Married and heavy flirting good or bad

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  • avir8
    avir8 Posts: 671 Member
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    if you have to ask it means you don't really care if its good or not you're just looking to rationalize your guilt or lack thereof
  • Swizzle1986
    Swizzle1986 Posts: 31
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    haha pretty much...
  • hkevans724
    hkevans724 Posts: 241 Member
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    That my friend depends on your situation doesn't it?


    ^^ I agree. While I disagree with venturing outside of your marriage for attention, I know that some couples think that sort of thing is ok.. Better ask your SO how they feel about it.
  • PaleoRDH
    PaleoRDH Posts: 266
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    LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well, would you think it was good or bad if your wife was doing it???? Not so bueno, I assume! Personally, I'd give my hubby a swift kick in the nards for it. :noway:
  • HisPathDaily
    HisPathDaily Posts: 672 Member
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    LOL, this one is going in my collection for later!
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  • dodihere
    dodihere Posts: 490
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    So lightly flirting is okay?
  • lilbrowngirlsj
    lilbrowngirlsj Posts: 45 Member
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    BAD!!!!
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
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    What is considered "heavy flirting"?
  • tashjs21
    tashjs21 Posts: 4,584 Member
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    Bad. If you wouldn't say/do it in front of your spouse, don't say/do it .

    But heavy flirting *with your spouse*? Very good. My husband is very flirty with me, and I can't get enough of it. Or him. :wink: I have no need to flirt with other guys.

    ^This.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
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    What is considered "heavy flirting"?

    No penetration, except digital.
  • foxfirekenzie
    foxfirekenzie Posts: 244 Member
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    NonononononononNOnONONonononono! BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD!
    Now go to your room-with your spouse! and forget that nonsense.

    What a stupid question, what were you expecting us all to say?
  • MisterGoodBar
    MisterGoodBar Posts: 157 Member
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    if its intentional then its an awful idea, bro
  • SarahofTwins
    SarahofTwins Posts: 1,169 Member
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    Whats your definition of "heavy flirting" and also how would you feel if she did the same...
  • Bridget0927
    Bridget0927 Posts: 438 Member
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    it can make you a *kitten*

    just kidding

    *kitten*

    HAHAHHAHAHHA

    I agree, thats bad ju ju brotha
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
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    What is considered "heavy flirting"?

    No penetration, except digital.

    Beastie...u dont post that often but when you do KAPOW....its good.

    Wait is that flirting? Oh sorry....that post was SO disrepsectful
  • Kelley528
    Kelley528 Posts: 319 Member
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    flirting with anyone other than your spouse is unacceptable. If you feel the need to flirt outside your marriage, then something is missing in the marriage. it is never ok.
  • BCSMama
    BCSMama Posts: 348
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    Personally, I don't think it's a good idea. I've been married for almost 15 years now and I always follow this bit of advice:

    Always behave as if your spouse was right there with you

    That should eliminate most questions of how appropriate your behavior is with someone else. My husband and I have enough love and respect for each other not to do something that would make the other uncomfortable. However, if the couple is really okay with flirting with other people, that's different. I highly suspect that for most people though, anything beyond friendly interaction is not okay.
  • woodsygirl
    woodsygirl Posts: 354 Member
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    I think it depends on just what flirting entails.

    Does it make you go home at night and love your spouse even more because someone complimented you and made you feel good, or does it make you think you should go behind your spouses back?

    My own feeling is would it be okay to say/do this in public? Would your spouse be upset if they found out?
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
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    What is considered "heavy flirting"?

    No penetration, except digital.

    Beastie...u dont post that often but when you do KAPOW....its good.

    Wait is that flirting? Oh sorry....that post was SO disrepsectful

    I know, right? Ha, ha. It's cool, bro. Wanna do it?
  • sammniamii
    sammniamii Posts: 669 Member
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    If you are "happily" married and not, say a Swinger, why would you be flirting with someone of the opposite/same sex (what ever floats your boat)? That's not respectful to your SO.

    Now, if you had an Open Relationship or say where looking to add a 3rd person and both of you agreed on such a thing before hand, then sure. Go for it, just be respectful of the other people involved and make sure everyone is down with it.

    Otherwise no, no "heavy" flirting.

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