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  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    Why does a relationship have to revolve around Sex? I didn't find myself looking for other men because I wasn't having sex.

    but what about other girls...did you find yourself looking at them?
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    I'm curious why it took 5 years or more to figure out he was cheating.

    We were talking one night and he just came out and told me he was gay.
  • nlwilliamson
    nlwilliamson Posts: 225 Member
    ::sniff sniff::
    Does anybody smell that?
    I think its coming from under the bridge...

    No it couldn't possibly be!?!? LOLL

    Could it?

    I think so!!
  • Brenda_Pancakes
    Brenda_Pancakes Posts: 288 Member
    No. We even slept in two different beds. And he said he was fine with it.

    He lied

    Sad to hear the story - but this quote is acurate.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    ::sniff sniff::
    Does anybody smell that?
    I think its coming from under the bridge...

    God, I hope so...
  • sweetchildomine
    sweetchildomine Posts: 872 Member
    I'm curious why it took 5 years or more to figure out he was cheating.

    We were talking one night and he just came out and told me he was gay.

    Ok. I wasn't sure before but now I'm thinking that this one has a bejeweled belly button.
  • LifeOnMars_
    LifeOnMars_ Posts: 720 Member
    I'm curious why it took 5 years or more to figure out he was cheating.

    We were talking one night and he just came out and told me he was gay.

    Ok. I wasn't sure before but now I'm thinking that this one has a bejeweled belly button.

    with bright pink hair? lol
  • lizziebeth1028
    lizziebeth1028 Posts: 3,602 Member
    I respect your decision to abstain, but know that you are in the minority. For most people sex is healthy and natural and does not require a marriage license. In fact how many marriages end up in divorce these days....over 50%. That's a long time to abstain for something that doesn't have even a 50% chance of lasting. The fact that he hung in there for 6 years is pretty incredible. That being said I truly hope you find someone with the same mindset as yours. Best wishes.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I'm curious why it took 5 years or more to figure out he was cheating.

    We were talking one night and he just came out and told me he was gay.

    Ok. I wasn't sure before but now I'm thinking that this one has a bejeweled belly button.


    IDK what that means but I'll ASSume it is code for I smell BULL****


    Edit-DURR now I get it LOL
  • ChristyRunStarr
    ChristyRunStarr Posts: 1,600 Member
    We were talking one night and he just came out and told me he was gay.

    Ok well this makes it totally different then! He cheated on you cause you didn't have a certain part of the body he prefers. No wonder he was ok with sleeping in different beds. Sorry he cheated but come on....
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    No he slept with other girls to find out he was gay. : /
  • drmerc
    drmerc Posts: 2,603 Member
    I'm curious why it took 5 years or more to figure out he was cheating.

    We were talking one night and he just came out and told me he was gay.

    Hate to break this to you but you were his beard
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    No he slept with other girls to find out he was gay. : /

    I'm liking this guy more and more with every post....
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    :laugh:

    I wish popcorn didn't get stuck in my dental work.
  • michelejoann
    michelejoann Posts: 295 Member
    No he slept with other girls to find out he was gay. : /

    OK, what?
  • sweetchildomine
    sweetchildomine Posts: 872 Member
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  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    I dunno if the OP is trolling or not but i'll bite

    I always hated the term prude. Even as a man who lost his virginity at a very very young age. Whether you're holding off for religious reasons or for personal reasons, what you do (or don't do) with your body is your own business. Same goes for sIut.
  • nikki_att84
    nikki_att84 Posts: 152 Member
    Why does a relationship have to revolve around Sex? I didn't find myself looking for other men because I wasn't having sex.

    coz uve never had it!!!!!!!!
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    No he slept with other girls to find out he was gay. : /

    I'm liking this guy more and more with every post....


    Your profile picture fits this quote perfectly!!!!! :laugh: :laugh:
  • michelejoann
    michelejoann Posts: 295 Member
    Well, I guess you can rest assured that is ISN'T YOU. It's better than if you HAD had sex with him, and then he told you something like...."Um, this isn't working out...I think I might be gay."

    And secondly...did he not sleep with other girls BEFORE meeting you?
  • 2muchsauce
    2muchsauce Posts: 1,078
    Does anyone have any popcorn?

    I can make more...........:) I think I'm going to have to!
  • A_Valerie
    A_Valerie Posts: 129 Member
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    :laugh:

    I wish popcorn didn't get stuck in my dental work.
  • LilMissSunshine_
    LilMissSunshine_ Posts: 520
    We were talking one night and he just came out and told me he was gay.

    Ok well this makes it totally different then! He cheated on you cause you didn't have a certain part of the body he prefers. No wonder he was ok with sleeping in different beds. Sorry he cheated but come on....


    Maybe you should get a sex change.. if you really love him.
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    We talked about getting married. But he never asked. But I guess he was ok not sleeping with me because he was gay. But why sleep with 5 or 6 other girls to "find out" your gay.
  • michelejoann
    michelejoann Posts: 295 Member
    Does anyone have any popcorn?

    I can make more...........:) I think I'm going to have to!

    *has a popcorn machine right behind her*
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    Well, I guess you can rest assured that is ISN'T YOU. It's better than if you HAD had sex with him, and then he told you something like...."Um, this isn't working out...I think I might be gay."

    And secondly...did he not sleep with other girls BEFORE meeting you?

    We never talked about his past. I trusted him
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    Note to self......If wife ever stops putting out sleep with a bunch of women, say it was only 5 or 6 and then tell her I'm gay and that is why I'm leaving......This should make her feel a 'little' better.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    If I lived under a bridge, I probably wouldn't want a lot of sex either.
  • HeavenLeAngel127
    HeavenLeAngel127 Posts: 211 Member
    Between to two years you should probably be talking about marriage if that is one of your goals.
    This is assuming you are waiting till marriage to have sex. If its been 6 years and you guys aren't there its probably not working in truth for either one of you.
    Maybe you weren't seeing the relationship for what it truly was cause you had put so much time in.

    Even you don't believe in marriage then the lovin' should start in any healthy relationship at some point too.

    So what was your cap date? When was he finally going to be able to bond with you on that level?
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
    If I lived under a bridge, I probably wouldn't want a lot of sex either.

    I'm sorry you have no respect for you womanhood. I want to marry the only person I sleep with.

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