Men what are u looking for in a women

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  • jwaitman
    jwaitman Posts: 367 Member
    Aight, i'll play....

    Fun personality
    Decent looks help
    Common sense
    Able to support themselves
    Sense of humor
    Playful
    friendly
    Non-smoker, no drugs either
    Plenty of self esteem and self confidence
    Not super jealous
    Trustworthy

    I'll start with that....

    Good answer!
  • Princess_Sameen
    Princess_Sameen Posts: 284 Member
    one that doesn't talk.

    Thats never going to happen! lol
  • volleypc
    volleypc Posts: 134 Member
    Someone that is respectful of others. Someone that would rather be out doing something than laying on the couch. Someone that can laugh at theirself and enjoys life. Someone that cares enough about their health that they want to take care of theirself. Someone that doesn't have a foul mouth and doesn't call other people names.
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    For her to be: funny, intelligent, grateful, sarcastic, sporty and have long legs.

    Must also be able to cook bacon just right.

    I think that's what every man wants....

    .....the bacon nice and crispy!
    No, no, bacon should have some chew to it. Otherwise it's just salty powder. And it should be baked, in the oven, not flambeed on a skillet.

    You are both wrong. Smoked bacon for the win!

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    Drooling!!! :love:

    I was gonna add in my 2 cents but then I saw this and forgot what I was going to say....
  • paulsmisses
    paulsmisses Posts: 178
    <~~ Found her

    very sweet! would hope my hubby would answer the same!
  • mslack01
    mslack01 Posts: 823 Member
    For her to be: funny, intelligent, grateful, sarcastic, sporty and have long legs.

    Must also be able to cook bacon just right.

    DREAM WOMAN!

    Sorry guys, I'm married already! Muah!!! (Wait...never mind...this isn't me. I have short legs...shapely, but short). Your dream girl may still be out there!
  • MileyClimb
    MileyClimb Posts: 414 Member
    you guys sound like me.
    No kidding man. I've given up even defining what I might or might not be looking for. If she's breathing, and seems interested, we'll take it from there.

    I wouldn't know if a woman is interested or not. I can't read the signs anymore. That spells a lifetime of singleness in my future.

    Are we related??

    Add three kids to that (I have custody), and you'd have a recipe for me lol.
  • biggsexy7
    biggsexy7 Posts: 78 Member
    A confident woman. One who is beautiful and really doesn't know it. A real person who isn't caught up on stupid things and understands everyday isn't perfect and it's not a fairy tale we live in. A woman who I'm attracted to as well as I am to her. Someone who will share in the house hold things and doesn't expect to have everything given to them.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I would say that the vast majority of men who are straight prefer a woman with a vagina.
  • brightpebbles89
    brightpebbles89 Posts: 78 Member
    I like a woman who wants to cuddle 24/7, hold hands all the time, long walks on the beach, someone I can truly open up my inner feelings to, a woman who gives a three finger prostate massage, likes to kiss, spend hours talking about nothing but talking about everything, and likes to watch the notebook with me. Sighs. There just aren't many good women out there anymore..

    Marry me :flowerforyou:

    There are plenty of good women out there but they like bad boys or those very feminine guys that wear skinny jeans and preach about how evil corp America is.

    hey hey hey! not true! i want to know where all the normal guys have gone! the ones that don't feel the need to straighten there hair! and bad boys are just not worth the time or energy.. where are the just generally decent guys!!
  • Charice
    Charice Posts: 188 Member
    hey hey hey! not true! i want to know where all the normal guys have gone! the ones that don't feel the need to straighten there hair! and bad boys are just not worth the time or energy.. where are the just generally decent guys!!
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    Here, here!

    I also find it interesting that so many men on this thread have said they want someone intelligent and driven and successful...I have worked hard to get a Master's Degree and have a good job but when it comes to dating I have been told men aren't interested because my "success intimidates them". So, if men really want a successful woman, it must mean I am completely non-attractive physically and they can't get past that to get to know me...or success isn't what they really want in the first place.
  • trust, honesty, sense of humor , faith, goals, intelligence, and humility to name a few... the rest you just know when you find it
  • FitBunnyEm
    FitBunnyEm Posts: 320
    A confident woman. One who is beautiful and really doesn't know it. A real person who isn't caught up on stupid things and understands everyday isn't perfect and it's not a fairy tale we live in. A woman who I'm attracted to as well as I am to her. Someone who will share in the house hold things and doesn't expect to have everything given to them.
    great answer..nice
  • Kind, funny, health conscience, compassionate and a saver in regards to finance.
  • MikeM53082
    MikeM53082 Posts: 1,199 Member
    I like my women older, rich, and divorced. Addiction to plastic surgery and reality TV is also a plus.
  • Personally, I am >most< drawn to a woman who....

    ....is good at tennis / is a good athlete / enjoys staying very active.
    ....is a vegan / vegetarian / health conscious / loves animals / cares about the environment.
    ....is creative / appreciates all forms of art.
    ....enjoys reading and learning new things / watches very little television / is not a pop culture addict.
    ....enjoys the outdoors (hiking / camping / gardening / beaching / traveling).
    ....has an interesting hobby or hobbies.
    ....genuinely enjoys conversation.
    ....has a glass is half full mentality / gives others the benefit of the doubt / withholds judgement.
    ....enjoys acquiring good karma / helps the less fortunate / pays it forward.
    ....can make fun of herself / enjoys laughing.
    ....can simultaneously juggle and solve three or more Rubik's Cubes. :wink:
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    For her to be: funny, intelligent, grateful, sarcastic, sporty and have long legs.

    Must also be able to cook bacon just right.

    I think that's what every man wants....

    .....the bacon nice and crispy!
    No, no, bacon should have some chew to it. Otherwise it's just salty powder. And it should be baked, in the oven, not flambeed on a skillet.

    You are both wrong. Smoked bacon for the win!

    556367_10100890766523635_2673054_n.jpg

    Drooling!!! :love:

    I was gonna add in my 2 cents but then I saw this and forgot what I was going to say....

    See, this proves my point. All men REALLY want is mad bacon cooking skillz and a vagina.
  • WhoTheHellIsBen
    WhoTheHellIsBen Posts: 1,238 Member
    Ok I'm not a man so I'm not going to answer the above question, however I would say this really depends on the man, the loser just warns your money, the control freak wants you to obey his every whim, and the womaniser just wants one thing.

    If your asking if there are any decent men out there the answers yes, I married one of them, but he was the shy quiet type who looked nothing like the kind of guys I usually went for, but I fancied him and thought he would do till something better came along so I chased him. We have been married twelve years because I soon realised I was not going to get better than him.

    So widen your horizons in what you want you man to look like but don't drop your standards of how you want to be treated, happy hunting xxx


    After reading this post I realized I want a woman who proof reads, spell checks, and lastly someone who leaves crazy at home.
  • biggsexy7
    biggsexy7 Posts: 78 Member
    A confident woman. One who is beautiful and really doesn't know it. A real person who isn't caught up on stupid things and understands everyday isn't perfect and it's not a fairy tale we live in. A woman who I'm attracted to as well as I am to her. Someone who will share in the house hold things and doesn't expect to have everything given to them.
    great answer..nice

    Thank you. Now the part of finding her.......
  • BROscience_PHD
    BROscience_PHD Posts: 215 Member
    applicable kitchen-ing skills
  • scorpiotwinkles
    scorpiotwinkles Posts: 215 Member
    Good Looking.
    Intelligent- Don't have to be a rocket scientist, just not completely dumb.
    Must be able to cook.
    Must enjoy or at least can tolerate the same hobbies that I am in to.
    Not be very high maintenance.
    Have goals in life.

    hmmm.... maybe that's why I'm still single, I'm too picky. Oh well I enjoy the single life!

    Sorry, I am taken LOL - married for 29 years :)
  • Papalov100
    Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
    Good answers btw man how many of u Christian?
  • Papalov100
    Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
    I like a woman who wants to cuddle 24/7, hold hands all the time, long walks on the beach, someone I can truly open up my inner feelings to, a woman who gives a three finger prostate massage, likes to kiss, spend hours talking about nothing but talking about everything, and likes to watch the notebook with me. Sighs. There just aren't many good women out there anymore..
    . Wow . I really like this answer
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    I like a woman who wants to cuddle 24/7, hold hands all the time, long walks on the beach, someone I can truly open up my inner feelings to, a woman who gives a three finger prostate massage, likes to kiss, spend hours talking about nothing but talking about everything, and likes to watch the notebook with me. Sighs. There just aren't many good women out there anymore..
    I can't believe everyone missed that.
  • Papalov100
    Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
    Ok guys I have not seen one of my favortie answers
  • magneticreikipaul
    magneticreikipaul Posts: 61 Member
    my love muscle ;)
  • Josie_lifting_cats
    Josie_lifting_cats Posts: 949 Member

    Must also be able to cook bacon just right.

    Oddly enough, this is exactly what I look for in a man.
  • Josie_lifting_cats
    Josie_lifting_cats Posts: 949 Member
    applicable kitchen-ing skills

    And this is where I fail miserably. Thus why a man that can cook bacon is important.

    I buy good food, though.... I just ruin it once I get it alone in the kitchen.
  • starcatcher1975
    starcatcher1975 Posts: 292 Member
    I find that when you stop looking is when she shows up!

    That's what they say, but I stopped looking over 7 years ago and she hasn't shown up yet...LOL!!!!!!!

    No kidding man. I've given up even defining what I might or might not be looking for. If she's breathing, and seems interested, we'll take it from there.

    :laugh: I find this hilarious because that's what people tell me about finding a guy. Of course the people who tell me this are the married/in a long term relationship ones :grumble:

    I quit looking so long ago I wouldn't even notice if one was interested now
  • Papalov100
    Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
    :love: . Guys if u want to talk to me u can I'm single