Broken up with Again...

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  • robinogue
    robinogue Posts: 1,117 Member
    he did you a favor, if he is that shallow just think of how terrible things would be in the long run.

    I agree totally! You'll find someone who loves you for you. That guy was a jerk!
  • laila_ifhtab
    laila_ifhtab Posts: 7
    Rat ba*ta*d!!!! Good riddance to bad rubbish. Now you're free to find someone who is worthy of your love and affection.
  • Melonhead
    Melonhead Posts: 168
    I would had said at least he was honest. But, "call me when you hit your goal weight" makes believe he's just a a total DOUCHE. You can and will do better. Forget him.
  • salcha76
    salcha76 Posts: 287 Member
    Send light & love his way, he is obviously miserable & spends his energy putting it off onto others. Kiss it goodbye, no more time or energy wasted, move on. & when you do hit your "goal weight" I hope you accidentally bump into him & he falls over when he sees you, f him.
  • Halleeon
    Halleeon Posts: 309 Member
    His comment is the type of rare thing that would elicit a slap from me.
  • SelenityJ
    SelenityJ Posts: 168 Member
    I think if he'd have done it in person I may just have had that gut reaction to slap him. As it was, he sent me an email instead. Well now my Saturday is free since I was suppose to go on a third date with him but oh well. Live, Learn, get loves... I'll just be more careful in dating choices.
  • Stasia_Niuka
    Stasia_Niuka Posts: 12
    Please don't let this get you down. It is not a reflection on you at all, and he clearly is struggling with his own issues and insecurities about body images. It has nothing to do with you, so you really can't take it personally.

    The important thing, is that you're dating, and an interesting guy was into you enough to ask you out for a second date. He did not break up with you. Two dates does not make a committed relationship. That is what dating is all about, getting to know people, trying them out, figuring out what is great about them and where their rough edges are for growth.

    It's great that didn't spend too much time on him, and you know early on that he is not the right guy for you and can keep looking. As you know, not all guys are as insecure as he is. And some guys do grow out of it.

    But again, it has nothing to do with you, so it's pointless to even think of contacting him as you lose weight. That would definitely be a waste of your time.

    *hugs*
  • StevenHaley
    StevenHaley Posts: 76
    You will never be in the same league as him cos you are in one well above this prick. When you do reach your said goal. Get back in touch with him, show him what he's missing and then tell him to do one!
  • Thin1979
    Thin1979 Posts: 48
    Oh my god what a bleepity bleep bleep! I can think of a million names but not sure the powers that be at fitness pal would appreciate them. We meet all kinds of people in life so we can learn and appreciate good circumstances and good people. Don't give him another thought.

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