Today was the first time I've ever been called a fatty.

butterflymarks

I just looked at your profile pic and hunny.. he must be blind. I don't know anyone who'd call you fat.

I'm sorry the dbag called you that, if I was there I woulda slapped him for ya.

Just know you're beautiful

Heidihomelinda

You are giving one person too much power. You live this life.

vb4evr

In my entire life of being overweight (roughly ten years now), I've never been blatantly told that I'm fat. Curvy, yes. A little chubby, yes.

A male co-worker of mine was joking around about craving some cookie dough, and when a female co-worker of mine asked what we were talking about, he said, "Don't worry about it, (name), I'm talking to a fatty about something."

I feel numb. I can't even cry.
I feel like saying, screw you.

You can fix fat. You can't fix ugly.

It's not in my nature though. Why bother wasting my energy?
I feel so ugly now though. I feel like everyone sees me as this walking pocket of fat.

I want to just get on the treadmill and run forever.

Jerks like that are just justify another use for the ever growing list for duct tape. Seroiusly though people like that thrive on putting others down to feel better about themselves. Use em as fuel to drive you to excel. I've personally imagined my punching bag as a co-worker but hey... to each their own. :happy:

JenaePavlak

turn it into some motivation!! You can do it!!

jericamom

He probably does have a small p***s.

wareagle8706

Kick him in the crotch!!!

lifeskittles

Im not trying to be on his side or anything...but was he just kidding because you were talking about cookie dough? Maybe he didn't mean it in a bad way saying you were a fatty but meant that he was talking to a "fellow fatty" because of the subject you were talking about. Just a thought because some guys don't realize what comes out of their mouth or how it sounds

ironanimal

Dude(tte), you're not even fat. He has issues. Don't let him burden you with them

spectralmoon

... Why would someone even say something like that? I admit to having an immature sense of humor, but I don't see it as funny on anyone's level.

Melaniec78

In my entire life of being overweight (roughly ten years now), I've never been blatantly told that I'm fat. Curvy, yes. A little chubby, yes.

A male co-worker of mine was joking around about craving some cookie dough, and when a female co-worker of mine asked what we were talking about, he said, "Don't worry about it, (name), I'm talking to a fatty about something."

I feel numb. I can't even cry.
I feel like saying, screw you.

You can fix fat. You can't fix ugly.

It's not in my nature though. Why bother wasting my energy?
I feel so ugly now though. I feel like everyone sees me as this walking pocket of fat.

I want to just get on the treadmill and run forever.

WOW!!! Is he plump? If so he may have thought he was having a bonding moment with you. If not you so should have gave it right back to him worse! JERK!

Jesstruhan

Sheesh did he think he was being funny? What a ****!
I say, plot a way to take sweet..sweet revenge out on that DB. How DARE he?!
That man clearly does not love himself or he would not need to find ways to take it out on other people.
You are beautiful
You are wonderful
You are kind
You are a better person than he ever will be
and he's lucky that none of us know him, or he'd be in some hot water.

That kind of thing just HURTS so much. When I was a kid, there were some boys that would tease me (i've always been chubby, until college) and call me all kinds of things. The worst was Fatas*. I still think it's the worst thing you can say to a person. It still makes me angry and want to kick things when I think about how they treated me and the things they said. Some people can be so cruel.

melissa_leah

What an idiot. I don't understand how people can just say stuff like that and be ok with it....

Lampy00512

What an ignorant *kitten* :grumble: I don't think you're fat, and your weight is fixable, but his stupidity? Not so much. If he makes another callous comment, speak up.

Liasings

He probably does have a small p***s.

LOL

...and he's trying to hide it by acting stupid in front of another woman.

Crys32

I'm sure he's immature and putting someone else down makes me feel better. I feel for you I work with a male coworker that's about the same way. But he's so young and immature I just dont talk to him, needless to say he hasnt ever said anything like that to me or he would be looking for his teeth.

But sometimes people like that arent worth the effort.

When your skinny; he's still going to be ugly.

Onespirit62

Don't let them worry you. He called you "fatty" because he must not have the intelligence to think of something nice. As you say, you can lose weight but a jerk is a jerk and that can't be fixed :-)

rosiejocotton

What a horrible person.
If you can get any positive from this situation, use it as motivation, because it's true, you can fix fat, but you can't fix ugly.

So when he's still an ugly, horrible person, you'll be a gorgeous, shapely, powerful woman. He'll feel SO STUPID!:bigsmile:

Just keep at it and he'll be sorry.

brittanidigby

Wow what a ****!

LindaCWy

In my entire life of being overweight (roughly ten years now), I've never been blatantly told that I'm fat. Curvy, yes. A little chubby, yes.

A male co-worker of mine was joking around about craving some cookie dough, and when a female co-worker of mine asked what we were talking about, he said, "Don't worry about it, (name), I'm talking to a fatty about something."

I feel numb. I can't even cry.
I feel like saying, screw you.

You can fix fat. You can't fix ugly.

It's not in my nature though. Why bother wasting my energy?
I feel so ugly now though. I feel like everyone sees me as this walking pocket of fat.

I want to just get on the treadmill and run forever.

Just put it in your pocket and save it for later. People are ignorant, don't let it bother you...as my husband says "be a duck and let it roll off your back like a drop of water".

Be a duck

1Kristine1

Spike his coffee Monday with a laxative..:devil:

Yesss.