The number one reason I wont date someone
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If he is not a RAVENS fan
Well that eliminates all the decent guys out there.0 -
Guys that're already in relationships, emotionally detached clusterf_cks, & criminals. All the guys that I attract somehow :L0
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My 'ideal' partner is taller and heavier than me, laid back, with a sense of humor.
I refuse to date somebody that is abusive, on drugs (even marijuana), does not have their own legal source of income (awful lot of pot farmers in my area), or that won't respect me. Other than that, I'm pretty open. I don't feel that's too much to ask for.0 -
Fat ....she has to like working out0
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Little Boy Syndrome-
Translates to not having your $h*t together in life. Not knowing what you want to do, how to do it etc. No goals. No independence. No desire to better yourself as a person. You don't know who you are, what you stand for or your own moral/ethics etc.
People evolve at different rates but don't expect me to follow your highschool notions of what a relationship is when you have been out in the real world post college for more than 5 years.0 -
if they're married0
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I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.
1.) Taller
2..) Smarter
3.) Makes more money
One is fine but my ego can't handle two.
Damn.. That means we could never date...
I'm just joking, really. I'll soon be bypassing my boyfriend in the money department, and I hope that doesn't bother him... I'm also teller than him by half an inch.. As far as the smarts, he has no worries. He's fortunately very intelligent; it's wonderful.0 -
I like my men like like my coffee, Strong, creamy, and rich.
Just kidding. I just need them to be emotionally stable, have ambition, intelligent, confident, compassionate, and loving. Just like my boyfriend Three years and counting, and I can't wait to see where life takes us. 0 -
-Republican/right winger
-Omnivore
-Unhealthy/inactive/boring
Luckily my sweet & gorgeous man is none of these!0 -
if they're married
I'm single by the way0 -
Does drugs....
Alcoholic
Abusive/anger problems
Significantly overweight
Addicted to video games
Those are things that won't fly with my lifestyle haha. If my husband ended in one of those categories (which would NEVER be expected but can happen to the best of us) I wouldn't leave him... Obviously support would be given. But going into a relationship these are things I would call automatic no nos.0 -
my number 1 reason i won't date someone is - if they aren't my wife.
Anyway, when I was dating years ago - i dated all types. Taller, bigger, smaller, shorter, small chested, large chested, smarter, um... not smarter. I didn't have any "rules" other than "do I find this person attractive." If the answer was yes, then I took a shot.
That is kinda like how I am. I date all sorts of types too. For me what has got me is finding out that Mr Prince Charming isnt so charming after all. Maybe I should have a long list of what I like before I date them! LOL0 -
I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.
1.) Taller
2..) Smarter
3.) Makes more money
One is fine but my ego can't handle two.
I won't date someone that is 2 out of 3.
1. shorter
2. less smart
3. makes less money0 -
I live in AL and I won't date someone who is obsessed with college football (Alabama vs Auburn crap) or that chews tobacco...That REALLY limits my choices in AL.
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Who:
Doesn't work by choice/lacks work ethic
Has lost their license or just won't get it
Doesn't have a bank account
Those are my absolute no's that I've added to the list from my own immature stupid choices in guys. Two of them had these exact same things in common, sadly I didn't learn the 1st time but luckily never had to have a 3rd times a charm :indifferent:
How does someone not have a bank account? How do they get paid and pay bills?0 -
Who:
Doesn't work by choice/lacks work ethic
Has lost their license or just won't get it
Doesn't have a bank account
Those are my absolute no's that I've added to the list from my own immature stupid choices in guys. Two of them had these exact same things in common, sadly I didn't learn the 1st time but luckily never had to have a 3rd times a charm :indifferent:
How does someone not have a bank account? How do they get paid and pay bills?
I don't like paying bills0 -
Being insecure is a huge turn off for me, I don't want to constantly have to reassure someone that I'm into them.
I will even date you if you still live with your parents, as long as there is a really good reason, like you're working towards a goal/school etc.. 0 -
Number one: they are also a man. (not against those that do though)0
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1. Shorter
2. No drive/motivation/determination
3. Lack of intelligence
4. Lack of respect for people
5. No sense of humor 0 -
I'm 6'6" and would love to date a woman taller than me
Hit me up, Amazons. Death by snoo snoo seems like a valiant way to go.0 -
Love Shallow Hal0
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Sounds like I don't have a chance...I wouldn’t date someone who was:
Stupid
A walking stereotype
Obese
Boring
Lazy
Emo/Whiny
Not kind to animals
Abusive to women or children
Or lacked a sense of humor0 -
Shorter than me...that includes when I am wearing high heels... it just doesnt seem right to me and makes me feel awkward.
this was the one rule that the ladies had that ever eliminated me from their selection.
I have never understood why it makes me feel that way, just does...its not that I deliberately set my attraction node to taller it just is...There is someone for everyone my sister, who is taller than me, prefers short men. Probably a good job and she is nearly 6'
I also prefer shorter men I am 6'2 and my husband is 5'8.0 -
You'd be surprised how many loonies out there will walk 5 miles to pay their bill in person using cash.How does someone not have a bank account? How do they get paid and pay bills?0 -
I'm married now, but the #1 thing was lack of drive and ambition. Everything else can be negotiable or worked on ( provided that person wanted to work on it ). But the lack of motivation to want to get things done... sorry see ya!0
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Hm I seem to have a list of things. Not in any particular order.
Thinner
Smoking/drug use/excessive alcohol consumption
Excessive gaming
Younger
Shorter
Immature
Lazy (no ambition/goals)
Bad hygiene
Bad communication/social skills
Pessimism
Poor money management0 -
not my type...or looking for0
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Wow there's a lot of insecure people.
My #1 reason is if they're a *kitten*.0 -
If he is irresponsible.0
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They are tight/over conscious about money. Do NOT get me wrong, I am anything but materialistic or high maintenance, I don't want anyone spending their money on me, I just cannot STAND if a man thinks that me spending money on for example a night out with the girls instead of sitting in with a couple of bottles of wine, or going to a coffee shop instead of just waiting til I get home to get coffee, or getting a taxi instead of a bus, is a "waste of good money" it just makes me cringe really and is a major major turn off for me. I'd just rather they not say anything at all. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being careful with money, but I just can't stand when people talk about money as if it's the most important thing
That's the number 1 turn off for me0
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