Married and heavy flirting good or bad

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  • ashlinmarie
    ashlinmarie Posts: 1,263 Member
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    Light flirting might be okay (compliments that anyone could give such as hair looks nice or wearing a flattering dress) but heavy flirting no. I have this issue with being a huge flirt, but I make sure to tone it down as much as possible because I love and respect my husband.
  • Turtlehurdle
    Turtlehurdle Posts: 412
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    Negative.
  • jeddy3mcc
    jeddy3mcc Posts: 177 Member
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    Im not married, but I guess it depends on your situation, but I would say if your marriage is important enough err on the side of caution/ Just the opinion of a single guy!
  • mheath1293
    mheath1293 Posts: 35 Member
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    If you really love your spouse, you wouldn't do it. IMO, you wouldn't even have the urge to do it. I can honestly say I don't find any man to be as attractive as my hubby!
  • cyndispot
    cyndispot Posts: 135
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    Seriously - you might want to review your wedding vows - and why are you looking for the line if you've committed to those (I mean that's what you did in front of those people and that offciating officer.
  • weightlose88
    weightlose88 Posts: 37 Member
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    what line there is no line its a FULL SPOT
    u got a spouse flirt with her only :P dude comeon
  • TrailRunner61
    TrailRunner61 Posts: 2,505 Member
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    When you don't know if it's bad or not....it is.
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
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    I just wanted to post on this thread. Now move along.
  • BelleHeart
    BelleHeart Posts: 281 Member
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    3Usiw.gif

    ^^^^^ I couldn't have said it better myself.
  • sillygoose1977
    sillygoose1977 Posts: 2,151 Member
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    Better be heavy flirting with your own wife.
  • dixoncrew
    dixoncrew Posts: 186 Member
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    Dude, the only person you should be flirting with is your spouse.
  • MissJenova
    MissJenova Posts: 258
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    It really depends on your type of relationship and what you mutually agree on as "ok".

    In most cases, if you have to ask yourself if it's ok....it's probably not.

    For me, "heavy flirting" is a definite NOOOOOO.
    I limit the flirting to a very playful and FRIENDLY type. There is no emotion in it, it's just having fun.

    Anything I say to a guy in a flirtatious manner I would most certainly also say to a girl and it would not come off badly. If I think of saying something to a guy that I would NOT say to a girl without it being uncomfortable....then maybe I shouldn't go that far.
    My boyfriend does the same.


    I think a bit of flirtation is healthy, though there is most certainly a line of emotions and respect to never cross.
  • BelleHeart
    BelleHeart Posts: 281 Member
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    When you don't know if it's bad or not....it is.

    lol yesssss!! I completely agree!
  • bushidowoman
    bushidowoman Posts: 1,599 Member
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    Bad. If you wouldn't say/do it in front of your spouse, don't say/do it .

    But heavy flirting *with your spouse*? Very good. My husband is very flirty with me, and I can't get enough of it. Or him. :wink: I have no need to flirt with other guys.
  • zeebruhgirl
    zeebruhgirl Posts: 493 Member
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    it can make you a *kitten*

    just kidding

    *kitten*

    ^ this
  • TKHappy
    TKHappy Posts: 659 Member
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    Light flirting - okay...

    Heavy flirting - Soooo disrespectful and a definite No NO!
  • ASDavis72
    ASDavis72 Posts: 77 Member
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    Bad idea if you wanna stay married.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
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    The line? You passed it about 20 miles back...
  • cheekydeeky
    cheekydeeky Posts: 146 Member
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    it can make you a *kitten*

    just kidding

    *kitten*

    BAHAHAH!
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    Heavy flirting is bad!

    A little light flirting on occasion isn't harmful.

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