The man and his horrid comment
krahnyk
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K so... Lover made a comment this weekend that made me want to take his head off, cover it with chocolate sauce and EAT IT. He grabbed my behind and said "Hey we need to tone this up so I have something to grab onto."
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:::blink:: <---that was my reply.
I touched his forehead and said "we need to tone THIS up in HERE so you don't make idiotic comments like that EVER AGAIN."
Mind you he is the kindest man I've EVER known in my LIFE and he loves me no matter what but SERIOUSLY!?!?!?! SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEERIOUSLY?! Dude. Now I have a freaking complex. Oh...and then about 15 minutes later he said "wanna go get ice cream?"
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Reeeeeeeeeeeally? Why are they so daft? Why...pleasegodtellmewhy....
::blink:::
:::blink:: <---that was my reply.
I touched his forehead and said "we need to tone THIS up in HERE so you don't make idiotic comments like that EVER AGAIN."
Mind you he is the kindest man I've EVER known in my LIFE and he loves me no matter what but SERIOUSLY!?!?!?! SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEERIOUSLY?! Dude. Now I have a freaking complex. Oh...and then about 15 minutes later he said "wanna go get ice cream?"
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Reeeeeeeeeeeally? Why are they so daft? Why...pleasegodtellmewhy....
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Been there, done that. Not cool.
Best guy ever... never thought he would say he wasnt attracted because i stopped going to the gym and gained weight :0/
Knife thru my soul right there^^^^0 -
Holy moly! THAT hurts. What a dork! Did you knock him out?0
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Seems perfectly logical to me. :laugh:0
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Glad that you had a comeback and called him on his horrifically rude comment!0
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Great comeback
My fiance and I were watching a movie Saturday night. He was sitting on the couch and I was laying with my legs in his lap. He ws rubbing my feet and legs and butt and kept poking and pinching me and saying I felt "weird." I told him he had better come up with some kinder words if he wanted to keep touching me!0 -
Glad that you had a comeback and called him on his horrifically rude comment!
He was SOOOOOOO sorry... he was begging forgiveness all day. I might see how long I can stretch this out.0 -
That's when you grab his crotch and say "we need to work on this so I have something to grab!" LOL0
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That's when you grab his crotch and say "we need to work on this so I have something to grab!" LOL
Well...fortunately for Lover we have no complaints there. Or I WOULD HAVE!0 -
My hubby woulda been picking a few of his teeth up off the ground after that one!0
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My boyfriend would lose the ability to ever have children if he ever made a comment like that.0
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He really could have approached that a little differently! There is always a nice way to say things, that was just rude! My bf would have gotten slap and no nookie for a while.0
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That's when you grab his crotch and say "we need to work on this so I have something to grab!" LOL
Absolutely BEST come back! The forehead this was good, but this is hilarious!0 -
You should have been like, "What a coincidence, I was just thinking the same thing about your d***."
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That's when you grab his crotch and say "we need to work on this so I have something to grab!" LOL
Nevermind, I see someone else was thinking like me! :laugh:0 -
Sounds like he said it jokingly. My boyfriend says stupid **** like that all the time.
Great comeback though hehe0 -
So...you want us to lie to you?
I'm probably going to get chewed out for this but seriously, sometimes we have to tell you that you need to start watching what you eat and hit the gym. Would you rather we start cheating on you (not that I would, just saying) or just plain dump you with the lame "oh its not you, its me" ?
Please, don't make my post a gender issue and I perfectly understand getting hurt over comments like these however, the significant others can be in a hard place and a rock with these situations0 -
hmmm, yes this comment really seems ridiculous but you know how we are sometimes. I know I've told my husband before "if I ever start getting fat TELL ME!" - of course I did gain weight and he never said anything (which I wish he did). Some men take that seriously.
He could have chosen a better way to tell you though lol. Except, anything he would have said probably would have caused the same reaction. If you don't want these comments just be straight with him and tell him you don't care to hear his opinion on your body if it's negative. He probably thought he was being encouraging!0 -
Wow....I know how that goes. This weekend I was trying on jeans and my guy goes.."I like how they look from the front but they make your butt look funny when you walk" WTF??!! I swear they have no filters!!!0
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GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE!That's when you grab his crotch and say "we need to work on this so I have something to grab!" LOL
Nevermind, I see someone else was thinking like me! :laugh: 0 -
I love how you responded. Men can be such idiots sometimes, even the smart ones...0
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hmmm, yes this comment really seems ridiculous but you know how we are sometimes. I know I've told my husband before "if I ever start getting fat TELL ME!" - of course I did gain weight and he never said anything (which I wish he did). Some men take that seriously.
He could have chosen a better way to tell you though lol. Except, anything he would have said probably would have caused the same reaction. If you don't want these comments just be straight with him and tell him you don't care to hear his opinion on your body if it's negative. He probably thought he was being encouraging!
Thank you!0 -
I'm just enjoying the comments and come backs. When I was working on my bum muscles my boyfriend was very happy that he had more to grab.0
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So...you want us to lie to you?
I'm probably going to get chewed out for this but seriously, sometimes we have to tell you that you need to start watching what you eat and hit the gym. Would you rather we start cheating on you (not that I would, just saying) or just plain dump you with the lame "oh its not you, its me" ?
Please, don't make my post a gender issue and I perfectly understand getting hurt over comments like these however, the significant others can be in a hard place and a rock with these situations
^^ I agree. If you can't count on your SO to tell you when you need to lay off the cupcakes, who else is gonna tell you?0 -
I know this will sound a bit sexist but women shouldn't take everything men say too seriously. Most of the times they don't think thoroughly before they speak so they end up choosing bad words even though they never mean ill. It has a lot to do with us, women, looking for hidden meanings under every word as well.0
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NICE COME BACK, though!!!0
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It's a difficult conversation to have, and it's not easy to bring it up without accidentally offending your sig-o. I would posit that none of us (certainly not on this particular webpage) likes it when we gain weight, and we're probably aware of it when we do. But some topics are taboo in relationships (different topics for different relationships, but this topic seems to be pretty common), and suddenly x amound of time goes by, and it becomes an unspoken thing in the room, for one person or the other. Thus, the blundered approach of trying to make a joke out of it, that backfired. It's clearly something on his mind, but he didn't know how to bring it up. He tried to make a joke out of it, and clearly that approach was an epic failure. But his attempt was to communicate, which is a GOOD THING.
Granted, your comeback was awesome, but you might want to re-start the conversation with him. Not with 'so, remember that bone head thing you said to me,' which will only make everything more defensive, but 'so, I wanted to talk with you about how you're feeling about what kind of shape I'm in,' or something like that. Have the talk! It might end up bringing you closer together and increasing your ability to confide in each other, even about really senstive things.0 -
The guy I was dating when I first started losing weight told me not to lose weight because he likes big butts.
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Wow....I know how that goes. This weekend I was trying on jeans and my guy goes.."I like how they look from the front but they make your butt look funny when you walk" WTF??!! I swear they have no filters!!!
If he was thinking it, other people might have too. I'd rather have my husband tell me if something doesn't look good than to walk around like a doofus all day. Maybe it's just me, but I don't see the problem with this comment.....especially since he did say they looked nice from the front. Sounds like he was offering a valid opinion.0
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