Are fat thighs a complete turn off?

chris2365

If a guy cares, he's not the right guy. But truly what others have indicated, the right guys like women who are comfortable and happy with themselves, even with a few pounds. Having your partner dash to turn out the lights, cover themselves during romantic time, etc. - that's the turnoff. Pretty much be assured that most guys are tickled pink to have the opportunity to be near your thighs, whatever their size!

RainxPain

My boyfriend says he likes mine. I don't... but it makes me happy that he likes my body.

akiramezu

I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

FlyeredUp

The first picture made me start to appreciate my legs. Taken in September 2011.


This picture reaffirmed it. Taken April 2012


This picture is from last summer....but I think it highlights that I have thick thighs....and they aren't THAT gross! There are more toned now, though.

Did I mention i'm 42 :bigsmile: Amazing legs!! Great job.

StarvingKyy

I know exactly how you feel. My thighs are the most embarassing part about me. I hope guys can learn to look past them.

mustgetmuscles1

I did not read through all the posts but for me I like a girl that thinks she looks sexy. If she thinks her thighs are big and is self conscious about them and does not want to be naked or spontaneous then that is not attractive to me. My wife had nice big thighs and a big butt to match and I loved every part of her. She is loosing weight with me now and her legs are getting toned and her butt is shrinking and she is even hotter to me now. NOT because she is smaller and more fit but because SHE thinks she is looking better and feels more sexy.

HorrorChix89

I hate fat thighs, especially if they jiggle. Gross. I'm working to make mine smaller

gogojodee

To me: Yes. I have a problem with them touching, I don't think they were/are supposed to. I have a small slender frame and I know when I have extra weight around there and the waist - I look boxy. I'm also short so yeah. Some women can pull it off, I know I can't.

GO_NadZ_xO

I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

That is a man with a wig. Sorry to anyone who does like this.. but in my opinion, a woman who looks masculine is not sexy.
I have guy friends who would kill for that body. thats creepy.. ew. Sorry.. but.. ew.

HorrorChix89

That is a man with a wig. Sorry to anyone who does like this.. but in my opinion, a woman who looks masculine is not sexy.
I have guy friends who would kill for that body. thats creepy.. ew. Sorry.. but.. ew.

Bahahahahahahaha:laugh:

Asuhoru

Oh hell no.

yoovie

Women, when will you stop listening to fashion/fitness magazines?

the girls from our magazines on all of yall's cars and motorcycles, ya know. Plus dotting the field in pro sports. Plus breaking necks when they walk past. Its not just magazines. We hear what men say and watch where their eyes are drawn to.

Its not us obsessing over the magazines so much as we are observant about what guys are pulled toward

Yeah that's not true; at least not for all guys. Everyone has their own tastes, and many men have varying tastes. If I said Colombian women are hot, does that mean I'm unattracted to anyone who isn't Colombian?

my apologies, i did not mean to say All Men Only Want This... what I was attempting to express was that, we (in general) tend to notice what the (general) male population is attracted to and mass actions speak louder than mass words, in general. With exceptions. In America.

better? lol

yoovie

my thighs are the only thing big enough to balance my popeye calves :-/

cynthiaj777

I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

rextcat

no, nither is a fat walet

NotGoddess

I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

I think she looks great. She obviously worked hard to get that body.

rextcat

Women, when will you stop listening to fashion/fitness magazines?

the girls from our magazines on all of yall's cars and motorcycles, ya know. Plus dotting the field in pro sports. Plus breaking necks when they walk past. Its not just magazines. We hear what men say and watch where their eyes are drawn to.

Its not us obsessing over the magazines so much as we are observant about what guys are pulled toward

Yeah that's not true; at least not for all guys. Everyone has their own tastes, and many men have varying tastes. If I said Colombian women are hot, does that mean I'm unattracted to anyone who isn't Colombian?

my apologies, i did not mean to say All Men Only Want This... what I was attempting to express was that, we (in general) tend to notice what the (general) male population is attracted to and mass actions speak louder than mass words, in general. With exceptions. In America.

better? lol

alow me to say "WHHHAAAA?"

mustgetmuscles1

I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

Hating on fat women is not OK but hating on muscular women is? Sad bit of double standards if you ask me.

ksavy

I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

Hating on fat women is not OK but hating on muscular women is? Sad bit of double standards if you ask me.

I got to agree. She looks hot. She is also probably in a cut phase and is not this ripped all the time.

yoovie

She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

that's not very nice, what if someone said that about you

There are kind of men, all kinds of preference and all kinds of sexy. Anyone struggling to getfit should know that by now.

jakidb

Sounds like you're a "pear" shape and though it may look nice at times (in clothing), "being" a pear shape has it's "challenges" especially when shopping for clothes and some of us pears just don't "like" it LOL. The best thing would be to keep it toned. I'm a pear shape who hates my thighs. I can do the hips but definitely need to "tighten" up the thighs. I've done some research on how pear shapes should eat and for the most part my findings were plenty of lean protein (they suggest lean turkey and chicken, tuna, and talapia), green veggies, apples, grapefruit, and "berry" type fruit and take in a minimal amt of rice, pasta, and mash potatoes. Excercise is cardio type/aerobics. Good luck!

tquig

I'm thinking, if your pants are on they haven't noticed. If your pants are off they don't care.

Best response ever!

EmCarroll1990

I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

I always find that girls that come out and say *kitten* like this are the ones that don't want/have any drive to get muscles. She is not disgusting. Maybe it's not your thing but do you have to be such a b*tch about it?

I know I'd certainly love to have her abs.

tquig

She is loosing weight with me now and her legs are getting toned and her butt is shrinking and she is even hotter to me now. NOT because she is smaller and more fit but because SHE thinks she is looking better and feels more sexy.

This ^^^^^

tquig

I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

She looks disgusting. All of her. I would never want to look like that, and I can't imagine men think that's sexy whatsoever.

I always find that girls that come out and say *kitten* like this are the ones that don't want/have any drive to get muscles. She is not disgusting. Maybe it's not your thing but do you have to be such a b*tch about it?

I know I'd certainly love to have her abs.

So would the majority of the guys on this site!

Nopedotjpeg

Look at all the jelly women hating on the fit chick. Wow, get over it. People look different. I find that attractive and I also find a thick girl attractive. What I don't find attractive is a *****y woman on the internet who says someone's body is "disgusting" because it's not their goal.

Nopedotjpeg

That is a man with a wig. Sorry to anyone who does like this.. but in my opinion, a woman who looks masculine is not sexy.
I have guy friends who would kill for that body. thats creepy.. ew. Sorry.. but.. ew.

If you have guy friends that have that as a goal body, then your guy friends probably need to aim for a higher bodyweight.

EmCarroll1990

Look at all the jelly women hating on the fit chick. Wow, get over it. People look different. I find that attractive and I also find a thick girl attractive. What I don't find attractive is a *****y woman on the internet who says someone's body is "disgusting" because it's not their goal.

This.

BAMFMeredith

I am a man who likes legs, so yes, fat thighs completely turn me off. No offence to anyone, Am I shallow? probably, but it's physical attraction then the attraction of personalities to me. I am who I am, love me or hate me haha

That is a man with a wig. Sorry to anyone who does like this.. but in my opinion, a woman who looks masculine is not sexy.
I have guy friends who would kill for that body. thats creepy.. ew. Sorry.. but.. ew.

Haha, agree to disagree, because I think that *kitten* is hot!!

Emancipated_Tai

I guess it depends on the person. I had a guy recently tell me that a slight "giggle" in the leg is a turn on..First I've heard of it!