Guys...do you wants bones or meat??

1…567911

Replies

  • Sereneee
    Sereneee Posts: 7 Member
    I like sweet and spicy seasonings with a nice thick gravy

    lol!!! love this! :flowerforyou:


    I find it a bit alarming that the OP needs someone else to set a formula on how one should look, based on men's preferences! That attitude definitely doesn't fall within the criteria of "sexy" or "confident" :wink:
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
    Hmm....how about worry about how YOU feel about what you look like, and the right people will naturally gravitate towards your confidence and happy glow?
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    What a REPUGNANT thread title. I am so freaking sick of reading "do you want meat or bones" Or "leave the bones for the dogs"

    Men like women, women of all shapes and sizes.

    I'm pretty thin but I've never been called bony, and I've never attracted dogs.

    Never expect the fit and "thinner" people support you on your little fitness endeavor if you chose do use such insulting phrases.
  • PetulantOne
    PetulantOne Posts: 2,131 Member
    Not all guys will like all body types.


    I think if you want men to like you as a result of weight loss, you should find a weight that you feel happy and comfortable at, because your confidence will end up being what is attractive. That's my opinion, anyway.

    ^this for sure.
    It's all about attitude and how you carry yourself. Everything else is just icing on the cake. My husband loves me and supports me, at whatever weight I happen to be, because what he appreciates most is who I am. (sorry that's cheesy, but it's true lol) If YOU are happy with you, it won't matter. Besides you don't want a guy that wouldn't love you if you were 30 pounds heavier imo. :happy:
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    What a REPUGNANT thread title. I am so freaking sick of reading "do you want meat or bones" Or "leave the bones for the dogs"

    Men like women, women of all shapes and sizes.

    I'm pretty thin but I've never been called bony, and I've never attracted dogs.

    Never expect the fit and "thinner" people support you on your little fitness endeavor if you chose do use such insulting phrases.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    There are men who are attracted to any female body type you can imagine. You see, different men have different preferences. You know. Like people.
  • bigphatcat
    bigphatcat Posts: 7,843 Member
    IMO...I like a woman (not a girl) with a little extra meat...love some Junk in the trunk with a small waiste...Don't kill me just being honest...But get to where YOU want to get and if someone don't like it then to hell with them...it's your bod!
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    Bones.

    I'll take care of providing the meat....
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    There are men who are attracted to any female body type you can imagine. You see, different men have different preferences. You know. Like people.
    You mean to tell me men are people?
  • skcardiog
    skcardiog Posts: 316 Member
    Fit - so more on the thin side is what I prefer.
  • flatbellybella
    flatbellybella Posts: 303 Member
    iSNT IT MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF THAN ANY OTHER PERSON TO 'FANCY YOU' ?

    I hate when people say things like this lol
  • elprincipito
    elprincipito Posts: 1,200 Member
    bones and meat! who wants a sack of skin laying on the floor!
  • cheninaerin
    cheninaerin Posts: 86
    "Eye of the beholder." To each his own, and more importantly do YOU like what you see in the mirror. My personal preference is a "fit" woman, not skinny nor chunky. She's still an obvious woman, but has worked hard to become a fit woman at that. Don't worry about muscle, it will take care of itself when you lift and workout and eat clean. Get fit, and your body will fall in line. And after you put in the hard work, YOU will love what you've accomplished...and not really give a damn what the guys think!
    ^^ this
  • ktillotson14
    ktillotson14 Posts: 331
    I think It's a happy medium. I love that I'm healthy and in shape but still have T&A. I work out and eat clean but I love my wine and southern, low country food.

    I don't stress.
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    iSNT IT MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF THAN ANY OTHER PERSON TO 'FANCY YOU' ?

    I hate when people say things like this lol

    Preach it! Like I eat low-calorie butter because I care about my health... pfft
  • blakejohn
    blakejohn Posts: 1,129 Member
    I'll just say cut the fat :wink:
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    iSNT IT MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF THAN ANY OTHER PERSON TO 'FANCY YOU' ?

    I hate when people say things like this lol
    It's far better than some moronic thread posted atleast once a day asking whether men prefer "meat" or "bones".
    But if you are worried about what you are to men as far as a main course, have at it.
  • ktillotson14
    ktillotson14 Posts: 331
    iSNT IT MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF THAN ANY OTHER PERSON TO 'FANCY YOU' ?

    I hate when people say things like this lol

    Preach it! Like I eat low-calorie butter because I care about my health... pfft

    Good job on cutting 22 calories :D
  • darleyschroeder
    darleyschroeder Posts: 322
    I am not a guy, but I think a guy would want healthy. Healthy can look a lot different for everybody.
    Take care of yourself. I think being a healthy weight is really important. You'll feel better and likely have more confidence, which is very attractive.
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    iSNT IT MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF THAN ANY OTHER PERSON TO 'FANCY YOU' ?

    I hate when people say things like this lol

    Preach it! Like I eat low-calorie butter because I care about my health... pfft

    Good job on cutting 22 calories :D

    Psh. I cut like 50 calories a serving and eat like 10 servings.
  • ktillotson14
    ktillotson14 Posts: 331
    Oh well congrats? I don't count calories to a tee.
  • daggs95
    daggs95 Posts: 51 Member
    if you want a goal weight, you should get your body fat calculated. then just decide what percentage you want to be at, there is a wide variety of healthy body fat percentages, and you can find pictures on the internet to give yourself an idea. People fall for each other over compatablity and a variety of other reasons that have nothing to do with the visual. A lot of the time as a relationship developes what we find attractive also evolves.
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    There are men who are attracted to any female body type you can imagine. You see, different men have different preferences. You know. Like people.
    You mean to tell me men are people?

    Sit down.


    Yes. I read it in a book. I think it was called All About Men.
  • ktillotson14
    ktillotson14 Posts: 331
    iSNT IT MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF THAN ANY OTHER PERSON TO 'FANCY YOU' ?

    I hate when people say things like this lol

    Preach it! Like I eat low-calorie butter because I care about my health... pfft

    Good job on cutting 22 calories :D

    Psh. I cut like 50 calories a serving and eat like 10 servings.

    Oh you effer!! I just realized it was you
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    iSNT IT MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF THAN ANY OTHER PERSON TO 'FANCY YOU' ?

    I hate when people say things like this lol

    Preach it! Like I eat low-calorie butter because I care about my health... pfft

    Good job on cutting 22 calories :D

    Psh. I cut like 50 calories a serving and eat like 10 servings.

    Oh you effer!! I just realized it was you
    uhmm.. is that bad? or good or?
  • ktillotson14
    ktillotson14 Posts: 331
    iSNT IT MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF THAN ANY OTHER PERSON TO 'FANCY YOU' ?

    I hate when people say things like this lol

    Preach it! Like I eat low-calorie butter because I care about my health... pfft

    Good job on cutting 22 calories :D

    Psh. I cut like 50 calories a serving and eat like 10 servings.

    Oh you effer!! I just realized it was you
    uhmm.. is that bad? or good or?

    We are no longer friends. What do you think darlin?
  • SomeoneSomeplace
    SomeoneSomeplace Posts: 1,094 Member
    My first boyfriend loveeedd me at 95 pounds when we first started dating. He was really into skinny girls but he didn't complain when I gained some weight after starting to lead a healthier lift style. My most recent ex preferred me at 135/140 when was a little chunky I prefer about 105.

    I'm going with what i like!

    Point is everything is difernet.

    Do what makes you feel good
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    iSNT IT MORE IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO LOVE YOURSELF THAN ANY OTHER PERSON TO 'FANCY YOU' ?

    I hate when people say things like this lol

    Preach it! Like I eat low-calorie butter because I care about my health... pfft

    Good job on cutting 22 calories :D

    Psh. I cut like 50 calories a serving and eat like 10 servings.

    Oh you effer!! I just realized it was you
    uhmm.. is that bad? or good or?

    We are no longer friends. What do you think darlin?

    well, I just got out of class and discovered this. So, I didn't even realize that was the situation.
  • hiker359
    hiker359 Posts: 577 Member
    Companionship, trust, openness, commitment, passion, humor, and love. You can't really put numbers or a size on those things.
  • ktillotson14
    ktillotson14 Posts: 331
    You were right...you are mean. I don't need judgemental posts at 4 am. I promise not to mess with your schedule.
This discussion has been closed.

Categories