Why aren't more guys ballsy?

warmachinejt

last time i was ballsy girl didn't say yes. i will say i am happy to be admired from afar :laugh:
and i am more attracted to hispanic girls and area around me is mostly white peoples

Going4Lean

I can be extremely shy and i am afraid of rejection.

AmberJslimsAWAY

Amber, how tall are you?

I'm 5'10

AmberJslimsAWAY

Pahaha, I was about to say... I know some pretty ballsy guys. My husband is one of them! I'm pretty sure only a select few would have the confidence to date a woman taller than them.

I don't date guys shorter than me

saxmaniac

And I mean that as in personality. I'm single. Super tall girl so I intimidate the crap out of men, apparently. But if see an attractive girl that you want to take out, why not just ask?

True, way too many guys are wimps when it comes to cold approaching.

Are you approachable? You can vastly improve your chances by initiating eye contact and smiling, having open body language, and not hanging out in a herd (3+) of women. Most guys have no desire to tear down the "shield" of a woman who looks like she wants to be left alone, or try to carve her out of a group. The ones that do are usually douches.

I'm old-fashioned too. Women don't have to approach men if they don't want, instead, make yourself very approachable.

REALBIGBATBASTARD

How ballsy is too ballsy?

_the_feniks_

Legend has it that the nurses all gathered round when I was born and said, "my... he sure has big balls. Doesn't he?!" OK, it was just my grandma... but still.

trojanbb

And I mean that as in personality.

I'm single. Super tall girl so I intimidate the crap out of men, apparently. But if see an attractive girl that you want to take out, why not just ask? Stop being so damn shy! lol

That's my "rant"...

because you all make it so damn hard. Why dont YOU ask us? I can count the number of times I've been approached in my life on one hand.

odusgolp

Because rejection for guys sucks as bad as rejection for women.

Why don't you ask a guy out?

So true.

trojanbb

if he's not asking could it possibly be that he's not interested? And, if he is interested & not asking... he lacks confidence. why would you want to date that? the right one will ask.

reminds me that being single can sometimes suck.

good luck!

lol, this may be the dumbest thing I've ever read.

This exactly answers the OP's question...THIS mentality is why we dont often ask.

Here2GetFit

because I'm married and my wife wouldnt appreciate me doing that.. otherwise......

THIS

jcmartin0313

<---Because when you ask Amber out that leads to sex (eventually hopefully) and when that leads to sex you need a divorce lawyer and when you need a divorce lawyer you spend alot of money. Dont spend alot of money...switch to DirectTv...

For the record, this may only be funny to me but I love those commercials!!

CountryDevil

Well hello thar! How you doin?

Maude_Lewbowski

Because guys like shorter women.

ImKindOfABigDeal40

Because there are too many damn rules. Some women get all freaked out if you think they are attractive.

Pedal_Pusher

Are you assuming that guys find you attractive?

CountryBoy65

So what you are saying is you don't put out on the first date? Since you are old fashioned ?

I sure don't

Wanna go out?

Nevermind.

Bwahahahahahahahaahahah!

Amber....I would go out with you 6 nights a week and twice on sunday....and I would walk right up to you and ask. The worst you would do is laugh and say no. Or pepper spray me.

Alex_is_Hawks

You're right. This hot girl intimidated the *kitten* out of me at the bar the other night, my friends kept telling me she was looking at me all night but I just couldnt make my move. :sad:

I have a hard time believing that Johnny...you're as ballsy as they come!

KyleB65

Because my wife would murder me!! :-)

BTW - Tall, strong & confident women are absolutely attractive!

odusgolp

Pahaha, I was about to say... I know some pretty ballsy guys. My husband is one of them! I'm pretty sure only a select few would have the confidence to date a woman taller than them.

I don't date guys shorter than me

And, they likely are afraid they don't meet these rules of yours... Don't get me wrong, I'm also tall and have certain physical attributes I'm more attracted to.

Rae6503

So you're 5'10", won't date guys shorter than you and won't approach men?

No offense but it's no wonder your single. You've just labeled 50% of the men in the world un-dateable and you've probably cut out another 25% by ruling out shy guys.

Foxypoo61287

And I mean that as in personality.

I'm single. Super tall girl so I intimidate the crap out of men, apparently. But if see an attractive girl that you want to take out, why not just ask? Stop being so damn shy! lol

That's my "rant"...

Maybe they just don't like you?

GermanicKnight

Tall girls are SEXY!! Although at 5'8" more girls are taller to me than the average.

Show_Stopper

So is it a turn off for guys if a girl does ask? I'm really strait foward and I would like the guy to ask for the 1st date but if he doesn't and I'm diggin him I'll ask if he says no he says no move on life is to short to wait. If you want a date and he doesn't ask just ask!

AlsDonkBoxSquat

I've always wondered if that was sort of the equivalent of saying "why aren't girls more twatty?" and if guys should be offended.

AmericanCowboy76

And I mean that as in personality.

I'm single. Super tall girl so I intimidate the crap out of men, apparently. But if see an attractive girl that you want to take out, why not just ask? Stop being so damn shy! lol

That's my "rant"...

I have been out of the game for a bit now, but back in the day, before my wife (who passed away a few years ago) If I saw a woman I liked I asked her out. If I got 9 Nos, at least I might get 1 yes! Course now beign a single dad dating is a no go for me. But if I wanted to ask someone out I would with no fear.

GermanicKnight

And I just found out I am not tall enough to enjoy this ride.....being 5'8" is cruel!

iWaffle

I don't date guys shorter than me

You're going to need to up your game because the taller guys normally don't have any issue getting attention from women. The taller guys get scooped up really quick. I'm 6'2" and happily married for 19 years.

odusgolp

A couple of guy friends were talking about the fact that they'd never date a woman that weighs more than 150lbs.

<----155.

Everyone is allowed their preferences. But IMO, such hard "rules" only make dating that much harder on yourself.

tadpole242

And I mean that as in personality.

I'm single. Super tall girl so I intimidate the crap out of men, apparently. But if see an attractive girl that you want to take out, why not just ask? Stop being so damn shy! lol

That's my "rant"...

Maybe they just don't like you?

And don't like the "I'm super better than you" attitude
If it ‘happens’ more than a couple of time with a couple of different guy, maybe they are not the people with the problem.