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  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    Why does a relationship have to revolve around Sex? I didn't find myself looking for other men because I wasn't having sex.

    Aw....that's a cute question! Have great sex then ask it again :flowerforyou:
  • likearadiowave
    likearadiowave Posts: 445 Member
    I know Christian guys who would wait until they are married - there are also Christian dating agencies ......


    And date one person for 6 years without getting married?

    May as well be single. Just sayin'.

    Yay for sex!!!

    Yep.

    It's amazing to me that someone condemning the guy in this imaginary scenario is even from this planet

    I believe it's a little more surprising to you that some people have moral compasses.
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    I know Christian guys who would wait until they are married - there are also Christian dating agencies ......


    And date one person for 6 years without getting married?

    May as well be single. Just sayin'.

    Yay for sex!!!

    Yep.

    It's amazing to me that someone condemning the guy in this imaginary scenario is even from this planet

    It's mind blowing.
  • PhotogNerd
    PhotogNerd Posts: 420 Member
    Trolololololol!
  • sathor
    sathor Posts: 202 Member
    Nearly every man would cheat and/or leave after a MUCH shorter time of no sex.

    Really? NEARLY every man would cheat? sounds like bs.

    Eunics I think have to account for 99% of the exception, the rest are statistical error.
  • chlorisaann
    chlorisaann Posts: 366 Member
    I didn't say that I know all, but I'm sure the more you use it, the worse it gets. Like ever stretch a rubberband too much? it's not a tight and firm as when you first took it out. I'm sure the concept is the same.

    No actually the vagina is a muscle..... it gets stronger with exercise!!!!
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I know Christian guys who would wait until they are married - there are also Christian dating agencies ......


    And date one person for 6 years without getting married?

    May as well be single. Just sayin'.

    Yay for sex!!!

    Yep.

    It's amazing to me that someone condemning the guy in this imaginary scenario is even from this planet

    I believe it's a little more surprising to you that some people have moral compasses.


    The only thing I'm surprised about is that some adults are locked up in their own little world so tight, that they have their heads buried in the sand....

    LOL. The Naivety of some is truly legendary.
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    I know Christian guys who would wait until they are married - there are also Christian dating agencies ......


    And date one person for 6 years without getting married?

    May as well be single. Just sayin'.

    Yay for sex!!!

    Yep.

    It's amazing to me that someone condemning the guy in this imaginary scenario is even from this planet

    I believe it's a little more surprising to you that some people have moral compasses.

    Hmmm.... I know that killing people is bad and lying is bad and judging others is bad.
    How does being in a commited relationship and expecting intimacy mean one is lacking a moral compass?
  • HeavenLeAngel127
    HeavenLeAngel127 Posts: 211 Member
    This was an entertaining thread that is slowly fizzling away... what's next.. hmmmmmmmm
  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    I didn't say that I know all, but I'm sure the more you use it, the worse it gets. Like ever stretch a rubberband too much? it's not a tight and firm as when you first took it out. I'm sure the concept is the same.

    No actually the vagina is a muscle..... it gets stronger with exercise!!!!

    True story!
  • Brenda_Pancakes
    Brenda_Pancakes Posts: 288 Member
    It's cuz foxy left.
  • Marcillene
    Marcillene Posts: 484 Member
    With being prude. I want that special romantic moment where my foot lifts off the ground when I kiss the man of my dreams. I was dating a guy for 6 years. And I thought he was the one. And he cheated on me. Because I didn't want to have sex. I mean im 37 years old, I know my clock is ticking.

    If someone cheats on you because you didn't have sex with him, he's a douche. There's no excuse for cheating on anyone.

    In a relationship, there's this thing called "communication". If your needs or your partners' needs aren't being met, it would be better to talk about it rather than just decide to cheat on someone. That's kind of the cowardly ****head way out.

    I'm sorry he wasn't the one, but hopefully you'll find someone who will respect you enough for you.



    I guess I'm a douche. I don't want to get divorced, but if I go 6 mos without it, that's an invitation to cheat in my mind. It's complete nonsense for a woman to think it would be OK to do that.

    ^^^^That might bring the hate but it's how I feel. (and isn't an issue w/me)

    Could u imagine... 6.... long..... months...... gawlly.. much less 6 whole years....
  • coolasafan
    coolasafan Posts: 75
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  • Bikini27
    Bikini27 Posts: 1,290 Member
    With being prude. I want that special romantic moment where my foot lifts off the ground when I kiss the man of my dreams. I was dating a guy for 6 years. And I thought he was the one. And he cheated on me. Because I didn't want to have sex. I mean im 37 years old, I know my clock is ticking.

    If someone cheats on you because you didn't have sex with him, he's a douche. There's no excuse for cheating on anyone.

    In a relationship, there's this thing called "communication". If your needs or your partners' needs aren't being met, it would be better to talk about it rather than just decide to cheat on someone. That's kind of the cowardly ****head way out.

    I'm sorry he wasn't the one, but hopefully you'll find someone who will respect you enough for you.



    I guess I'm a douche. I don't want to get divorced, but if I go 6 mos without it, that's an invitation to cheat in my mind. It's complete nonsense for a woman to think it would be OK to do that.

    ^^^^That might bring the hate but it's how I feel. (and isn't an issue w/me)

    Could u imagine... 6.... long..... months...... gawlly.. much less 6 whole years....

    Went 6 months in my marriage. Due to that, lack of basic initmacy, and loss of any connection whatsoever (among other massive issues) I am now a happily divorced woman. That door swings both ways.
  • casperuk
    casperuk Posts: 195 Member
    Why does the internet attract the most tedious "wind up merchants" and worse, people who continually fall for their outrageously asinine 'humour'?

    There are so many people in this thread who need putting down. Humanely of course. From the first post to this one, yes me too for replying. I am contributing to the circle of tripe. I am not realy sure why I opened this up...I think I am turning too. If you are reading this and havent replied to this thread then get out, its too late for me. Save yourself. Please get out and don't come back. I feel the fever. argghhh oooh bacon, isnt it the greatest thing ever? Will I die if I eat 1100 calories? Can I exercise AND eat cheese? Will my girlfriend still love me if I tell her I am a man? Live to lift. Lift like a man, look like a girl....GET OUTTTTT
  • dare2love81
    dare2love81 Posts: 928 Member
    Stop judging, it's making me wish I could date you just to cheat on you.

    This is the quote of the day for MFP. I blurted out a stupid nerd laugh in my cubicle. It's usually so quiet here I can hear people typing 20 yards away. (20 yards=18.28800 meters for people who use the smart system of measurement)

    Ditto!! I got a few strange looks from my cube farm neighbors. :laugh:
  • Nix_
    Nix_ Posts: 94
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    hahahhahahha!!!!
  • likearadiowave
    likearadiowave Posts: 445 Member
    I know Christian guys who would wait until they are married - there are also Christian dating agencies ......


    And date one person for 6 years without getting married?

    May as well be single. Just sayin'.

    Yay for sex!!!

    Yep.

    It's amazing to me that someone condemning the guy in this imaginary scenario is even from this planet

    I believe it's a little more surprising to you that some people have moral compasses.


    The only thing I'm surprised about is that some adults are locked up in their own little world so tight, that they have their heads buried in the sand....

    LOL. The Naivety of some is truly legendary.

    I believe it's called basic human decency and respect, not so much naivety.

    If you can't respect your S/O to work out issues with them, then that's pretty ****ty.
  • likearadiowave
    likearadiowave Posts: 445 Member
    With being prude. I want that special romantic moment where my foot lifts off the ground when I kiss the man of my dreams. I was dating a guy for 6 years. And I thought he was the one. And he cheated on me. Because I didn't want to have sex. I mean im 37 years old, I know my clock is ticking.

    If someone cheats on you because you didn't have sex with him, he's a douche. There's no excuse for cheating on anyone.

    In a relationship, there's this thing called "communication". If your needs or your partners' needs aren't being met, it would be better to talk about it rather than just decide to cheat on someone. That's kind of the cowardly ****head way out.

    I'm sorry he wasn't the one, but hopefully you'll find someone who will respect you enough for you.



    I guess I'm a douche. I don't want to get divorced, but if I go 6 mos without it, that's an invitation to cheat in my mind. It's complete nonsense for a woman to think it would be OK to do that.

    ^^^^That might bring the hate but it's how I feel. (and isn't an issue w/me)

    Could u imagine... 6.... long..... months...... gawlly.. much less 6 whole years....

    Went 6 months in my marriage. Due to that, lack of basic initmacy, and loss of any connection whatsoever (among other massive issues) I am now a happily divorced woman. That door swings both ways.

    *claps* :)

    Well, sometimes it's better to be single. There's a lot more freedom to be had.
  • coolasafan
    coolasafan Posts: 75
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  • dlyeates
    dlyeates Posts: 875 Member
    It's sad that people think that 6 months without sex would be a reason to cheat. My hubby and I did stuff before we were married but were convicted to stop and wait until the wedding which, at that time, was a little more than 6 months away when we made that decision. There are other things to do that are intimate that don't involve any act that would have "sex" in the title. And about the time I was 8 months pregnant and larger than most sex became an impossibility (we actually tried and it was so uncomfortable/so unable to be done that we didn't) and due to physical stuff after the birth we didn't do anything until my son was 4 months old.....it was at least 6 months....AND MY HUSBAND DIDN'T CHEAT BECAUSE HE LOVES AND RESPECTS ME AND IS COMMITTED TO OUR RELATIONSHIP THAT HE WAS WILLING TO WAIT UNTIL WE WERE ABLE TO DO THINGS AGAIN!!!! Don't give me this crap that cheating would be okay because of a lack of sex.

    Cheating is a choice and realistically as fun and wonderful as sex is you can actually go without sex and not die. I'm sorry that some people would not be willing to be with a person and get to know them and respect that they may want to wait for the ultimate commitment before giving that part of themselves. SAD!!!
  • TMarieB30
    TMarieB30 Posts: 24
    I was thinking the same thing. Been bored all f'n day and just logged on for this lovely read haha!
  • RLDeShazo
    RLDeShazo Posts: 356 Member
    I know Christian guys who would wait until they are married - there are also Christian dating agencies ......

    I dated two Christian men (not at the same time) back in a previous life when I was a born again.... They were both regularly trying to pin me down in the back seat of the car.

    Horny buggers, they were.

    Note to self: Check out a Christian dating site.
  • likearadiowave
    likearadiowave Posts: 445 Member
    It's sad that people think that 6 months without sex would be a reason to cheat. My hubby and I did stuff before we were married but were convicted to stop and wait until the wedding which, at that time, was a little more than 6 months away when we made that decision. There are other things to do that are intimate that don't involve any act that would have "sex" in the title. And about the time I was 8 months pregnant and larger than most sex became an impossibility (we actually tried and it was so uncomfortable/so unable to be done that we didn't) and due to physical stuff after the birth we didn't do anything until my son was 4 months old.....it was at least 6 months....AND MY HUSBAND DIDN'T CHEAT BECAUSE HE LOVES AND RESPECTS ME AND IS COMMITTED TO OUR RELATIONSHIP THAT HE WAS WILLING TO WAIT UNTIL WE WERE ABLE TO DO THINGS AGAIN!!!! Don't give me this crap that cheating would be okay because of a lack of sex.

    Cheating is a choice and realistically as fun and wonderful as sex is you can actually go without sex and not die. I'm sorry that some people would not be willing to be with a person and get to know them and respect that they may want to wait for the ultimate commitment before giving that part of themselves. SAD!!!

    True, but there are a lot of men (and i'm sure, some women) who think they are "owed" sex, and would rather find it elsewhere instead of working out intimacy issues.

    Your husband didn't cheat? well, i'll be dammed. That's incredible. lol
  • Erindipitous
    Erindipitous Posts: 1,234 Member
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    Oh my God.. I'm dying.. :laugh:

    My question: How did it take him six years to finally go outside the box?
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    see below
  • homerjspartan
    homerjspartan Posts: 1,893 Member
    I effin love sex, and if I could find your bridge, Ms. Troll, I would f*** on top of it. Thanks for the entertainment!!! God, I love my days off.

    Seriously, best post ever. I am leaving my wife and 3 kids, where are you? We're getting married tonight.
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    I want to wait until I am married. End of story. Men these days are sleeping with countless number of women. And I don't need to get something. You can keep trying to put me down because of my beliefs. I believe I have a delicate flower, most women think its just a piece of meat that never gets old. Well I've got news for you sister, what guy wants a woman with roast beef down there.

    my man could eat roast beef for every meal :drinker:

    God, i love roast beef!
  • halobender
    halobender Posts: 780 Member
    outside the box?
    Hah. Perfect euphemism.
  • Brenda_Pancakes
    Brenda_Pancakes Posts: 288 Member
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    Oh my God.. I'm dying.. :laugh:

    My question: How did it take him six years to finally go outside the box?

    According to foxy, he didn't go outside the box... per se... he went on a quest for meat stick.