Once I got dumped for

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  • shellebelle87
    shellebelle87 Posts: 291 Member
    Bump for part 2!
  • llaurenmarie
    llaurenmarie Posts: 1,260 Member
    Bump for part 2!
    woo!
  • prettygonetatty
    prettygonetatty Posts: 16
    My boyfriend when i was 14 always used to call my Cell Phone from his home phone.
    He dumped me because his parents got mad at him about the phone bill!
    Haaa!
  • lorettaasmith
    lorettaasmith Posts: 418 Member
    I got dumped because my husband and I were too much alike. I like men...and apparently so does he. After 11 years and 3 children, he left me for a 25 year old male dancer in Thailand!
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,010 Member
    Love this thread...

    1. After taking this guy back, a couple months later we were out drinking and apparently I flirted with some guy while a bartender made us another drink. He ignored me for 2 days, then dumped me via text while I was working. When he came crawling back a few months later I told him to take a hike.

    2. This one was more mutual - although this guy couldn't give a straight answer to save his life - so I made him say it to give myself some satisfaction. Anyways this one is super recent. I dated this guy for 9 months. I always kind of knew something was off with him, I couldn't place it, and was starting to think he was just a workaholic who never had time for anything. Come to find out threw the grapevine he is actually a gambling addict with an ubsurd amount of money in debt. He didn't like I knew, I didn't like he was a gambler and that he had no time for me, so we called it off within 2 days of me finding out. He said 'I am fairly certain I want to break up, but we should sit down together and talk before we finalize it' HAHA what?

    So I also attract addict *kitten*... time to change what I am looking for. At this point you don't even have to be sexy, just treat me right.. haha.
  • MariaMariaM
    MariaMariaM Posts: 1,322 Member
    In HS I got dumped after my then boyfriend didn't pass his math test. Apparently he was dating me to get tutoring classes. Unfortunately, smarts cant be taught! Today is is still the loser he was back then.
  • shaynak112
    shaynak112 Posts: 751 Member
    Bump! These are amusing :p

    I feel kinda lucky. Never been dumped. First boyfriend was nice, just not right for me. He's a good guy. I hope he find someone who is right for him. My bf now ... he's never been dumped either lol.
  • marvelprime
    marvelprime Posts: 91 Member
    The main ex, I won't delve there...too much story lol.

    Most recent adventure/attempt:

    After a month of dating, she told me she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. Then she dumped via text, and within the next week she accidently dropped that she had a boyfriend.
  • MissShancey
    MissShancey Posts: 464
    bump because reading `these is amazing lol
  • Hungrygirl88
    Hungrygirl88 Posts: 73
    Being boring. We dated for like 3 hours ( high school) a few weeks later started dating this other girl, and was sleeping with his male friend behind her back...and he ended up marrying the girl...I hated highschool.
  • MissShancey
    MissShancey Posts: 464
    Being boring. We dated for like 3 hours ( high school) a few weeks later started dating this other girl, and was sleeping with his male friend behind her back...and he ended up marrying the girl...I hated highschool.

    wait, what... he dumped you... started seeing another girl .. was cheating on the girl WITH A GUY THEN MARRIED THE GIRL?
  • OH_matt
    OH_matt Posts: 228 Member
    I got dumped by an ex for another guy because (and I quote) "we were going nowhere, and I wasn't going anywhere with my life." We dated in high school and my freshman year in college (a total of nearly 3 years), so needless to say I didn't have a real career path at the time. Both of her points there were completely moot. Fun part is, the guy she cheated on me with then went to after dumping me is about 10 years older than her, in a really bad band and "hoping to make it someday", and works like 10 hours a week at a FedEx depot. They've been together for going on 9 years now, no engagement/wedding in sight, and he's in his mid to late 30s still hoping for the band and she works part time at a McDonalds, lives at home, and been thrown out of 3 colleges.

    Meanwhile, I've graduated from 2 schools, with 4 degrees, work at Procter and Gamble, and own my own house. Guess I won in that deal.
  • llaurenmarie
    llaurenmarie Posts: 1,260 Member
    I got dumped by an ex for another guy because (and I quote) "we were going nowhere, and I wasn't going anywhere with my life." We dated in high school and my freshman year in college (a total of nearly 3 years), so needless to say I didn't have a real career path at the time. Both of her points there were completely moot. Fun part is, the guy she cheated on me with then went to after dumping me is about 10 years older than her, in a really bad band and "hoping to make it someday", and works like 10 hours a week at a FedEx depot. They've been together for going on 9 years now, no engagement/wedding in sight, and he's in his mid to late 30s still hoping for the band and she works part time at a McDonalds, lives at home, and been thrown out of 3 colleges.

    Meanwhile, I've graduated from 2 schools, with 4 degrees, work at Procter and Gamble, and own my own house. Guess I won in that deal.
    You WIN
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    bumpity
  • sharkweek
    sharkweek Posts: 165 Member
    First of all this thread is hilarious! But where do I start....lets go with the top three...

    1. I was dumped at 18 because and I quote "what I can get off you I could get off a prostitute"... on our first "date" (took me to maccas and then to a pool hall) he proceeded to get me beyond drunk (i was vomiting), took me home and had sex with me twice..told me i should "respect myself more than to sleep around"- Prior to him i was a VIRGIN :noway:

    2. Been seeing a lovely rich man for about 6mths... getting taken to lunch, sleep overs at his and weekends away....new years day I got a call from him (me being mighty hungover) telling me that it was over because he just couldn't see a future....didn't see that one coming. This story gets interesting 5mins later when I got a call from a angry woman asking me how long i've been sleeping with her fiance? Guess that future was hard to see beyond his angry fiance reading his new years text professing his love to me....whoops!

    3. Recent was him explaining to me with that song "She's so high-Fastball" that I was too beautiful, too smart and I deserved better than him, and that he couldn't be with me because what we had was so deep & he'd not be able to be with another girl like that until he sorted himself out..... Well it turns out he was able to sort himself out mighty quickly (unlike i was... heartbroken and destroyed) because the young, unemployed, pregnant chick he had as a customer 2mths earlier and him were annoucing their relationship on facebook 3 days later... JOY.

    I'm thinking I'm attracted to *kitten* at this point, so I'm not dating for a while.
    You win the sketchiest succession of men award! Unfortunately, the only real prize is the stories. :)
  • Thena81
    Thena81 Posts: 1,265 Member
    good idea babes!!
  • Surfrider
    Surfrider Posts: 364 Member
    3 serious two year+ relationships and a dozen or so not so serious and I have never been dumped. =/
  • SafioraLinnea
    SafioraLinnea Posts: 628 Member
    I've never been dumped, I've always been the one who ends things.

    I ended the relationship with my first boyfriend (we dated for nearly 2 years) because he was gay and refused to admit it to anyone, including himself, even though he had so many signs that I'm surprised he hadn't been hit on by men. He vehemently denied being gay when I (gently) let him know I couldn't be his girlfriend anymore.

    I deserved a relationship where my partner loved me and was physically and emotionally attracted to me. He wasn't bisexual. He was blatantly gay, I was merely the woman he brought home to his parents because he wanted to be what they expected, even though he wasn't. I have many gay and lesbian friends, I just didn't want to be dating someone who was lying to himself about who he was. He came out last year, nearly 4 years after I left him.
  • supertracylynn
    supertracylynn Posts: 1,338 Member
    When I was 13, I was dumped because I wouldn't French kiss my boyfriend. I'd never done it before and was well aware that I couldn't repeat "the very first time". He immediately started "dating" another girl... who outweighed me by 20-30# and had really crooked teeth. But she was more than willing to French kiss him.

    That was a bad lesson to learn, and quite the slippery slope. :noway:
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    bumps
  • shellebelle87
    shellebelle87 Posts: 291 Member
    Being boring. We dated for like 3 hours ( high school) a few weeks later started dating this other girl, and was sleeping with his male friend behind her back...and he ended up marrying the girl...I hated highschool.

    wait, what... he dumped you... started seeing another girl .. was cheating on the girl WITH A GUY THEN MARRIED THE GIRL?

    I still dont get this....I need this explained!!!
  • SLRamirez2012
    SLRamirez2012 Posts: 297
    I've never really been dumped, besides little ones in high school.. this older guy thought that I would be easy, then when I wsn't went to my friend just to find out that she was easier than me, but still didn't go all the way.. then 6 years down the line wants to date me again, I give him a chance, and he is a dirtball low-life. Me taking care of him, dude didn't even have a car, and no job when we first got together, losing teeth, I don't know why I Was in that relationship.....

    But my husband actually stole me away from two people... The guy I was with when my husband and I first met, and that low-life previously mentioned... lol He wasn't giving up. And that last steal led to our wedding, and a great life :love:

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