What is a turn off for you ( Male & Female)

zoodalia

Bad manners and people who use the word 'ugly' to describe looks and not personality.

adrian_indy

Anyone unromantic enough to make a superficial list. I understand no criminals or drug users. But I like that someone wouldn't explore true love because a man had back hair.

Rosa1213

I think I have two major turn-offs: Poor grammar, and SMOKING.
Please don't smoke. It's so bad for you

CandaceyD

I can't stand loud, rude, low self esteem cheaters that use drugs. Or you know, you can have just one of those traits and merely be annoying and unattractive.

victoria4321

Introverted people, bad teeth, body odor, general laziness(always feeling "tired"). That's pretty much it, I think.

Toxictwist

-smoking
-people on their phone ALL the time (on a date)
-Liars

jansari2

Lack of confidence. If you don't think you're sexy, why should I?

Exactly! Lack of self confidence is a big turn off. "Sexiness" aside, the pessimistic mentality can become an issue! Of course, excessive egoism isn't a turn on either.

DianatheRed

People that refuse to take charge of their own lives. I mean-how many excuses can you make before you wear yourself out and decide to just DO something about it. Whiners make me crazy!! Also, people that can't disagree without calling names or putting others down simply for their opinions. I understand there needs to be a level of mutual respect when in a disagreement over something, and if you can't, then be gone Oh-and people that ask me what I do, and when I tell them that I am a stay at home mom, they say something along the lines of, "I could never do that! Sitting at home all day would drive me crazy. I mean, there is only so much cleaning you can do before you lose your mind..." HA! And-smokers.

victoria4321

Oh yeah rude people on their phone all the time. What I do is I stop talking whenever they text or something. Usually they ask whats wrong then you tell them you'll wait until they're finished. Almost everyone gets a clue after that.

1shauna1

Bad Breath - especially when you talk close to me! Nasty feet in sandals (especially in the office)....men and women it's okay to get a pedicure at the beginning of the summer! Body odor on men and women (guess I'm an equal opportunity hater, lol!).

SlimSammy2012

Bad Hygene!!! Bad Breath, BO, and that "not so fresh Feeling!!"

SlimSammy2012

Oh yeah rude people on their phone all the time. What I do is I stop talking whenever they text or something. Usually they ask whats wrong then you tell them you'll wait until they're finished. Almost everyone gets a clue after that.

Yeah!!! Texting all the time!!!! I hate it!!!

7funnygirl7

Poor personal hygiene/grooming on both sexes! Bad breath, dirty hands/feet, & body odour are total turn offs! :sick:

Aperture_Science

People who insist on telling you about what they dreamt last night.

ChristiH4000

Gas that smells as bad or worse than the gas I'm having today. Seriously turning myself off right now.

SlimSammy2012

People who insist on telling you about what they dreamt last night.

I was on a bridge and a big bird kept cirlcing over me asking stupid questions...Do you know what that means? :laugh:

BaconMD

I like how some people are pretending they're above having turn-offs. No one believes you.

I don't know if you took my post as me "pretending" to be above having turn-offs or not, but I'll assume you did. I just mean that everyone has problems, and if I took the things that bother me the most and put them on a "dealbreaker" list, or if my wife did the same, we'd probably be divorced. So, with that in mind, here's my two main turn-offs: garlic breath and talking about her latest dream. Often I'm lucky enough to get both of those in one shot. And I still hit it. Every. Time.

Aperture_Science

People who insist on telling you about what they dreamt last night.

I was on a bridge and a big bird kept cirlcing over me asking stupid questions...Do you know what that means? :laugh:

I had a dream that I turned my secretary into a robot, and then she got turned into a potato, and was stolen by a bird. There was a girl who didn't bite her finger nails, or get jealous of her siblings even though she had it tough, she had nice hair but not as nice as she thought. She looked good in her orange jumpsuit but my secretary didn't like her. These weird holes kept on appearing everywhere. Stephen Merchant was there too. I'm laying off the cheese tonight.

Bronx_Montgomery

Women that get huge ugly man muscles from lifting heavy weights.

I am crushed :sad:

That person is nuts!! Muscles on a woman is HOT!!!

secretlobster

"To much make-up of a female. Im sure you beautiful without all that make-up caked on "

For me, inability to spell, properly punctuate, or express thoughts clearly is a turn-off.

indz87

saliva and stinking mouth.. men sometimes don have any sense... lol

women- um.. sometimes i see females walking in high heels trying tooo hard to look glamorous .. but u can see it clear on them that they are sooo scared they might trip and fall anytime... to the onlooker it is either too funny(for males) or too sickening (for females)..

zoodalia

"To much make-up of a female. Im sure you beautiful without all that make-up caked on "

For me, inability to spell, properly punctuate, or express thoughts clearly is a turn-off.

Buuuuuuuuuurrrrrrnnn.

bekinator

The biggest turn off I find in woman is when they are uneducated. I grew up with sisters and a strong mother and I have learned to appreciate a smart strong woman. I feel I would be doing my female family members and myself a disservice if I dated a dumb broad (excuse the lingo). It doesn't matter if the woman is a supermodel. If she opens her mouth and gibberish comes out then to me she is ugly and not my type.

i like you too! and i agree on my men! (gibberish includes gossip, trash, lies, etc etc...)

I like how some people are pretending they're above having turn-offs. No one believes you.

i like how some people don't read the whole thing & miss the point. turn-offs don't have to be dealbreakers. once you realize you're not perfect either, it helps.

When duharforstået hides his abs...

agreed, that sucks... q-;

TO ALL YOU DUCKFACERS..I found a picture...so the thread is UP!

woohoo!!

Saruman_w

Smokers
Heavy drinkers
Excessive tattoos & facial piercings
Drug-use
Trashy behavior ( loud, unnecessary & excessive profanity, obnoxious, unintelligent, crass, etc. )


Those're big deal breakers for me.

TheBraveryLover

For men, being passive and indecisive is a huge turn off.

DavetheHYNIC

Little girl nails. I don't care if u got real or fake nails just have them maintained and kept up to par as a grown woman. Not gnawed on, chipped and god forbid dirt under em.

Shoes too small with your heel hanging off the back. If you wear a 12 don't try to jam your giant foot into 9 a size heel then everytime we in the car, sit down you got take your heels off.

Don't have knowledge of current events , politics or opinion about social issues. There is only one thing u can do with a slow chick.

Poor bikini area maintenance. I prefer to play on a smooth landscape but if u can't /don't like that at least trim the hedges!


B. O . Women should always smell good.

Bad wigs , bad weaves and too much new growth.

bikermike5094

Camel Toe... the vajay jay should be a place of secrets and excitement.. not out there on display for the whole world to see....

RyanDanielle5101

For males & females, I hate smoking. I think you smell gross. And you look gross too.

I think you look gross too!! For ugly braids and being such an *kitten* hat:)

Just because it is a turn off for you doesn't give you the right to put smokers down and call them gross!!

EpiGaiaRepens

funny, i just made this my status:
"i know this is unrelated to like EVERYTHING but can I just say, I really do prefer more natural women or all out freaks. I know society WANTS me to like barbie dolls, but I just don't. I like my gurls with dirty finger nails and crazy tats, and knotted up wind blown hair, and wrinkles from laughing so much. Things like hair extensions, foundation make up, fake eyelashes- they have their place in the photoshoot...but on the daily? Weird. I prefer genuine humanity, thank you. "


ALso, smoking is just repulsive.

Salvi30

A man talking to his ex or ex's.