Are fat thighs a complete turn off?

mischa_12

i have recently gained about 13 lbs and while im still not fat, it seems like its all gone to my hips and thighs. I feel so bad when i wear jeans and i can see these saddle bags i have now. its also more obvious since i have a small chest and waist

Are fat thighs a turn-off or do guys not really care?

Darkskinned88

i like em personally especially in a skirt or a dress....but to answer your question its depends on the guy or do lots of squats with a healthy diet

SexyCook

Mines are...at least to me...I won't them not to touch!

stevewynjones

No.

Anyaaaa11

I don't think many guys really care. But from what I hear, they like the curves..
I could be wrong but guys are made to be attracted to a woman's body. Not all, like I said.. But majority.
They are child bearing thighs/hips we're made to have big thighs! I hate them! especially being shorter.
Feels like it's all squished together.. I just think We just over analyze everything and that's our problem.

Guys probably prefer a girl with a curvy body. When I see a girl with a flat, dull body and no hips I just assume they
Haven't hit puberty yet lol

mznisaelaine

I just made a post about having big thighs lol.... It just seems like it doesnt fit the rest of my body. I really need to lose a few more jean sizes.

OfficialPR

i have recently gained about 13 lbs and while im still not fat, it seems like its all gone to my hips and thighs. I feel so bad when i wear jeans and i can see these saddle bags i have now. its also more obvious since i have a small chest and waist

Are fat thighs a turn-off or do guys not really care?

Not a turn-off, depends on the whole package but I do enjoy some nice thick legs...

skinnylove00

thick thighs usually means a great *kitten* so no, it's not a turn off whatsoever! guys really like them and i am learning to like them too

MaraDiaz

The turnoff is a woman creeping around insecure about her body and trying to hide it. At least that's what I've learned. And since I'm not real fond of insecure guys who creep around wearing a shirt over their gut in bed or whatever, I can sympathize with that.

CakeFit21

I'm thinking, if your pants are on they haven't noticed. If your pants are off they don't care.

Saruman_w

Nope. In some cases I think they can be quite hot!

wolftrax

I'm thinking, if your pants are on they haven't noticed. If your pants are off they don't care.

hmm...I think she has a point here...just sayin'

dictations

I LOVE them, they usually make you look curvier.

warmachinejt

no

dmpizza

I look at the whole woman, however I suggest taking up jogging, or some other cardio.

NU2U

Be proud of your thick thighs....thick thighs are sexy!!

gumigal82

Guys like curves, my previous bf said he liked my hips. I just worked on ways to tone my thighs (which always bugged me:)

Ocarina

I'm thinking, if your pants are on they haven't noticed. If your pants are off they don't care.

Nice back! :flowerforyou:

I really think us women overemphasize the obviousness of our thighs. I think a guys really think more about the overall package. If thighs are their end all be all that's a whole other issue.

glitterpiss

I big thighs on women. I think they look healthy and I love curves. I think thigh gap or having knees bigger than your thighs is a turn off for me.

Yanicka1

Insecurities are a bigger turn off than a few pounds

Pokermom10

In my extensive experience (no weird friends requests please - LOL) men love curves. I've had men tell me that they were glad I was working out now, but they'd be sad to see my hips get smaller. I have 48 inch hips! Embrace your curves, love yourself for who you are. Guys will see the confidence as sexy. :happy:

beckyinma

OH likes mine, but I hate looking at them, in the mirror, when I sit down, when I wear shorts, when I wear a bathing suit.. only part of my body that REALLY REALLY pisses me off. I've been fighting them all my life. If I'm unable to change them via exercise/diet changes, my next step will be expensive...

laughingdani

Most men I know don't care.....or actually prefer thicker thighs.

Besides, you have to have a little more cushion in the thigh/hip area to rock the killer pencil skirts and such. ; )

I have been blessed/cursed with the thicker thighs as well and used to hate shopping for jeans. Now, that I have found the right cut jean for me I LOVE wearing jeans that show off my curves.

It's all about embracing what you DO have and having confidence. If you don't have a problem with your thighs, then anyone that gets the priviledge to see that part of you won't either.

kensky

Insecurities are a bigger turn off than a few pounds

Quoting for TRUTH

nursenikki829

I prefer to call them muscular, meaty thighs, and now that mine are more toned, I am starting to be okay with them.... my hubby on the other hand has always loved my thick thighs!

dynamojones

Be proud of your thick thighs....thick thighs are sexy!!

I agree!

kimber0607

I think woman are so much more critical
MY best friend is a TWIG..long and very thin/lean ...ther and hubby have been together forever..very healthy solid relationship but he makes NO qualms that he loves a woman with weight from the waist down...nice booty and healthy thighs....
It seems lots of guys feel this way
I agree if you carry yourself with confidence guys will follow

La_Amazona

I have some meaty thighs. I love them. I do want to tone them as much as I can though.

UponThisRock

Women, when will you stop listening to fashion/fitness magazines?

NocturnalGirl

Women, when will you stop listening to fashion/fitness magazines?

Never haha


I hate my thighs

JennieAL

Men seem to like them more than women... that's my observation. (and that's an understatement)