Would you rather be "wanted" or "needed" ?

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  • stevepierson
    stevepierson Posts: 119
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    Wanted
  • ajohn252
    ajohn252 Posts: 158
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    I think needed honestly, I'm a total control freak and I might like
    knowing that I'm having that much of an effect on someone's life.
    That probably sounds weird so I'm probably not explaining it right lol
    Whatever
  • amanda8o
    amanda8o Posts: 352 Member
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    Wanted, I have kids that need me I don't need a man that needs me too
  • skinnysal301
    skinnysal301 Posts: 2
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    wanted, I hate needy girls
  • SherryGbaby
    SherryGbaby Posts: 50
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    wanted!
  • Shweedog
    Shweedog Posts: 883 Member
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    Considering the definition of need is to be in want of; and the definition of want is to feel a need or desire for...I'm gonna have to say both.
  • cdngirl71
    cdngirl71 Posts: 2,707 Member
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    Wanted!!
  • _Bob_
    _Bob_ Posts: 1,487 Member
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    Wanted, hands down
  • mississippi_queen
    mississippi_queen Posts: 483 Member
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    I want you to want me....... I need you to need me..... I love you to love me.... I'm begging you to beg me...... Just like the song says. I think they are pretty much a different manifestation of the same thing. :indifferent:
  • happydays2525
    happydays2525 Posts: 109 Member
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    Wanted!!
  • kbc525
    kbc525 Posts: 149
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    I had a friend once who told her now husband "let's get this straight... I don't NEED YOU.. I want you. I want you in my life, and if I no longer wanted you in my life.. I would remove you from it, and I wouldn't give it a second thought... because I only want things and when I no longer need anything from the things I want there's no need to keep them..."

    My fiance and I were floored...

    I want my fiance and I need him in my life.. he makes me a better person... he feels the same...
  • XXXMinnieXXX
    XXXMinnieXXX Posts: 3,459 Member
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    Definitely wanted! X
  • sgtlittle
    sgtlittle Posts: 258 Member
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    Wanted.
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
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    3. Loved:smooched:
  • Dayna154
    Dayna154 Posts: 910 Member
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    Wanted for sure, someone who needs you is scary and you can never live up to their unrealistic expectations.
  • yelpat
    yelpat Posts: 414 Member
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    Why can't you have both :)
  • statickey
    statickey Posts: 309 Member
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    Fundamentally I think men like to be needed .

    Woman need to be wanted.

    For me i think it's a little of both. I want the woman I love. So because of that want, I now need her. It's nice to be wanted, but I also thrive on being needed. I think it's the want that creates the need.
    By needing me I mean, I want to be the guy she can call and say “my car broke down will you come pick me up?" or " I need your help." “ I’m scared”…ect.
    So..yeah while is great to be wanted..in the long run I’d rather be needed. For this simple fact ..If they never felt that they needed us (men )… they would be with their girlfriends. They are less hairy, can share most clothing, know more about their bodies and don’t leave the seat up. They just put up with our sht because they need us.The fact that they want us every now and again is a bonus.
    after reading that back… my brain hurts.. good luck with that. Made sense when I typed it

    Love this
  • firefightingflip
    firefightingflip Posts: 65 Member
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    Wanted
  • p_e_wright
    p_e_wright Posts: 47 Member
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    Wanted. Neediness gets on my nerves.
  • msrat1
    msrat1 Posts: 43
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    Exactly what I would have said.....needy people are annoying

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