What is a turn off for you ( Male & Female)

Foxypoo61287

For males & females, I hate smoking. I think you smell gross. And you look gross too.
Excessive muscles. Muscles that have muscles that have muscles.
Long beards. Keep it trimmed boys.
Alcoholics. If you can't go out once in your life and not have a drink then there is something wrong.
BAD BODY ODOR! Do something about it.
To much make-up of a female. Im sure you beautiful without all that make-up caked on
Excessive tanning. I do not like carrots!
Drugs. If you do drugs, sorry. Please don't talk to me, Because I won't be interested in you. I've never done drugs and don't plan on doing them either.
Guys who "do" their hair. If it takes you longer than 5 minutes to get ready, uh no thank you.
Liars. 9 times out of 10 I KNOW THE TRUTH & I'm just giving you the oppertunity to tell me the truth.

Matt_Wild

You sound a right catch :huh:

Foxypoo61287

You sound a right catch :huh:

HuH?

dynamicwon

Liars!!!

Matt_Wild

You sound a right catch :huh:

HuH?

Look what you wrote, 90% is you're view on men. Seems a bit of a negative thread really1

ArroganceInStep

If they say "I'm calling the cops"

seal57

You sound a right catch :huh:

HuH?

Look what you wrote, 90% is you're view on men. Seems a bit of a negative thread really1

It's also my view on women as well as men....Women smokers is not a good look....Same if they are drunk....I hate the smell of smoke and would hate to kiss a smoker....man or woman.....

Foxypoo61287

You sound a right catch :huh:

HuH?

Look what you wrote, 90% is you're view on men. Seems a bit of a negative thread really1

7 out of the 11 are both male and female oriented.
1 is Specifically oriented to females. It states females in it, but the rest are turn offs for both males and females unless stated other wise. And what's it matter if this is a "negative" thread? I was asking what are turnoffs. I'm not bashing men or women. I just don't like these qualities in my friends, or potential boyfriends.

Foxypoo61287

If they say "I'm calling the cops"

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

mistikal13

Bad teeth...total deal breaker :noway:

sktllmdrhmz

Lack of confidence. If you don't think you're sexy, why should I?

warmachinejt

i couldn't say what my turns offs are, but i'm really attracted to latin looking girls tanned, black eyes and hair

TheDoctor90

Smoking.
Bad breath/teeth.
Bad fingernails.

Pengi81

Bad breath
Bad hygiene
Compulsive lying
Smoking
OTT Recreational drug use
People who don't tidy up after themselves (OK so my OH is big on this one, but she's none of the others so I let it slide... just!)

strongformygirls

Biggest turn off for me... If I see a guy being an *kitten* to someone he obviously doesn't seem to think he needs to respect. This could be anyone he knows or doesn't! If a guy is really respectful to the guy cleaning the restrooms in the cafe we might be grabbing coffee at, he's made good thus far in my book

digitalbill

Oh... turn offs. (lets pretend I am single)
1: Smoking. I won't even contemplate attempting a date if you are a smoker.
2: Cursing. The occasional curse is acceptable but, a woman who talks like a sailor on shore leave has no class.
3: Hooker clothing. While I have nothing against the "little black dress" or the ultra sexy sundress, I really dont like the short shorts and the "I am trying too hard" shirts.
4: Rudeness to servers. While it has been a few decades since I have worked in the industry, I still appreaciate how hard they work. I have a habit of over tipping unless the wait staff is exceptionally rude to me.

That is all I can really think of.

coachblt

1. People who prove to be uneducated. You may be dumb as a rock, but you don't have to appear to be.
2. People who "let themselves go". Not physically, but they won't take the time to clean, brush hair, dress appropriately.
3. Loudness
4. Arrogance: difference between arrogance and confidence
5. Disrespect/Rude
6. Bad table manners
7. Bad teeth - When people have bad teeth, my eyes focus on them and not the other persons eyes. Drives me insane.

CodyAsh

1. Smoking
2. Duck Faces
3. Constantly taking pictures of oneself (I love photography though)
4. Being LOUD!?! gets my blood boiling
5. Rude to people they've never met
6. Think their **** doesn't stink
7. Hmm, I know i'm not perfect but I think I could keep this list up all day :P

Good thing I got myself a good spouse

mystiedragonfly

- Cruelty is my biggest turn off. If I see any sign of cruelty in a man or a woman, I remove them from my life. I've dealt with too many bullies growing up and in the work place. This includes those people who find it amusing to be "brutally honest" as well. People who take pleasure in finding what hurts someone else's feelings.

- Extremely Logical people... The people who profess not owning a television (because only unintelligent people watch tv) and only read Nietzsche. Telling others reading is the only intelligent hobby, but only of they are reading certain books.

- Strangers who hand me Jeni Craig's phone number.

- The lines:
--- "I have always had a secret thing for red heads."
--- "Don't tell anyone, but I love big girls."
--- "You are very pretty and are so amazing and I love being with you, you're just not my type romantically."

iuew

people who constantly brag about situations in which they didn't take any crap from someone or how they got the better of someone.

people who judge others constantly.

endless gossip.

UponThisRock

Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.

inked219

Lying, Cheating, Manipulation, selfishness, and I can't be with someone who's unwilling to compromise. If they're that self centered - then they can go f### themselves.

2143661

Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.

this is a joke right?

luv_lea

Overall: People who judge others too much. (It's human nature to a degree, but damn....yeah)

In men: Too much arrogance, & poor taste in music will automatically make me not interested.

columbus27

Use of a cell phone

angryguy77

Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.

This.

Toned is good, but I don't like definition. For me it takes away the femininity.

Il_DaniD_lI

I would say my main turn offs are cocky guys, sloppy drinkers and guys who wax their eyebrows

Hawksbillus

Poor posture. I see so many otherwise attractive women who look like they're practicing to develop a hump in later life.

DalexD

Men who botox! Total turn off. And smelly men, too. Not that "just had a workout" sort of smell, the "just had a workout... two days ago" sort of smell.

tabinmaine

Long toenails on men or women ( any smidgen of white, small faint line ok)

Long fingernails on men (anything more than a smidgen of white nail )

Bad teeth or breath

L00py_T0ucan

conceit.
overarching bitterness. <== this can be funny, but it can be tiresome.