Once I got dumped for

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  • ksmiley412
    ksmiley412 Posts: 274 Member
    I got dumped because my friends boyfriend had his arm on the back of my chair when the guy I was dating walked in the bar.
  • gingerjen7
    gingerjen7 Posts: 821 Member
    i just got dumped... reason.... idk.
    Maybe because you got all hot and you're out of his league now and he knows you'd dump him once you realized that you could do better.
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Where do I start....

    I had an amazing first date with this guy. Went so well so I agreed on a second date. That was going great as well, then he scared me away....tells me he wants me to go on a cruise with his family in 3 weeks and then starts talking marriage. I bailed.

    I dated a man for about 6 months. We were having sex, then he started having a guilty conscious. He said that we shouldn't be having premarital sex. I'm not one to pressure anyone, so I said that was fine. But, we'd still end up sleeping together. Well, then we started talking seriously about marriage. He was determined about the "no sex", so I put my foot down. I said if it was something that was really important to him, I wouldn't do it. Then he broke up with me because he felt like I was just not sexually attracted to him. I was done fighting the battle and let it be.
  • lalaCNSbFS
    lalaCNSbFS Posts: 83
    ^bump
  • LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo
    LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo Posts: 3,634 Member
    Being intimidating... It happened 4 years ago when I met this guy who was studying an MBA degree, he had no job & was totally dependent with his parents while I just switched careers & was starting out anew. We were together for almost 2 years without sex (our choice) which is what I really want despite me having it in some past relationships but to be honest I'm really not comfortable doing it. The break-up was mutual & we ended it on good terms, had occassional contact with him initiating for 2 more years.

    Then we recently got reconnected after 2 years of strictly no contact (him again initiating things) & things are going well for both of us. He hasn't dated anyone seriously since the break-up & is definitely showing signs that he still loves me but right now I'm taking things slow as we both still have our own respective dreams that we want to attain. I still do love him & actually want to be with him for the rest of my life. But for now I'm just enjoying the "friendship" (NOTE: no sex involved around here) that we have right now & from there we'll see what happens.

    I'm not the needy type of woman & I also hate dramas. I would rather take things at its own course rather than rushing it to happen. I believe that everything happens for a reason & things will go back to normal if we are really meant to be.
  • yayagaga
    yayagaga Posts: 8
    I never really had been dumped back when I dated because I rarely committed myself to exclusively dating one guy (aside from my husband I've only really had 2 other committed relationships), I guess you could say "I dated like men do" but this one time I was starting to really like this one guy and he ended up breaking things off for that reason.... and the fact it was really long distance so the "split" ended up making good sense, after all it's all fun and games until someone's feelings get hurt.

    On the flip side I have always felt bad because I didn't return the phone calls of a guy I had been seeing because we had been watching a movie one night and he took his shoes off and two of his toes were grown together like it was a 2fer-toe. Totally not his fault but all I could think about was TOE TOE TOE TOE TOE!!!

    Weight has never played a factor in men I've dated, it was always just more about having fun for me, when it quit being fun is when I quit returning calls.
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    Doing a body building comp. Told her I wanted to stop after years of experience of comp dieting, told her I was exhausted and feeling snappy but she said do it and insisted it was the right thing to do.

    I was snappy and tired. She dumped me because of that.
  • denezy
    denezy Posts: 573 Member
    stories of incest, twofer toes, sex and religious debates. This thread has it all! Thanks everyone!!!
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    A really stupid boyfriend introduced me to a girl from his college who was supposedly his dream girl but she never noticed him... he said this to me. His girlfriend. WTF. Yeah, we were done after that.

    Hey, I dated that guy!

    Me too! 3 yr relationship and at the end he told me he had loved this girl forever, but since he didnt hav a chance he went for me. Such a great guy. Best part was, she told me she didnt like him like that, I told him, he cried to his mum and I laughed my *kitten* off :happy:

    *high five*!
  • dodihere
    dodihere Posts: 490
    I got dumped by my children's father because I was boring, he left me for the girl upstairs because she was fun and smoked pot. I worked, took care of the home and took care of the kids. I was boring.
  • persephone87
    persephone87 Posts: 220 Member
    the more I read this the more I realise I'm better off single and reassure me that my 'men are ars*holes' theory is correct. And some women but they aren't my type. But seriously guys sort your bloody selves out grow up, stop being ignorant, arrogant, fickle and shallow.
  • Zomoniac
    Zomoniac Posts: 1,169 Member
    the more I read this the more I realise I'm better off single and reassure me that my 'men are ars*holes' theory is correct. And some women but they aren't my type. But seriously guys sort your bloody selves out grow up, stop being ignorant, arrogant, fickle and shallow.

    Yes, because generalising a gender when a substantial number of the replies on this thread are by men who have been messed around by women is perfectly rational. I suspect you are better off single, but for the sake of others rather than yourself.
  • MemphisKitten
    MemphisKitten Posts: 878 Member
    Having depression.
  • busywaterbending
    busywaterbending Posts: 844 Member
    I got dumped for wanting to give my virginity up to him. I guess he was gay but didn't want to admit it.
  • meghan6867
    meghan6867 Posts: 388 Member
    There were a large variety of reasons my last relationship was an epic FAIL... but my favorite excuses that he made:

    1) You're too fat.
    2) You're on a diet so that must mean you're controlling.

    :noway:

    Coincedentally, now that I've lost all that weight and some he's begging for a second chance. I don't think so.:laugh:
  • laurenellenmarie
    laurenellenmarie Posts: 331 Member
    I got dumped on my 21st birthday. At the bar. Because I was too "irresponsible."

    Irresponsible meaning I went out with my MOTHER, worked a full day of work that day, had a DD, and was home by 10.
  • cubizzle
    cubizzle Posts: 900 Member
    I got dumped for wanting to give my virginity up to him. I guess he was gay but didn't want to admit it.

    I had a girl say she wanted to lose her virginity with me.....so I slept with a preggo chick instead......couldn't handle the pressure.
  • persephone87
    persephone87 Posts: 220 Member
    haha hows about you just have a nice big cup of shut the **** up? It's probably more women posting horror stories in here though I've only read 12 pages so I might be wrong. I doubt it.
  • Zomoniac
    Zomoniac Posts: 1,169 Member
    haha hows about you just have a nice big cup of shut the **** up? It's probably more women posting horror stories in here though I've only read 12 pages so I might be wrong. I doubt it.

    Given the ratio of women to men on MFP in general you'd probably expect that really. On the balance of the site I'd say it matches up fairly evenly. But to deduce that would require a vague degree of rational thinking. Do continue.
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    haha hows about you just have a nice big cup of shut the **** up? It's probably more women posting horror stories in here though I've only read 12 pages so I might be wrong. I doubt it.
    I'm beggining to understand why you are single.
  • gingerjen7
    gingerjen7 Posts: 821 Member
    haha hows about you just have a nice big cup of shut the **** up? It's probably more women posting horror stories in here though I've only read 12 pages so I might be wrong. I doubt it.
    Wow. I guess everyone knows why you're single now.
  • llaurenmarie
    llaurenmarie Posts: 1,260 Member
    I shouldn't have to keep reminding people to lighten up haha
  • ashesfromfire
    ashesfromfire Posts: 867 Member
    I once got dumped because my boyfriend realized he wanted to have sex with me...........................and apparently him wanting that was not okay with him. So he dumped me - at 3am - over a text message - on my friends phone.............yeah
  • LadyOfOceanBreeze
    LadyOfOceanBreeze Posts: 762 Member
    Thread reminds me of the song 50 ways to say she died

    You mean 50 ways to say goodbye? :)

    ummm. 50 ways to leave your lover?

    :brokenheart: Gee....hows about 50 ways to (hopefully) recover? :heart:
  • LadyOfOceanBreeze
    LadyOfOceanBreeze Posts: 762 Member
    I got dumped, oh wait, make that divorced, and I still don't know the reason. No reason is worse than a stupid reason. i wish she'd just say she hates me or something.


    :ohwell: but then again, didn't she? :flowerforyou:
  • LadyOfOceanBreeze
    LadyOfOceanBreeze Posts: 762 Member
    I shouldn't have to keep reminding people to lighten up haha


    this. :wink:
  • diligentjosh
    diligentjosh Posts: 274
    Not being a girl...
  • NatashaShen
    NatashaShen Posts: 295 Member
    Last year I got dumped via text message because I was too independent.

    He got engaged and married to someone else 4 months later. I never saw the dumb btch but my best friend said shes fugly. LOL
  • carryingon
    carryingon Posts: 609 Member
    haha hows about you just have a nice big cup of shut the **** up? It's probably more women posting horror stories in here though I've only read 12 pages so I might be wrong. I doubt it.
    I'm beggining to understand why you are single.

    ^^^ funny
  • NocturnalGirl
    NocturnalGirl Posts: 1,762
    never been dumped. Can't imagine how it'd feel

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