...
  • Pollywog39
    Pollywog39 Posts: 1,730 Member
    Wow! I'm feeling left out. No married men here are hitting on me ; )

    ME neither.............................
    wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    :wink:

    Seriously, though, as a single woman who was married a LONG time to a cheater (and it took me years to find out about THAT little tidbit of info..........), I see nothing wrong with some harmless flirting and socializing.......but anything more is NOT okay.
  • WILSONBA
    WILSONBA Posts: 197
    I'm pretty sure it has something to do with our profile pics ladies. Sometimes i will change mine to a bikini shot and BAM..... friend requests from creepers and men talking dirty in messages... so to help with this epidemic we should make our pictures modest, this will not cure our problem but it will help.
    The cleavage in your profile pic right now is enough to get me looking...

    maybe i should change it to a pic of my shoes...didn't realize i had a cleavage shot. :/.....okay that's better
    <<<<<<<<
    I dunno...those are some pretty sexy shoes...

    You are the bomb Rob, I couldn't live one day without you!
  • WILSONBA
    WILSONBA Posts: 197
    I must be doing this wrong. ;-)

    you are a sophisticated beautiful!
  • LetsTryThisAgain54
    LetsTryThisAgain54 Posts: 381 Member
    I'm still laughing at the way some of the women on here are painting a lot men as pervs. Some of the pics I see of some "married" women on here probably are the reason why married men make comments and hit on the women. if someone pays a compliment, I guess that's hitting on them. Sheeesh!!!
  • WILSONBA
    WILSONBA Posts: 197
    I'm still laughing at the way some of the women on here are painting a lot men as pervs. Some of the pics I see of some "married" women on here probably are the reason why married men make comments and hit on the women. if someone pays a compliment, I guess that's hitting on them. Sheeesh!!!

    cute puppy.....btw i wasn't hitting on you!
  • rob1976
    rob1976 Posts: 1,328 Member
    You are the bomb Rob, I couldn't live one day without you!
    I hear that a lot...
  • rm830
    rm830 Posts: 531 Member
    I hear about that stuff from my female friends. So inappropriate. Get out of the damn relationship if you're unhappy you turd head.

    I agree, some people need to realise that the other person in their relationship also has feelings, they can and will be hurt by the persons actions when caught out. Reason why I say when and not if, is because at some point in time they will be caught out one way or another, it's inevitable.

    As you said though, if they're not happy, do the other person a favour and let them down gently to find someone who would take better care of them both physically and mentally, plus give them everything they can from a relationship instead of living a lie or trying to have two cakes and eating them both.

    --Lee

    ^^This!!!
  • peles_fire
    peles_fire Posts: 501
    Seriously! What is it with married men on this site hitting on the girls here!? Anyone else experience some perverted men on here?

    That's totally inappropriate. What ever happened to the sancitity of marriage? Want to get together, have a cocktail, and discuss this at length?

    ROTFLMAO! I want to be YOUR friend! :laugh:
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    I've experienced this on another website, a shame it goes on here. That explains why some of my friends have disclaimers in their profile.
  • deads99
    deads99 Posts: 77
    I know of two unfaithful women on here

    It goes both ways....

    Posting pretty much naked pics of yourself online is a SMART IDEA
  • Fieldsy
    Fieldsy Posts: 1,105 Member
    From what I see, women in here are just as bad.

    Like others said.....posting pics in your underwear while you are married is disrespectful. I think the whole "but its progress pics! Thats all I care about!" is bull****. You can keep those pictures private then....
  • fleur_de_lis19
    fleur_de_lis19 Posts: 926 Member
    What? Cause they are married, they can't say your hot? Dumb! They still have a pulse and just wanna give credit where its do. As long as they aren't taking it too far, in which case you can just tell them to lay off or delete them. Chill the f**K out! Ladies are dumb to think that because men are married that they some how dont find other women attractive. Ha! Hell half the time I'm the one that tells my husband "Damn honey! Did you see the rack on that chick?!???! Come here...LOOK!"
  • I don't know, I think the women on here are far worse than men. I should count the number of bra/cleavage profile pics.
    I don't see many package pics (and that's a damn shame btw)
  • What? Cause they are married, they can't say your hot? Dumb! They still have a pulse and just wanna give credit where its do. As long as they aren't taking it too far, in which case you can just tell them to lay off or delete them. Chill the f**K out! Ladies are dumb to think that because men are married that they some how dont find other women attractive. Ha! Hell half the time I'm the one that tells my husband "Damn honey! Did you see the rack on that chick?!???! Come here...LOOK!"

    I do the same exact thing. Women are beautiful. Men are just as beautiful. We like to look. We like to flirt. Shame on us.
  • still_crafty
    still_crafty Posts: 682 Member
    *rolls eyes* can't believe this thread is STILL around.
  • I've said it before, and I'll say it again: it doesn't matter where you get your appetite, just as long as you come home for dinner.
  • fleur_de_lis19
    fleur_de_lis19 Posts: 926 Member
    I've said it before, and I'll say it again: it doesn't matter where you get your appetite, just as long as you come home for dinner.

    DING DING DING!! We have a winner! Topic.. CLOSED!
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    If your partner wouldn't approve, don't do it.

    I see women and men both do it.
    There is a line. Don't cross it. When you find yourself in a moment where you ask "is this a line I'm about to cross" you stop. Unless you have no respect for your partner.
    In that case you probably wouldn't be with them.