What if your daughter's boyfriend did this?

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  • JaniseNikolic
    JaniseNikolic Posts: 24 Member
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    I am a high school teacher and I know that for our Planning class in grade 10, the students are given an assignment to make an informational poster on the what various drugs are, how they are addictive and the negative side effects etc. So I would talk to the boyfriend (and your daughter for that matter) about the reason for the search. If it is for a project at school, check it with the teacher to make sure it is on the up and up....otherwise my warning bells would be going off!
  • peuglow
    peuglow Posts: 684 Member
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    I'd act like a parent and ask him instead of asking an internet forum for advice (most of which is deplorable).
  • sktllmdrhmzz
    sktllmdrhmzz Posts: 189 Member
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    He's using your computer? He's probably keeping his porn there, too. Don't look too hard or you'll find that anal sex video they made.
  • Molly_Maguire
    Molly_Maguire Posts: 1,103 Member
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    I'd tell him, "I've got a 12 gauge, three acres of land and a shovel, don't make me use them all in one night!"
  • 90shelby
    90shelby Posts: 4
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    Woah, people..A person looked something up from google? Call the police!!

    As a lot of people have already mentioned, he probably watched Breaking Bad and was confused or curious. Or he read an article about meth and how easy it is to make and decided to look up from the internet how easy it really is. Or they had talk in school about it and he was wondering.
    If he'd be serious about starting to cook meth he'd do it privately or would delete his browsing history or would use incognito browsing.

    Oh the stuff I have looked up from the internet or the pictures I have seen and stories I have read... Internet is amazing source of knowledge, it's totally okay to google crap just for ****s and giggles.
  • Athijade
    Athijade Posts: 3,266 Member
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    How about acting like an adult and just asking about it?

    Plus, how are you so sure it was him? Could it not have been your daughter or someone else in the household?
  • shelbyfrootcake
    shelbyfrootcake Posts: 965 Member
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    Maybe he's a fan of Breaking Bad.
  • postrockandcats
    postrockandcats Posts: 1,145 Member
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    When all the new laws came into effect where we had to sign forms to buy decongestants, I became curious as well. Without knowing anything about the guy, is he naturally curious? Did he want to know for the sake of knowing? Is he a real schmuck of a guy and this sent up legit alarms? I wouldn't automatically assume the worst until you spoke to him.
  • deeharley
    deeharley Posts: 1,208 Member
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    I am a high school teacher and I know that for our Planning class in grade 10, the students are given an assignment to make an informational poster on the what various drugs are, how they are addictive and the negative side effects etc. So I would talk to the boyfriend (and your daughter for that matter) about the reason for the search. If it is for a project at school, check it with the teacher to make sure it is on the up and up....otherwise my warning bells would be going off!


    ^^ This - my son's class got free pizza for lunch one day because their class had the best poster on the drug they were assigned. And we all know most boyfriends go to their girlfriends' houses to study. :tongue:
  • kelseyhere
    kelseyhere Posts: 1,123 Member
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    confront him and ask WTH is going on. maybe he just likes science and was interested, but better to ask and find out then find out he's been cooking in your bathroom.
  • MonicaLee92
    MonicaLee92 Posts: 222
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    If I did everything I looked up then i'd probably be dead. People research weird things and watch weird videos online. It's simply just being curious. Ever looked up two girls one cup? I've watched it, but that doesn't mean i'll do it. Haha. I don't think you have anything to worry about. Also, if someone is wanting to do something illegal and they look up information about how to do it they will most likely delete the history themselves.
  • HeavyLiftGirl
    HeavyLiftGirl Posts: 1,267 Member
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    Don't jump to conclusions just yet. Men are curious creatures...
  • seed_of_wonder
    seed_of_wonder Posts: 202 Member
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    ive looked up how to make meth, cocaine, how to grow mushrooms, weed, and all kinds of stuff out of curiosity
    so it could be something & it could be nothing
  • now_or_never12
    now_or_never12 Posts: 849 Member
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    I would speak with both of them and see who actually searched it.

    How do you know it wasn't your daughter? Or someone else in the house? It may not of even been the boyfriend searching.

    Unless you say him search it it's hard to say that for sure he did.

    Find out first who did it and than ask them why.
  • Hichiko
    Hichiko Posts: 97 Member
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    Is he watching Breaking Bad and curious on how to get such a glamorous lifestyle?

    My first thought was, "He must've just finished a Breaking Bad binge."
  • MyaPapaya75
    MyaPapaya75 Posts: 3,143 Member
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    Simply ask him face to face never assume..and tell him hes not allowed to use your computer for such anymore...but I do have one question how do you know its hm searching it?
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,012 Member
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    I want to know why you are letting him use your computer at all? My crap is password protected.......
  • 90shelby
    90shelby Posts: 4
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    They'd be dragging me off the bloody mess I made of him.

    I'd rather date a meth maker than have a father who is willing to murder someone because it. Because I can break up with the boyfriend but crazy and violent dad would be mess to get rid of.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,012 Member
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    Ever looked up two girls one cup? I've watched it, but that doesn't mean i'll do it.

    Damn. I liked where you were going for a min.
  • AquaFitQueen
    AquaFitQueen Posts: 218 Member
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    Oh dear. The paranoia becomes obvious after reading profiles.

    Seriously? Whoa.

    And why post something so inflammatory and not respond for 2 hours? lame.

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