relationships and F***ing up
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REVENGE!!
I've cheated on every by who has cheated on me! Then told them as I broke up with them so they would know how it would feel!
Weather it was just a kiss or whatever, all i would say is you thought you were pretty sneaky, but I was sneakier, so it would drive them crazy what I actually did
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People often use the excuse "We are animals and aren't designed to be monogamous..."
No. We have self-awareness, self-knowledge, and the ability to use that. Do not use the age-old "we aren't designed/made..."
There are plenty of animals that mate for life.
There is always going to be someone who you are attracted to, physically. It is okay to look and admire, it isn't okay to touch [unless you and your partner are into that and can agree].0 -
Meh. I've ****ed up in my relationship. I was a sad, depressed and anxiety-ridden person and my relationship was in the toilet. We fixed it. Forgiven. Better now than ever.0
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You can't a fault a person for cheating if they're upgrading. lol
Dispicable...that's all I have to say to this.
As a person who has been cheated on numerous times I can say that I still don't know why people do it. But I can say even though it has happend to me over and over I myself have never done it because anyone with true integrity does not. A relationship isn't a test so why cheat? Either you want to be with the person or you do not...simple as that. If you want more than one partner DO NOT committ! Personally if the thought of cheating even crosses my mind I break up with the person because it is apparent to me that my feelings have changed.0 -
People who do it either
a. lack maturity
b. do not feel as strongly as the partner
A mature adult who is 100% in love with their partner will not cheat, or lie.
^^ This... and also:
c. emotional maturity
d. personal insecurities which cause them to seek out validation/attention0 -
Diversity in sexual partners is intensely gratifying.0
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I think the question is what did YOU do to make them cheat? I mean nobody cheats unless you do something to MAKE them cheat. Duuurrr....0
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*kicks rocks* Dang!CUZ IT'Z A F*CKIN RUSH BABY!!! DON'T GET CAUGHT!! YAH!!!
LMAO!
IMO I dont think humans are a "mate for life" species. But if you find the right person and stick it out, its worth it. I'm personally done being a hoe, so no cheating here
LMAO at my own comment "I'm done being a ho" <---- Titties hangin out LOL0 -
I don't understand cheating. If the guy I am with is more interested sexually in another woman then fine. Yea that sucks, but I'll get over it. Just have the decency to finish with me before you jump into bed with another woman. And if you don't want to break up then don't put your penis in someone else. Pretty simple.
Personally I feel like it's a control thing for both sexes.0 -
Usually, it's being a p*ssy. ...too much of a p*ssy to own up to your true feelings, so instead you mess it up. A friend of mine does it on purpose because he's too much of a p*ssy to break up. So, he just fu*ks it up on purpose so they have a fight and it ends that way. Crazy.0
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I think the question is what did YOU do to make them cheat? I mean nobody cheats unless you do something to MAKE them cheat. Duuurrr....
Really???? Judging from responses here...some people think it is completely ok to do this just because they want to, It doesn't have anything to do with the other person in the relationship.0 -
Diversity in sexual partners is intensely gratifying.
Most laconically described - basic human instinct if not constrained! 0 -
I don't understand cheating. If the guy I am with is more interested sexually in another woman then fine. Yea that sucks, but I'll get over it. Just have the decency to finish with me before you jump into bed with another woman. And if you don't want to break up then don't put your penis in someone else. Pretty simple.
Personally I feel like it's a control thing for both sexes.
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This!!!0 -
You can't a fault a person for cheating if they're upgrading. lol
If your partner is not giving you what you need then it only makes you crave it more....and it can be anything from interesting conversation to hot sex.....but if your not getting what you require at home it is human nature to find it somewhere else0 -
I think the question is what did YOU do to make them cheat? I mean nobody cheats unless you do something to MAKE them cheat. Duuurrr....
Really???? Judging from responses here...some people think it is completely ok to do this just because they want to, It doesn't have anything to do with what the other person in the relationship.
Oh no, I think you are completly mistaken... it takes two to tango.0 -
You can't a fault a person for cheating if they're upgrading. lol
If your partner is not giving you what you need then it only makes you crave it more....and it can be anything from interesting conversation to hot sex.....but if your not getting what you require at home it is human nature to find it somewhere else
Ok fine! They are not giving you what you need...so why not break up with that person instead of cheating on them?0 -
Usually, it's being a p*ssy. ...too much of a p*ssy to own up to your true feelings, so instead you mess it up. A friend of mine does it on purpose because he's too much of a p*ssy to break up. So, he just fu*ks it up on purpose so they have a fight and it ends that way. Crazy.
I agree, It is the easy way out. Also I think guys tend to have a hard time with the monogamy thing because it kind of goes against the biology of things. I don't know that a guy would cheat if he was with the right person and same for the woman.0 -
I think the question is what did YOU do to make them cheat? I mean nobody cheats unless you do something to MAKE them cheat. Duuurrr....
Really???? Judging from responses here...some people think it is completely ok to do this just because they want to, It doesn't have anything to do with the other person in the relationship.
You sound dumb as s**t! Just because i think its "ok or acceptable/expected" in some cases has nothing to do with anything i want to do. I would never cheat on my husband. How about you get over whatever someone did to you in the past and put your big girl undies on! Get some thick skin and take a f**king joke!0 -
9 million different reasons. Some are cuz the cheaters are complete narcisstic *kitten*, some are insecure, some are troubled, some have three feet, some have daddy issues, some have mommy issues, some hate bugs, some drink syrup.
There is no absolute answer.0 -
ITS SO FUN! LIKE I LOVE MCDONALDS CHEESEBURGERS AND FRIES. OMG SOOOO YUMMY OMG OMG OMG BUT SOMETIMES? I WANT TO GO EAT AT WENDYS OR BURGER KING. STILL A CHEESEBURGER BUT DIFFERENT TASTE. ITS NICE TO TASTE DIFFERENT CHEESBURGERS OMG OMG OMG BESIDE ZOMG ITS NATURAL TO STRAY OF COURSE HA HA HAHA0
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I think the question is what did YOU do to make them cheat? I mean nobody cheats unless you do something to MAKE them cheat. Duuurrr....
Really???? Judging from responses here...some people think it is completely ok to do this just because they want to, It doesn't have anything to do with what the other person in the relationship.
Oh no, I think you are completly mistaken... it takes two to tango.
I am not saying that the problems in the realtionship are not caused by the other person, but why is it ok to cheat because of those problems? Why not just deal with the problems or break up with that person? Cheating is a cowardly response for an insecure person!0 -
I think the question is what did YOU do to make them cheat? I mean nobody cheats unless you do something to MAKE them cheat. Duuurrr....
Really???? Judging from responses here...some people think it is completely ok to do this just because they want to, It doesn't have anything to do with what the other person in the relationship.
Oh no, I think you are completly mistaken... it takes two to tango.
Disagree. If there is a problem in the relationship that is 'driving' the person to cheat, say they are unsatisfied sexually, then it should be worked out and discussed. If you can't work it out, you break up, and THEN you go get it elsewhere.0 -
With another friend I have, his wife and he have not had sex in 2.5 years. He's ready to cheat and has seriously been thinking about it.
Sometimes, it is the other person causing it.
They have kids, so he doesn't want out of the relationship, but he does want to have sex. And, he wants sex with his wife, but she just wont do it. So...what's a guy to do?0 -
CUZ IT'Z A F*CKIN RUSH BABY!!! DON'T GET CAUGHT!! YAH!!!
Soooo what you are saying is... I need a disguise?0 -
I think the question is what did YOU do to make them cheat? I mean nobody cheats unless you do something to MAKE them cheat. Duuurrr....
Really???? Judging from responses here...some people think it is completely ok to do this just because they want to, It doesn't have anything to do with what the other person in the relationship.
Oh no, I think you are completly mistaken... it takes two to tango.
Disagree. If there is a problem in the relationship that is 'driving' the person to cheat, say they are unsatisfied sexually, then it should be worked out and discussed. If you can't work it out, you break up, and THEN you go get it elsewhere.
Why would you break up with someone you love just because you want to have sex with someone else? I don't get it?0 -
ITS SO FUN! LIKE I LOVE MCDONALDS CHEESEBURGERS AND FRIES. OMG SOOOO YUMMY OMG OMG OMG BUT SOMETIMES? I WANT TO GO EAT AT WENDYS OR BURGER KING. STILL A CHEESEBURGER BUT DIFFERENT TASTE. ITS NICE TO TASTE DIFFERENT CHEESBURGERS OMG OMG OMG BESIDE ZOMG ITS NATURAL TO STRAY OF COURSE HA HA HAHA
Sometimes I just feel like having a taco.0 -
bumping til later.....i really want to see what the responses are......0
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In the 15 years I've been with my husband, I've never strayed. That said, people can make bad decisions in the heat of the moment. People can make bad decisions if they have low self esteem and someone makes them feel good about themselves. People can make bad decisions for all sorts of reasons. Is it OK? No, it's not. But, the true character of a person lies in whether or not they learn from their mistakes.
Here Here....I like this quote0 -
You can't a fault a person for cheating if they're upgrading. lol
Why cheat? If you want to upgrade a car, you get rid of the old one, then get a new model. Keeping both models causes problems. You have to work around where to park them, pay extra insurance, and registration. Clearly, if a person needs to upgrade, then the current partner wasn't the ride for them. Why hurt them by staying in the relationship?0 -
All my classmates while in college were constantly talking about how they're cheating on their gfs, how often they do it. They were bragging about it! It makes me sick.
What I don't understand is how some girls are willing to put up with it!0
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