Whats wrong

Foxypoo61287
Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
With being prude. I want that special romantic moment where my foot lifts off the ground when I kiss the man of my dreams. I was dating a guy for 6 years. And I thought he was the one. And he cheated on me. Because I didn't want to have sex. I mean im 37 years old, I know my clock is ticking.
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  • drmerc
    drmerc Posts: 2,603 Member
    You dated a guy for 6 years without sex? and he cheated on you?
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    You dated a guy for 6 years without sex? and he cheated on you?

    Yes. :(
  • sweetchildomine
    sweetchildomine Posts: 872 Member
    You dated a guy for 6 years without sex? and he cheated on you?

    WHAT GUY WOULD DO THAT?!?!?!?!
  • AwesomePossum82
    AwesomePossum82 Posts: 93
    I'M SORRY THAT HAPPENED TO YOU. Do not give in to it. Wait till you do find Mr. Right. Share that special moment on your wedding night. The right guy is out there some where.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    Nearly every man would cheat and/or leave after a MUCH shorter time of no sex.
  • LilMissSunshine_
    LilMissSunshine_ Posts: 520
    Please tell me you gave him some bj's, handskies... something?
  • dirtydmvkid
    dirtydmvkid Posts: 184
    ::sniff sniff::
    Does anybody smell that?
    I think its coming from under the bridge...
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    ::sniff sniff::
    Does anybody smell that?
    I think its coming from under the bridge...

    Yep
  • obrendao
    obrendao Posts: 318
    ::sniff sniff::
    Does anybody smell that?
    I think its coming from under the bridge...

    No it couldn't possibly be!?!? LOLL
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    No. We even slept in two different beds. And he said he was fine with it.
  • confettibetti
    confettibetti Posts: 405 Member
    ::sniff sniff::
    Does anybody smell that?
    I think its coming from under the bridge...

    No it couldn't possibly be!?!? LOLL

    Could it?
  • LilMissSunshine_
    LilMissSunshine_ Posts: 520
    ::sniff sniff::
    Does anybody smell that?
    I think its coming from under the bridge...

    No it couldn't possibly be!?!? LOLL

    Could it?


    Ohhhh but it is!
  • michelejoann
    michelejoann Posts: 295 Member
    You aren't a prude. You have high morals. Which is fine. There's nothing wrong with that. If that's your belief, cool.

    I couldn't do 6 years without sex, though. I have needs that need met. Going solo only gets you so far...
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    Why does a relationship have to revolve around Sex? I didn't find myself looking for other men because I wasn't having sex.
  • Polly758
    Polly758 Posts: 623 Member
    You dated a guy for 6 years, didn't enjoy kissing him, and didn't sleep with him?

    Try dating girls.
  • Polly758
    Polly758 Posts: 623 Member
    Or Google "asexual".
  • sweetchildomine
    sweetchildomine Posts: 872 Member
    Does anyone have any popcorn?
  • LifeOnMars_
    LifeOnMars_ Posts: 720 Member
    You dated a guy for 6 years without sex? and he cheated on you?

    WHAT GUY WOULD DO THAT?!?!?!?!

    hahah for reals
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    I don't see nothin wrong... with a little bump and grind
  • OkieinMinny
    OkieinMinny Posts: 834 Member
    No. We even slept in two different beds. And he said he was fine with it.

    He lied
  • still_crafty
    still_crafty Posts: 682 Member
    You dated a guy for 6 years, didn't enjoy kissing him, and didn't sleep with him?

    Try dating girls.

    right?! sex with boys is eeeewwwww. wanna go out sometime?
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    Ehhh... no. :indifferent:
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I'm curious why it took 5 years or more to figure out he was cheating.
  • saragato
    saragato Posts: 1,154
    If you have a view of no sex before such and such a thing like marriage, you have to make sure that your partner shares the same ideals. You can't pick up any person and say "hey I'm totally into dating you but sex is off the table" and expect them to be cool with it. If the guy you were dating didn't feel that he should wait to be physically intimate, then it's not really rocket science why he was unfaithful.
  • mermx
    mermx Posts: 976
    Maybe you could try an internet dating site and add to your profile your views, then anyone reading it will now how you feel before you enter into a relationship?

    Lots of people on MFP have met there g/b/friend/ husband wife on the internet. there was a topic about it not so long back.

    I have been married going on 11 years and we met over the internet.

    Just a thought
  • michelejoann
    michelejoann Posts: 295 Member
    It doesn't. It's just how some people are built. It doesn't mean you aren't interested, but perhaps he might have felt that you weren't physically attracted to him? I mean, it's a BS reason...you should be into their personality and how you get along with them in the long term...but it can be a total mind screw.
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    You dated a guy for 6 years, didn't enjoy kissing him, and didn't sleep with him?

    Try dating girls.

    I enjoyed kissing him. Alot. But I never wanted to go to the next level.
  • Renae_Nae
    Renae_Nae Posts: 935 Member
    Did you guys ever talk about marriage? Maybe he just felt like it was a kind of dead end relationship. I know I wouldn't want to be with someone for 6 years without getting married.
  • Dethea
    Dethea Posts: 247 Member
    I think once you get to a certain maturity level sex does become important. I mean, you don't have to bang someone on the first date, but after a year it would be okay.

    I'm sorry he cheated on you, but most people want sex eventually.
  • StarIsMoving
    StarIsMoving Posts: 437
    Everyone looks for different things in a relationship. I know I wouldn't want to wait that long, but that's a "me" thing - you wanted to and that's cool too. My issue is that he should not have said he was ok with it if he wasn't
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