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Erica27511
Erica27511 Posts: 490 Member
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Do you tell your spouse "I love you" every time you hang up the phone with him/her?
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  • EmCarroll1990
    EmCarroll1990 Posts: 2,832 Member
    Yes, we do. The way I see it, any time could be the last time I talk with him.
  • morgansmom02
    morgansmom02 Posts: 1,131 Member
    No, usually I am annoyed by the end of the phone call. But it is a really good idea to do it because you never know what might happen
  • Erica27511
    Erica27511 Posts: 490 Member
    True. I don't and a friend of mine suggested I should. I basically told her to mind her own business.

    BTW, that is a bangin black dress!!!!!!!
  • macpatti
    macpatti Posts: 4,280 Member
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcG9AP-QP2Y
  • ScientistStudy
    ScientistStudy Posts: 249 Member
    Not every time no. We don't say it that often in general, maybe twice a week.
  • Erica27511
    Erica27511 Posts: 490 Member
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcG9AP-QP2Y

    LOVE LOVE LOVE King of Queens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    you told your friend to mind her own business and then brought it to get the opinions/actions of hundreds of strangers?
    :tongue:

    to answer - almost every time. in our 7 years of marriage, probably less than 5 ended without saying it.
  • Erica27511
    Erica27511 Posts: 490 Member
    you told your friend to mind her own business and then brought it to get the opinions/actions of hundreds of strangers?
    :tongue:

    I did! HAHAHA I said it in a nice way ...that should count for something! It just got me thinking and doubting myself. UUUGHGHHGHGGHGH
  • macpatti
    macpatti Posts: 4,280 Member
    LOVE LOVE LOVE King of Queens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Me, too! It's funny how so many things that happen in real life remind me of one of their episodes. I still watch the reruns every night.
  • yokurio
    yokurio Posts: 116 Member
    I used to when I was married. The problem was trying to make sure to reassure that it wasn't just something you said and that you meant it.
  • Shelbert79
    Shelbert79 Posts: 510 Member
    Yes, every time we leave the house, every time we get off the phone and every night before bed...and other times throughout the day, even if we're frustrated with eachother.
  • marie_cressman
    marie_cressman Posts: 980 Member
    we do tell each other "i love you, (insert name)" when we get off the phone. having been through 2 year long deployments, we have learned that anything can happen. even when i want to throat punch him for being a douc#e sometimes, i still tell him i love him. LOL
  • kimnaaron4ever
    kimnaaron4ever Posts: 61
    I certainly do and always will! I made a promise that he will never ever wonder about my feelings for him and that is just one way that I do it!
  • saxmaniac
    saxmaniac Posts: 1,133 Member
    Not really... predictability with that phrase can drain the meaning out of it. I save those exact words for the moments that need it.

    Instead, I prefer to overload her phone with dirty text messages at various inconvenient times.
  • jmelyan23
    jmelyan23 Posts: 1,648 Member
    Yes, any time either one of us leaves the other or hanging up the phone. It's just something we've always done.
  • mtaylor33557
    mtaylor33557 Posts: 542 Member
    ... most of the time.

    Sometimes conversations end in a hurry, with a preschooler around there's a lot of "oh no.. don't do that.. no.. oh, I gotta go!" moments, but generally we try to.
  • lilmisfit
    lilmisfit Posts: 860 Member
    Yes, every time we leave the house, every time we get off the phone and every night before bed...and other times throughout the day, even if we're frustrated with eachother.

    ^^^ This
  • ShandiH
    ShandiH Posts: 232 Member
    Yep, we do. Although, I must admit that when we get into an argument saying "I love you" is the worst feeling that can come out of my mouth . . . don't know why it bothers me so much when I'm upset with him . . . I've got plenty other issues though. :frown:
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    Sure do.
  • ErB56
    ErB56 Posts: 71 Member
    About half the time on the phone, but I never leave the house without kissing her and telling her I love her!
  • montana_girl
    montana_girl Posts: 1,403 Member
    I try to too... don't always remember based on our conservation.

    However, I do with my son. Every time. Even if he has annoyed the heck out of me or ticked me off, I end every conversation with "I love you" or "You know I still love you regardless of what stupid stuff you do!" :tongue:
  • impyimpyaj
    impyimpyaj Posts: 1,073 Member
    Every time we hang up the phone, at the end of most emails, and at least a few times throughout the day. It's just what we do. We also make sure to tell the children at least a few times through the day, along with some good snuggle time.
  • Tonnina
    Tonnina Posts: 979 Member
    Yep, and each time we text. It's how we know the conversation is over! We also tell each other I love you before bed, before leaving the house... When we are just sitting around the house together... :-)
  • marie_cressman
    marie_cressman Posts: 980 Member
    Not really... predictability with that phrase can drain the meaning out of it. I save those exact words for the moments that need it.

    Instead, I prefer to overload her phone with dirty text messages at various inconvenient times.


    ^^ this... i overload my husbands phone with pictures and texts.... while he's at work. and when deployed i overload his email... haha!
  • coachblt
    coachblt Posts: 1,090
    Not married, but the entire family says it to each other before we hang up the phone. It's a habit now and a habit I have instilled in my daughters. A good habit to get into, I'd say.
  • AliciaNorris81
    AliciaNorris81 Posts: 185 Member
    After 11 years, yes.

    Every time we hang up, end a text message, go to bed or part ways. It isn't because "you never know what will happen", it is because we just do.

    He also will not sleep at night until I give him a kiss. :blushing: It is really annoying if I am upset and pouting and he makes me kiss him and will pick on me until I do. Usually end up laughing so hard I forget why I am mad. :grumble:
  • butterfli7o
    butterfli7o Posts: 1,319 Member
    :heart: No..we probably say it a couple times a week. I think I'll text him right now.
  • SuperAmie
    SuperAmie Posts: 307 Member
    yep!!Say it with meaning everytime too!! If we're mad we wont force it out.. even though we still love eachother.. We dont want it to turn into just a saying. We see each other about once a month (for a weekend) because of his military training..
  • aprilgrl27
    aprilgrl27 Posts: 176 Member
    Yes. Well with my ex-husband we didn't after the first 3 years because he turned into a #1 Craftsmen tool and usually had a mistress at his side so he couldn't.

    But, my last boyfriend, totally.
  • BNA_Mommy
    BNA_Mommy Posts: 36
    We tell each other "I Love You" all the time...on the phone, in a text, driving in the car, eating dinner, etc....not because it's something to say, but because we actually DO.

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