Married and heavy flirting good or bad
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Dude, the only person you should be flirting with is your spouse.0
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It really depends on your type of relationship and what you mutually agree on as "ok".
In most cases, if you have to ask yourself if it's ok....it's probably not.
For me, "heavy flirting" is a definite NOOOOOO.
I limit the flirting to a very playful and FRIENDLY type. There is no emotion in it, it's just having fun.
Anything I say to a guy in a flirtatious manner I would most certainly also say to a girl and it would not come off badly. If I think of saying something to a guy that I would NOT say to a girl without it being uncomfortable....then maybe I shouldn't go that far.
My boyfriend does the same.
I think a bit of flirtation is healthy, though there is most certainly a line of emotions and respect to never cross.0 -
When you don't know if it's bad or not....it is.
lol yesssss!! I completely agree!0 -
Bad. If you wouldn't say/do it in front of your spouse, don't say/do it .
But heavy flirting *with your spouse*? Very good. My husband is very flirty with me, and I can't get enough of it. Or him.
I have no need to flirt with other guys. 0 -
it can make you a *kitten*
just kidding
*kitten*
^ this0 -
Light flirting - okay...
Heavy flirting - Soooo disrespectful and a definite No NO!0 -
Bad idea if you wanna stay married.0
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The line? You passed it about 20 miles back...0
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it can make you a *kitten*
just kidding
*kitten*
BAHAHAH!0 -
Heavy flirting is bad!
A little light flirting on occasion isn't harmful.0 -
if you have to ask it means you don't really care if its good or not you're just looking to rationalize your guilt or lack thereof0
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haha pretty much...
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That my friend depends on your situation doesn't it?
^^ I agree. While I disagree with venturing outside of your marriage for attention, I know that some couples think that sort of thing is ok.. Better ask your SO how they feel about it.1 -
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well, would you think it was good or bad if your wife was doing it???? Not so bueno, I assume! Personally, I'd give my hubby a swift kick in the nards for it. :noway:0
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LOL, this one is going in my collection for later!0
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So lightly flirting is okay?0
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BAD!!!!0
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What is considered "heavy flirting"?1
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Bad. If you wouldn't say/do it in front of your spouse, don't say/do it .
But heavy flirting *with your spouse*? Very good. My husband is very flirty with me, and I can't get enough of it. Or him. I have no need to flirt with other guys.
^This.0 -
What is considered "heavy flirting"?
No penetration, except digital.0 -
NonononononononNOnONONonononono! BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD!
Now go to your room-with your spouse! and forget that nonsense.
What a stupid question, what were you expecting us all to say?0 -
if its intentional then its an awful idea, bro0
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Whats your definition of "heavy flirting" and also how would you feel if she did the same...0
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it can make you a *kitten*
just kidding
*kitten*
HAHAHHAHAHHA
I agree, thats bad ju ju brotha0 -
What is considered "heavy flirting"?
No penetration, except digital.
Beastie...u dont post that often but when you do KAPOW....its good.
Wait is that flirting? Oh sorry....that post was SO disrepsectful0 -
flirting with anyone other than your spouse is unacceptable. If you feel the need to flirt outside your marriage, then something is missing in the marriage. it is never ok.0
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Personally, I don't think it's a good idea. I've been married for almost 15 years now and I always follow this bit of advice:
Always behave as if your spouse was right there with you
That should eliminate most questions of how appropriate your behavior is with someone else. My husband and I have enough love and respect for each other not to do something that would make the other uncomfortable. However, if the couple is really okay with flirting with other people, that's different. I highly suspect that for most people though, anything beyond friendly interaction is not okay.0 -
I think it depends on just what flirting entails.
Does it make you go home at night and love your spouse even more because someone complimented you and made you feel good, or does it make you think you should go behind your spouses back?
My own feeling is would it be okay to say/do this in public? Would your spouse be upset if they found out?0 -
What is considered "heavy flirting"?
No penetration, except digital.
Beastie...u dont post that often but when you do KAPOW....its good.
Wait is that flirting? Oh sorry....that post was SO disrepsectful
I know, right? Ha, ha. It's cool, bro. Wanna do it?0 -
If you are "happily" married and not, say a Swinger, why would you be flirting with someone of the opposite/same sex (what ever floats your boat)? That's not respectful to your SO.
Now, if you had an Open Relationship or say where looking to add a 3rd person and both of you agreed on such a thing before hand, then sure. Go for it, just be respectful of the other people involved and make sure everyone is down with it.
Otherwise no, no "heavy" flirting.1
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