I LOVE YOU

Erica27511

Do you tell your spouse "I love you" every time you hang up the phone with him/her?

EmCarroll1990

Yes, we do. The way I see it, any time could be the last time I talk with him.

morgansmom02

No, usually I am annoyed by the end of the phone call. But it is a really good idea to do it because you never know what might happen

Erica27511

True. I don't and a friend of mine suggested I should. I basically told her to mind her own business.

BTW, that is a bangin black dress!!!!!!!

macpatti

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcG9AP-QP2Y

ScientistStudy

Not every time no. We don't say it that often in general, maybe twice a week.

Erica27511

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcG9AP-QP2Y

LOVE LOVE LOVE King of Queens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wolverine66

you told your friend to mind her own business and then brought it to get the opinions/actions of hundreds of strangers?


to answer - almost every time. in our 7 years of marriage, probably less than 5 ended without saying it.

Erica27511

you told your friend to mind her own business and then brought it to get the opinions/actions of hundreds of strangers?

I did! HAHAHA I said it in a nice way ...that should count for something! It just got me thinking and doubting myself. UUUGHGHHGHGGHGH

macpatti

LOVE LOVE LOVE King of Queens!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Me, too! It's funny how so many things that happen in real life remind me of one of their episodes. I still watch the reruns every night.

yokurio

I used to when I was married. The problem was trying to make sure to reassure that it wasn't just something you said and that you meant it.

Shelbert79

Yes, every time we leave the house, every time we get off the phone and every night before bed...and other times throughout the day, even if we're frustrated with eachother.

marie_cressman

we do tell each other "i love you, (insert name)" when we get off the phone. having been through 2 year long deployments, we have learned that anything can happen. even when i want to throat punch him for being a douc#e sometimes, i still tell him i love him. LOL

kimnaaron4ever

I certainly do and always will! I made a promise that he will never ever wonder about my feelings for him and that is just one way that I do it!

saxmaniac

Not really... predictability with that phrase can drain the meaning out of it. I save those exact words for the moments that need it.

Instead, I prefer to overload her phone with dirty text messages at various inconvenient times.

jmelyan23

Yes, any time either one of us leaves the other or hanging up the phone. It's just something we've always done.

mtaylor33557

... most of the time.

Sometimes conversations end in a hurry, with a preschooler around there's a lot of "oh no.. don't do that.. no.. oh, I gotta go!" moments, but generally we try to.

lilmisfit

Yes, every time we leave the house, every time we get off the phone and every night before bed...and other times throughout the day, even if we're frustrated with eachother.

^^^ This

ShandiH

Yep, we do. Although, I must admit that when we get into an argument saying "I love you" is the worst feeling that can come out of my mouth . . . don't know why it bothers me so much when I'm upset with him . . . I've got plenty other issues though. :frown:

SPNLuver83

Sure do.

ErB56

About half the time on the phone, but I never leave the house without kissing her and telling her I love her!

montana_girl

I try to too... don't always remember based on our conservation.

However, I do with my son. Every time. Even if he has annoyed the heck out of me or ticked me off, I end every conversation with "I love you" or "You know I still love you regardless of what stupid stuff you do!"

impyimpyaj

Every time we hang up the phone, at the end of most emails, and at least a few times throughout the day. It's just what we do. We also make sure to tell the children at least a few times through the day, along with some good snuggle time.

Tonnina

Yep, and each time we text. It's how we know the conversation is over! We also tell each other I love you before bed, before leaving the house... When we are just sitting around the house together... :-)

marie_cressman

Not really... predictability with that phrase can drain the meaning out of it. I save those exact words for the moments that need it.

Instead, I prefer to overload her phone with dirty text messages at various inconvenient times.

^^ this... i overload my husbands phone with pictures and texts.... while he's at work. and when deployed i overload his email... haha!

coachblt

Not married, but the entire family says it to each other before we hang up the phone. It's a habit now and a habit I have instilled in my daughters. A good habit to get into, I'd say.

AliciaNorris81

After 11 years, yes.

Every time we hang up, end a text message, go to bed or part ways. It isn't because "you never know what will happen", it is because we just do.

He also will not sleep at night until I give him a kiss. :blushing: It is really annoying if I am upset and pouting and he makes me kiss him and will pick on me until I do. Usually end up laughing so hard I forget why I am mad. :grumble:

butterfli7o

No..we probably say it a couple times a week. I think I'll text him right now.

SuperAmie

yep!!Say it with meaning everytime too!! If we're mad we wont force it out.. even though we still love eachother.. We dont want it to turn into just a saying. We see each other about once a month (for a weekend) because of his military training..

aprilgrl27

Yes. Well with my ex-husband we didn't after the first 3 years because he turned into a #1 Craftsmen tool and usually had a mistress at his side so he couldn't.

But, my last boyfriend, totally.

BNA_Mommy

We tell each other "I Love You" all the time...on the phone, in a text, driving in the car, eating dinner, etc....not because it's something to say, but because we actually DO.