What if your daughter's boyfriend did this?

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  • zombie_porno
    zombie_porno Posts: 199 Member
    I look up all SORTS of creepy things out of pure curiosity. It doesn't mean he is using the info. You need to find more out.
  • Swissmiss
    Swissmiss Posts: 8,754 Member
    These site were certainly visited by the boyfriend. He is the only one to have access to the computer in months. As an update....we spoke to our local police and found that they are watching him. They know that something isn't right. The boyfriend has been caught shop lifting from both of our grocery stores. He is banded from going into of them but I found him at these stores all the time. One thing he has begun to do is to leave the house for hours on end. Not even my daughter knows where he goes. She thought he went to Krogers last night so we drove there to see if my daughter's bike was outside the store. (He uses her bike whenever he leaves. Had a bike himself that I think he stoled but then it got stolen from him.) He wasn't there but he was out for over 4 hours.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    These site were certainly visited by the boyfriend. He is the only one to have access to the computer in months. As an update....we spoke to our local police and found that they are watching him. They know that something isn't right. The boyfriend has been caught shop lifting from both of our grocery stores. He is banded from going into of them but I found him at these stores all the time. One thing he has begun to do is to leave the house for hours on end. Not even my daughter knows where he goes. She thought he went to Krogers last night so we drove there to see if my daughter's bike was outside the store. (He uses her bike whenever he leaves. Had a bike himself that I think he stoled but then it got stolen from him.) He wasn't there but he was out for over 4 hours.

    It sounds to me like you should have done something about this kid long before you discovered this search. If you want honest, helpful answers to a question, it's best to give all relevant details in the initial post and not wait three full days to even respond.

    The search in and of itself wouldn't have concerned me much and I would have just asked. But coupled with everything else, it would have been a problem.

    Why is he taking your daughter's bike for hours on end without telling anyone where he's going and why is he the only one with access to YOUR computer? And why have you not been concerned up until now?
  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,690 Member
    this has to be a god forsaken joke if you are seriously thinking twice about this behavior.
  • kimmianne89
    kimmianne89 Posts: 428 Member
    cause he hates being the only one watching Breaking Bad that keeps having to use google to understand the plot?

    cause his buddy told him it comes from cough medicine and he wanted to see if he could call him a retard without being wrong?

    cause boys look up weird sht on the internet like pedo jokes, how to build a bomb, dogs pooping on babies, nut shots and where does meth come from?

    I agree with this. Maybe just keep an eye on him
  • Toomestwin
    Toomestwin Posts: 40
    I have found out that he has been using my computer to find sites on information on how to make meth. Not sure if he is actually doing this but why else would he be looking up the info?

    Shotgun, shovel, pick-up truck. Need I say more?
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Nobody use our computer, except my wife, my daughter and myself. It's also not sequestered away in another room. We keep it on the dining room table when we use it. In full view.
  • HunterKiller_wechange
    HunterKiller_wechange Posts: 369 Member
    I look up Porn on the internet but it doesn't mean that im going to *kitten* to it does it! :wink:

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  • aholly70
    aholly70 Posts: 577 Member
    I would ask him about it,you have that right is it's your computer & keep and a close i eye on him.have you taked to your daughter?
  • daffodilsoup
    daffodilsoup Posts: 1,972 Member
    These site were certainly visited by the boyfriend. He is the only one to have access to the computer in months. As an update....we spoke to our local police and found that they are watching him. They know that something isn't right. The boyfriend has been caught shop lifting from both of our grocery stores. He is banded from going into of them but I found him at these stores all the time. One thing he has begun to do is to leave the house for hours on end. Not even my daughter knows where he goes. She thought he went to Krogers last night so we drove there to see if my daughter's bike was outside the store. (He uses her bike whenever he leaves. Had a bike himself that I think he stoled but then it got stolen from him.) He wasn't there but he was out for over 4 hours.

    It sounds to me like you should have done something about this kid long before you discovered this search. If you want honest, helpful answers to a question, it's best to give all relevant details in the initial post and not wait three full days to even respond.

    The search in and of itself wouldn't have concerned me much and I would have just asked. But coupled with everything else, it would have been a problem.

    Why is he taking your daughter's bike for hours on end without telling anyone where he's going and why is he the only one with access to YOUR computer? And why have you not been concerned up until now?

    QFT
  • leomom72
    leomom72 Posts: 1,797 Member
    bump
  • crazy4lulu
    crazy4lulu Posts: 822 Member
    i would kick his *kitten*. no explanation. !!!! now thats on your computer !!!
  • crazy4lulu
    crazy4lulu Posts: 822 Member
    I have found out that he has been using my computer to find sites on information on how to make meth. Not sure if he is actually doing this but why else would he be looking up the info?

    Shotgun, shovel, pick-up truck. Need I say more?
    this!!!!
  • grubb1019
    grubb1019 Posts: 371 Member
    These site were certainly visited by the boyfriend. He is the only one to have access to the computer in months. As an update....we spoke to our local police and found that they are watching him. They know that something isn't right. The boyfriend has been caught shop lifting from both of our grocery stores. He is banded from going into of them but I found him at these stores all the time. One thing he has begun to do is to leave the house for hours on end. Not even my daughter knows where he goes. She thought he went to Krogers last night so we drove there to see if my daughter's bike was outside the store. (He uses her bike whenever he leaves. Had a bike himself that I think he stoled but then it got stolen from him.) He wasn't there but he was out for over 4 hours.

    It sounds like he is living in your home? If so, you need to ask him to leave now. Once you found out he is a thief why would you even need more information? This doesn't sound like a situation to mess around with.
  • boopboopadoop
    boopboopadoop Posts: 63
    Maybe he watched breaking bad and was looking it up out of curiosity?
  • davepavone
    davepavone Posts: 42
    do not jump to a conclusion. your local drug store has a test kit for use. have your daughter take the test is she is clean than good just tell her to stop seeing him or persuade him to stop seeing her. test him too if he will take it--bet he will not.
    If you child turns up pos you need to get her help right away Meth is not a drug you will just talk her out of.

    I would not wait everyday counts. I also would only worry about my child first then others.
  • MrsBully4
    MrsBully4 Posts: 304 Member
    I bet 9/10 Breaking Bad fans have googled this
  • chroniclesofthinoholic
    chroniclesofthinoholic Posts: 143 Member
    he's doing it wrong...at that age you're supposed to steal credit cards to look at porn...


    hahahhaahha! loved this one! :D
  • talamer
    talamer Posts: 516 Member
    he's doing it wrong...at that age you're supposed to steal credit cards to look at porn...


    hahahhaahha! loved this one! :D

    Hahaha Yeah is it funny! love it too :D
  • McBully4
    McBully4 Posts: 1,270 Member
    I bet 9/10 Breaking Bad fans have googled this

    I must be the 1/10 but i'm sure that many have.
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    I bet 9/10 Breaking Bad fans have googled this

    I did!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I bet 9/10 Breaking Bad fans have googled this

    I must be the 1/10 but i'm sure that many have.

    I've never seen the show, but I have thought about looking up how it's made, simply out of curiosity. The only reason I haven't is that I never remember to do it when I'm somewhere I can. I have a basic idea of what's in it, but I'm curious about exactly what's in it.

    I have never done an illegal drug in my life and at 35 with a pretty stable life, it's doubtful I'm going to start now. I barely drink, FPS.
  • DaraEden
    DaraEden Posts: 68 Member
    They'd no longer be dating because he is stupid. Stupid for researching it, but more stupid for doing it on my computer.

    best answer! haha
  • jorgensena6273
    jorgensena6273 Posts: 3
    You know he may just be curious. I looked that up in high school, BUT i would do your research on this kid. Does he have a delinquent past, is he a loner, who are his friends, whats his home life like. I always like to go the approach of being the wise parent :). Its better to know a situation completely before flying off the handle. And there is nothing wrong with approaching them on it. They may act like your being a drag, BUT if it protects your daughter? I mean you can even approach it as such and if he's around enough and he treats your daughter well then I don't see a problem with talking man to man with him. if he's not respectable its time to have a talk with your daughter. The best talk i ever got from a parent was when my dad said "If you wouldn't want your daughter doing it, don't do it yourself. Someday you'll have children and try to imagine them dating someone like him, or getting trashed at a party and something happening to her, you would still feel responsible. Look at everyone in a situation, not just yourself and let God guide you because you have very poor judgement" hahaha true story I do have very poor judgement, but it did help me alot that my dad told me he loved me explained to me in a way that worked for me how he felt and it made me respect him more even though i rolled my eyes. It did mean something to me.
  • Mollie007
    Mollie007 Posts: 73
    Nothing. I looked up how to make heroin the other day at work because a girl and I were talking about it. (I work in a NICU and we were getting a lot of heroin moms in a the time and we were curious). People look up dumb stuff all the time out of curiosity. They probably just got done watching Breaking Bad.
  • imchicbad
    imchicbad Posts: 1,650 Member
    Tell him you know, and ask him, straight up- why he looked it up. Then youll have your answer :smokin:
  • Swissmiss
    Swissmiss Posts: 8,754 Member
    He is not curious and he is not doing this for some project. After I heard what he is doing I had a friend look him up online. He has a very long record with the court systems in three states.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    He is not curious and he is not doing this for some project. After I heard what he is doing I had a friend look him up online. He has a very long record with the court systems in three states.

    And, again, you left out a ton of pertinent information in your first post and waited three days to clarify why you were so concerned.

    BAER
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    Sweet Jesus on a buttered bagel.


    It seems like he's living under your roof... how about you kick him out? And if he's got a record in three states, he has to be an adult (if you can find them online) so, once again, kick him out. Kick him out? How about kicking him out? Maybe locking your computer and kicking him out? Teaching your daughter to date better kick him out? Hmm. Interesting concept.
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member
    He is not curious and he is not doing this for some project. After I heard what he is doing I had a friend look him up online. He has a very long record with the court systems in three states.
    Time to have a conversation with your daughter.
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