What is a turn off for you ( Male & Female)

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  • Oliviamarie05
    Oliviamarie05 Posts: 528 Member
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    If my man has a vagina. :ohwell:




    hahahaha NOT THE DEADLY MANGINA!!!!!

    Right? What could be worse?
  • marieanneranaldi
    marieanneranaldi Posts: 7
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    what do u like then ...we know what u hate..
  • Crying_In_Color
    Crying_In_Color Posts: 246 Member
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    1. To much body hair.
    2. Guys who are very thin.
    3. Cockiness
  • ckmama
    ckmama Posts: 1,668 Member
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    My biggest turn off has to be ...............

    .......................................................... the inability to put down a cellphone. Social media is great, but if you can't hold a conversation with me without Twitter / Facebook / etc etc interruptions, I am not sure we can be friends!

    Ditto

    I watched a guy text or FB whatever thru his whole lunch with his wife
  • kaiman1
    kaiman1 Posts: 27
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    Men and women:
    - arrogance
    - ignorance
    - greed
    - know-it-alls
    - lack of self control
    - bad manners
    - lack of hygiene
    - sun glasses worn when there is no need
    - lack of character / opinion / assertiveness
    - foul mouthed language
    - zealots of any kind or persuasion


    Men:
    - gold chains, preferably worn on monkey chest with open shirt, braclets or the like
    - metrosexuals who are everything else but men
    - bullies / men who beat women / kids
    - penis extensions in form of cars / boats / electronic equipment etc.
    - lack of respect for those who cannot do anything for you

    Women:
    - dressing way below your age
    - spandex that can't possibly hold your body volume
    - dressing way below your age
    - dumming yourself down and compensating with sexy clothing
    - displaying all your goods and then getting offending if a guy looks
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
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    My biggest turn off has to be ...............

    .......................................................... the inability to put down a cellphone. Social media is great, but if you can't hold a conversation with me without Twitter / Facebook / etc etc interruptions, I am not sure we can be friends!

    Ditto

    I watched a guy text or FB whatever thru his whole lunch with his wife

    ditto also!
  • Hernandeak11
    Hernandeak11 Posts: 351 Member
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    I agree with a previous poster that it's a major turnoff when someone is rude to a server/other person in the service industry. Luckily my boyfriend and I have worked for a significant amount of time in the industry, so we know how lame it can be!

    Swearing really isn't a turn-off to me..unless you insist on using a term in every single sentence..then it's a total turn-off!

    Poor spelling, and grammar as well!

    Things that are turn-ONS for me:

    Being good with animals
    BEARDS
    Willingness to try new things (foods, activities, etc.)
  • bmqbonnie
    bmqbonnie Posts: 836 Member
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    Pretentious people. I like that you are smart and it's good to be confident, but just because you are smart does not mean that everyone else in the world is dumb. Especially if your reasoning is that they don't listen to the same music as you etc.

    Long hair on guys or excessive facial hair.

    People that don't love animals cannot be trusted in my book.

    Do not like when people say one thing and mean another. This afflicts women more. You know, "it's fine" really meaning "I'm so mad but am too chicken to say so so I'm going to give you the silent treatment for a week like any normal functioning mature adult would".
  • AlsDonkBoxSquat
    AlsDonkBoxSquat Posts: 6,128 Member
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    Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.
    I am crushed :sad:

    Don't worry, I'd totally do you.
  • ckmama
    ckmama Posts: 1,668 Member
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    Men who stare at women, you know that I was talking to you now I am staring and drooling at whatever just walked by. At least be a little coy about it. It is so douchey. :devil:

    Nose and ear hair that needs to be trimmed, gag :sick:
  • solarpower4
    solarpower4 Posts: 250 Member
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    ...
    - Extremely Logical people... The people who profess not owning a television (because only unintelligent people watch tv) and only read Nietzsche. Telling others reading is the only intelligent hobby, but only of they are reading certain books.
    ...

    Those are not Extremely Logical people -- they're Extremely Rude!
  • solarpower4
    solarpower4 Posts: 250 Member
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    people who constantly brag about situations in which they didn't take any crap from someone or how they got the better of someone.

    people who judge others constantly.

    endless gossip.

    ^^^ THIS! ^^^
  • KariQuiteContrary
    KariQuiteContrary Posts: 274 Member
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    Men or Women:

    Lack of proper hygiene.
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
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    Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.
    I am crushed :sad:

    Don't worry, I'd totally do you.

    Lol thank you
  • bekinator
    bekinator Posts: 103
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    And what's it matter if this is a "negative" thread? I was asking what are turnoffs. I'm not bashing men or women. I just don't like these qualities in my friends, or potential boyfriends.
    I think your anti-muscly muscles line hurt his feelings.
    Duck faces made me laugh... now I kinda want to see an example of a Duck face.
    http://antiduckface.com/

    Thank God my wife is happy with me and I don't have to pander to the superficial.

    ^^here here!^^

    the muscles growing muscles growing muscles comment is funny; i think it's a little nasty but if my man had those i would learn to be ok with them. he has a bit oversized belly & blows his nose at the table (eww) too but i'm ok with that. he still turns me on cuz he's him; i know that's cheesy. turn-offs don't have to be a deal-breaker. he sure puts up with mine!

    lololololol on the duckface, now i know what to call that!
  • onedayillbeamilf
    onedayillbeamilf Posts: 966 Member
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    Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.
    this is a joke right?

    girls should be pretty and soft......men should be hard
    girls with muscles make me wanna puke

    Girls that are soft make me feel sad.

    Come to think of it, women are supposed to have vaginas and men are supposed to have penis's . . . at least that's my understanding on how the anatomical differences are supposed to go.

    I believe you're correct. If I remember Kindergarten Cop correctly, that's exactly how it's supposed to go.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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    Any sentence that starts with "Well any girlfriend of mine wouldnt be allowed to ________________ "
  • bekinator
    bekinator Posts: 103
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    I agree with a previous poster that it's a major turnoff when someone is rude to a server/other person in the service industry. Luckily my boyfriend and I have worked for a significant amount of time in the industry, so we know how lame it can be!

    Swearing really isn't a turn-off to me..unless you insist on using a term in every single sentence..then it's a total turn-off!

    Poor spelling, and grammar as well!

    Things that are turn-ONS for me:

    Being good with animals
    BEARDS
    Willingness to try new things (foods, activities, etc.)

    Me too! I spent 12 years in the industry. I loved it when people would be rude to us because we were low-lives working minimum wage. Have you ever watched the movie "Waiting"? It's so true!!

    Agreed, beards are hot q-; especially the dark stubbly ones, i'm so 90s with that.

    Whenever I see professional marketing or reports with misspelled words or bad grammar, I so wish I had a huge red Sharpie. Call me pretentious q-;
  • MaritaD
    MaritaD Posts: 178 Member
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    Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.
    I am crushed :sad:

    Don't worry, I'd totally do you.

    Lol thank you

    Ditto :wink:
  • thomassd1969
    thomassd1969 Posts: 564 Member
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    When the tv or computer is more important than me laying next to you.

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