The number one reason I wont date someone

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  • MidwestAngel
    MidwestAngel Posts: 1,897 Member
    #1 Smoking - Ugh...completly agree with ashtray comment above.

    #2 Careless about the way you look - Dated someone like this who just let themselves go and 3 years later I could hardly recognize her...the 4th year after many arguments of trying to show her why its better to keep in good shape and she wouldent budge...I hit the eject button.

    #3 No sense of humor - If you cant handle a joke or two without being offended...wont work.
    Your reasons are repulsive, I cannot believe #3!


    Now I'm sad and hurt!

    *hits eject button*
  • FitandFab33
    FitandFab33 Posts: 718 Member
    And though I'm tall, I had a HUGE crush on a guy who was somewhere around 5'3". It's not that I LOOK for tall guys or shorter guys.. it just happens when it happens.
  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
    I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

    1.) Taller
    2..) Smarter
    3.) Makes more money

    One is fine but my ego can't handle two.

    This.

    Actually, If she falls into category 1, I cannot date her. I'm a tall guy. I'm just not accustomed to looking up at people, especially women.

    I don't mind if she's smarter, because intelligence comes in many different forms.

    If she makes more money now, she won't some day. :P
  • SPBROOKS68
    SPBROOKS68 Posts: 561 Member
    Smokes or does drugs.:noway:
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

    1.) Taller
    2..) Smarter
    3.) Makes more money

    One is fine but my ego can't handle two.

    that would be a trifecta of the worst kind.

    1. I am 5'11'' (or just under) barefoot. And I'm a heels kind of girl.
    2. I like to think that I am intelligent (think 1600 SAT- when it was out of 1600, 4.0 through college, and I can change the oil in my own car)
    3. I don't make money but I HAVE money (family money).

    I would like to think these things are GOOD things in the dating realm. but damned if you do, damned if you don't I guess. :-)

    ETA: I wouldn't date someone who didn't have a sense of humor. I love dry wit on a man.

    Oh they are......How YOU Doin? :flowerforyou:
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

    1.) Taller
    2..) Smarter
    3.) Makes more money

    One is fine but my ego can't handle two.


    Awww, it's just not going to work out for us sweetheart. 3 out of 3 here.
  • likearadiowave
    likearadiowave Posts: 445 Member
    I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

    1.) Taller
    2..) Smarter
    3.) Makes more money

    One is fine but my ego can't handle two.

    Some guys don't like dating women who are smarter than them. I suppose you have a pretty fragile ego.
  • KittieLea
    KittieLea Posts: 1,156 Member
    Full blown AIDS.
  • PhotogNerd
    PhotogNerd Posts: 420 Member
    ....because I'm already married....?
  • Faintgreeneyes
    Faintgreeneyes Posts: 729 Member
    I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

    1.) Taller
    2..) Smarter
    3.) Makes more money

    One is fine but my ego can't handle two.

    *kitten*... guess that means I'm out of the race... :laugh:
  • allifantastical
    allifantastical Posts: 946 Member
    Shorter than me...that includes when I am wearing high heels... it just doesnt seem right to me and makes me feel awkward.

    Me too!
  • glitterjam
    glitterjam Posts: 145 Member
    I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

    1.) Taller
    2..) Smarter
    3.) Makes more money

    One is fine but my ego can't handle two.

    Me three!

    gosh those 3 are how i likey my men ;)

    Me too!!
  • The number one reason I won't date someone is that I'm married. My husband frowns upon that.

    Wish you would have told me this weeks ago when I added you to my friends list! :grumble:
  • -shorter
    -skinnier
    -smoker
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    Full blown AIDS.

    Just the hiv is ok?
  • Bdde
    Bdde Posts: 133 Member
    I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

    1.) Taller
    2..) Smarter
    3.) Makes more money

    One is fine but my ego can't handle two.

    gosh those 3 are how i likey my men ;)

    YOU are describing the 3 out of 5 criteria in my ideal man! lol oh society and their roles! ;-)
  • BruteSquad
    BruteSquad Posts: 373 Member
    I have three rules of dating:

    Never date a woman that can drink more than me.
    Never date a woman I cannot physically pick up.
    Never date a woman that can physically pick me up.

    At 350 and able to dead lift 400+ (haven't done a max in a long time)

    I can date about anyone......
  • Tilran
    Tilran Posts: 627 Member
    Full blown AIDS.

    Family guy "full blown AIDS" song come to mind?
  • solyhhit
    solyhhit Posts: 97 Member
    I don't have a set type. After the initial look it's always a woman's personality that wins me over.

    I guess my issue would be if she didn't like kids, because I have two.

    Otherwise, don't be shy and line up. (the line starts in front of the lonely, Friday-night freezer pizza eating, no-life-having, tall bald guy)
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    ... is because the last time I dated someone she ended up in 15 different plastic bags which I dumped over the side of my boat off the coast of Miami.
  • Tilran
    Tilran Posts: 627 Member
    ... is because the last time I dated someone she ended up in 15 different plastic bags which I dumped over the side of my boat off the coast of Miami.

    Dexter much?
  • I won't date someone unless they are smarter than me. I guess that is sort of strange.
  • I wouldn't date someone who smokes or is shorter than me when I'm in heels or for that matter when I'm not lol!!
  • KittieLea
    KittieLea Posts: 1,156 Member
    Full blown AIDS.

    Family guy "full blown AIDS" song come to mind?
    LMAO! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • miriamwithcats
    miriamwithcats Posts: 1,120 Member
    I won't date, period. I have found that at my age, it is like I lost at the game of musical chairs. All that are left are broken ones or mended ones. I don't want the broken ones, and I don't trust the mended ones. But then, I do have PTSD from my abusive marriage, so maybe I am just absolutely terrified at the thought!
  • bulbadoof
    bulbadoof Posts: 1,058 Member
    Not being attracted to them.
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  • WeekndOVOXO
    WeekndOVOXO Posts: 779 Member
    I actually enjoy an intellectual woman. It's nice to have conversations that actually stimulates your mind. Keeps things new and fresh, especially when our way of thinking clash. Too bad they're so far and between, or just completely uninterested. Damn you height. Damn you to hell.
  • MisterGoodBar
    MisterGoodBar Posts: 157 Member
    taller than me and too guy-ish (those are like a tie for 1st place).
  • Marc713
    Marc713 Posts: 328 Member
    Smokers. That's a deal breaker for me. I love to kiss way too much. Now, I can tolerate someone that may smoke 3-4 a month when out drinking....I even frown on that, but I'm not perfect and don't expect perfection....but I will draw the line and tell them to kick rocks if it becomes too frequent or they start lying about it.
    I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

    1.) Taller
    2..) Smarter
    3.) Makes more money

    One is fine but my ego can't handle two.

    I've done 3/3 and it didn't bother my ego at all. I’m pretty confident and secure. I’ve only dated one lady that was taller, but she was 6’3”! She was a mathematician that did geological analysis and made mid 6 figures. None of it bothered me and it was nice to be able to just book a trip on a whim and head off to New Orleans. It was really sweet when she surprised me with a couples massage one day followed by an excellent fine dining experience later that evening. It was really nice to get pampered and have a nice chunk of money spent on me for a change, as I can tend to drop a lot of money on some dates as I really enjoy fine dining and wine.
  • Marc713
    Marc713 Posts: 328 Member
    I actually enjoy an intellectual woman. It's nice to have conversations that actually stimulates your mind. Keeps things new and fresh, especially when our way of thinking clash. Too bad they're so far and between, or just completely uninterested. Damn you height. Damn you to hell.

    Yes, smart women are sexy! It's awesome when you can have a "good" conversation that can last for hours and touch on a variety of topics.