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  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    not a thing. as long as you are a realistic prude. Head in the clouds baby girl, and feet on the ground.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    If I lived under a bridge, I probably wouldn't want a lot of sex either.

    LOL Good point.
  • HeavenLeAngel127
    HeavenLeAngel127 Posts: 211 Member
    If I lived under a bridge, I probably wouldn't want a lot of sex either.

    I'm sorry you have no respect for you womanhood. I want to marry the only person I sleep with.


    wow... judgy judgy....
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    If I lived under a bridge, I probably wouldn't want a lot of sex either.

    I'm sorry you have no respect for you womanhood. I want to marry the only person I sleep with.


    Sorry you have no respect for yours. I doubt you even know how the **** works.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    I'm curious why it took 5 years or more to figure out he was cheating.

    We were talking one night and he just came out and told me he was gay.

    Ok. I wasn't sure before but now I'm thinking that this one has a bejeweled belly button.

    I agree.

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  • SoozeE512
    SoozeE512 Posts: 439 Member
    With being prude. I want that special romantic moment where my foot lifts off the ground when I kiss the man of my dreams. I was dating a guy for 6 years. And I thought he was the one. And he cheated on me. Because I didn't want to have sex. I mean im 37 years old, I know my clock is ticking.

    Do you not want to have sex ever, or do you just want to wait until you're married? It seems to me like having him wait 6 years and having him sleep in a separate bed is your way of getting companionship without acting as an actual girlfriend. You should have stated your intentions from the start instead of stringing him along.

    I get that you want that special romantic moment, but if you didn't get that from the start of your relationship with this guy, chances are it's never going to happen with him. Although, speaking from experience, you might feel that spark with a guy from the start and still not have a faithful partner. Maybe if you can forgive this guy and trust him with the opportunity to take the next step in your relationship, you might have something lasting even if you're not seeing sparks, but you need to let loose a little.


    Boyfriend/girlfriend relationships involve intimacy. Without intimacy, all you're left with is friendship. I'm not saying you need to rush into anything, but get real, woman, 6 years is a LONG time for a guy to wait. In all honesty, how much longer would you have him wait for you?


    (Edit: I just saw that the guy is gay? Is that right? Nevermind about giving him a chance then, he's clearly not the one. So why is it an issue that he 'cheated'?)
  • HeavenLeAngel127
    HeavenLeAngel127 Posts: 211 Member
    If I lived under a bridge, I probably wouldn't want a lot of sex either.

    I'm sorry you have no respect for you womanhood. I want to marry the only person I sleep with.

    I'm thinking you have some issues with women who believe in testing the waters before they jump in then. I'm a tester... And I loved it... Happily married and I tested the hell outta him. And guess what, he respects my womanhood too....
    Didn't have a problem with you waiting, so don't get crazy against the people who don't.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    If I lived under a bridge, I probably wouldn't want a lot of sex either.

    I'm sorry you have no respect for you womanhood. I want to marry the only person I sleep with.

    Yeah, sorry that bait's not tasty enough. :drinker:
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    If I lived under a bridge, I probably wouldn't want a lot of sex either.

    I'm sorry you have no respect for you womanhood. I want to marry the only person I sleep with.

    to all the women here - not just the OP

    Everyone sees their womanhood differently and everyone saves different parts of themselves for the person they marry/choose/spend the majority of their life with/etc.

    Some people save their virginity, and its beautiful.
    Some people save their family and friends for the man they will marry, and its beautiful.
    Some people save a secret they always wanted to share, and its beautiful.
    Some people save buying a house until they find their 'one'. and its beautiful.
    Some people save pets or children for marriage, and its beautiful.
    Some people save their scars because they only want one person to know about them, and its beautiful.
    Some people save anal sex for marriage, and its beautiful.
    Some people save secret fantasies for the man they marry, and its beautiful.
    Some people save church as the one thing they will only share with their husband, and its beautiful.

    just because you've decided to share this specific thing with the man you fall madly in love with... doesnt mean the rest of the people on this list have no respect for their womanhood and that you have the right to ridicule them. You are not better. You just picked this specific thing to share with him. Other people have parts of themselves that are more important to them because of the experiences that life has thrown at them.

    It just means that we all define our special quiet private places in our heart differently, but we all feel that the person we choose to share these things with... should deserve them.
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    prudence in itself isn't the issue, it's naïveté that is less attractive past drinking age.
  • michelejoann
    michelejoann Posts: 295 Member
    I had a friend who slept with a guy, got pregnant with his child, had the baby AND THEN he told her he was gay.

    It's the OP's decision what she wants to do with her body, whether she wants to wait until marriage to have sex or not. She's not a troll, or a prude or anything. She has high standards and morals. Nothing wrong with that.

    I personally like sex a lot. I have had much experience with it. I will continue to have premarital sex, because it is MY choice, like not having sex is HER choice.

    Best of luck to you, OP.
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.

    How would you know what guys like since you have never been with any?
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    I heard it on Dr. Oz.
  • HeavenLeAngel127
    HeavenLeAngel127 Posts: 211 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.

    Once again you are showing prejudice against women who don't share your belief. And to be honest with you how would you know what our vagina's are like... Just to let you know vagina shape and form is mostly hereditary so even with the same beliefs as you there can be roast beef vagina. Stop judging, it's making me wish I could date you just to cheat on you.

    BTW your beliefs are fine, its your attitude towards others that is not attractive.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.

    Wow.

    Now I feel really bad for defending you. Sorry I repulse you so much. I fail at the internet today.
    Good night.
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.

    my man could eat roast beef for every meal :drinker:
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.

    How would you know what guys like since you have never been with any?


    You shut your roast beef vagina having mouth.

    She knows everything. Deal with it.
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.

    my man could eat roast beef for every meal :drinker:


    :laugh: :laugh:
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
  • lizziebeth1028
    lizziebeth1028 Posts: 3,602 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.


    Wow I somewhat defended you and your belief. That is supposed to be reciprocated in return. Delicate flower??????:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • ryansgram
    ryansgram Posts: 693 Member
    Kettle corn anyone?
  • lizziebeth1028
    lizziebeth1028 Posts: 3,602 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.

    my man could eat roast beef for every meal :drinker:


    LOL too funny:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • sweetchildomine
    sweetchildomine Posts: 872 Member
    My Mom worked with this lady that saved herself for marriage. On their wedding night he asked her to lie in a bath tub full of cold ice water. Then when she got on the bed he told her to close her eyes and lay very still. Did I mention that he was an undertaker? Im not joking. This story is 100% true and they ended up getting their marriage annulled and she reported him to the police and when they did an investigation they found that he was into necrophilia. Yup, her first time sure was special with the man she married!!! lol
  • CynthiaElise
    CynthiaElise Posts: 262 Member
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  • Marcillene
    Marcillene Posts: 484 Member
    Note to self......If wife ever stops putting out sleep with a bunch of women, say it was only 5 or 6 and then tell her I'm gay and that is why I'm leaving......This should make her feel a 'little' better.

    THIS is what i was thinking. he told you that to not hurt you AS BAD. its easier to not blame the lack of sex if he tells you its not you, its his gaydom. Excuse to sleep with 5 or 6 women and make it okay.
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    Not everyone is going to have that reaction. She should have chosen better. which is why I am glad we didn't get married. What if he would have proposed to me, and we got married and he still cheated on me. I'm not willing to waste that happy time on someone who can't keep his junk in his pants. The man I marry should only be attracted/want to have sex with me. I'm sorry that it is hard to believe that this is what I want.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    Just in case this isn't a case of trolling for suckers I'll toss this out there.


    If you spent 6 years with someone who probably cheated on you nearly the entire time, AND you were so awful that you turned him gay, I WOULDN'T BE PUTTING DOWN OTHER PEOPLE.
  • placeboaddiction
    placeboaddiction Posts: 451 Member
    Stop judging, it's making me wish I could date you just to cheat on you.

    This is the quote of the day for MFP. I blurted out a stupid nerd laugh in my cubicle. It's usually so quiet here I can hear people typing 20 yards away. (20 yards=18.28800 meters for people who use the smart system of measurement)
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.

    How would you know what guys like since you have never been with any?


    You shut your roast beef vagina having mouth.

    She knows everything. Deal with it.
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    OMFG I LOL