Married Women-Your Thoughts?

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  • What is "creeper message" anyway? I do not know this term.

    I am not sure! lol
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    FYI - to the 9 ladies who just sent my husband a friend request he will be denying them :)

    Yeah he will. On this account.
  • FYI - to the 9 ladies who just sent my husband a friend request he will be denying them :)

    Yeah he will. On this account.

    My wonderful hubby wouldn't be that decietful!
  • charelg
    charelg Posts: 599 Member
    Everyone should just go on to the Rate me thread. lol.
    I can say I'm guilty of going on that topic as well, boredom, and my fiancé got annoyed that I did that. Don't think it's that big of a deal, as long as you are honest about it. It's not like you know any of these people and its just a lil ego boost.
  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
    What is "creeper message" anyway? I do not know this term.

    I am not sure! lol

    A lot like "Just wanted to say....lookin game ms ..... ms pretty smile, anytime. your guy's damn lucky, i see. "

    Or requests for nekkid pics.
  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    FYI - to the 9 ladies who just sent my husband a friend request he will be denying them :)

    Yeah he will. On this account.

    My wonderful hubby wouldn't be that decietful!
    As much as I love my husband, and, as good as his characer is....he is still a MAN!
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,733 Member
    look, this is pretty simple.

    the wife has her FEELINGS hurt.
    the husband is trying to prove he didn't do anything wrong.

    wife's FEELINGS >> husband proving he didn't do anything wrong.

    let's look at the possible scenarios.

    a) wife hurt, husband did something wrong = outcome: husband must apologize
    b) wife hurt, husband did nothing wrong = outcome: husband must apologize
    c) wife not hurt, husband did something wrong = outcome: marriage counseling
    d) wife not hurt, husband did nothing wrong = outcome: this thread wouldn't exist in the first place

    it's pretty obvious what the husband must do.
  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    look, this is pretty simple.

    the wife has her FEELINGS hurt.
    the husband is trying to prove he didn't do anything wrong.

    wife's FEELINGS >> husband proving he didn't do anything wrong.

    let's look at the possible scenarios.

    a) wife hurt, husband did something wrong = outcome: husband must apologize
    b) wife hurt, husband did nothing wrong = outcome: husband must apologize
    c) wife not hurt, husband did something wrong = outcome: marriage counselor
    d) wife not hurt, husband did nothing wrong = outcome: this thread wouldn't exist in the first place

    it's pretty obvious what the husband must do.
    lol!
    Cool:)
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    What is "creeper message" anyway? I do not know this term.

    I am not sure! lol

    A lot like "Just wanted to say....lookin game ms ..... ms pretty smile, anytime. your guy's damn lucky, i see. "

    Or requests for nekkid pics.

    What type of amoral d-bag asks women on the internet for nekkid pics??? Besides me, I mean
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    FYI - to the 9 ladies who just sent my husband a friend request he will be denying them :)

    Yeah he will. On this account.

    My wonderful hubby wouldn't be that decietful!

    As pointed out by an astute friend of mine, I'm pretty sure these two are sitting on the couch having a good laugh at all they've stirred up. I'm cool with it. After all, the couple that trolls together stays together.
  • look, this is pretty simple.

    the wife has her FEELINGS hurt.
    the husband is trying to prove he didn't do anything wrong.

    wife's FEELINGS >> husband proving he didn't do anything wrong.

    let's look at the possible scenarios.

    a) wife hurt, husband did something wrong = outcome: husband must apologize
    b) wife hurt, husband did nothing wrong = outcome: husband must apologize
    c) wife not hurt, husband did something wrong = outcome: marriage counseling
    d) wife not hurt, husband did nothing wrong = outcome: this thread wouldn't exist in the first place

    it's pretty obvious what the husband must do.

    Good Point!! I think there is more harm if a wife isn't hurt about something that was done wrong than if a wife is hurt about something that their husband did not do wrong.
  • Sarauk2sf
    Sarauk2sf Posts: 28,072 Member
    What is "creeper message" anyway? I do not know this term.

    I am not sure! lol

    A lot like "Just wanted to say....lookin game ms ..... ms pretty smile, anytime. your guy's damn lucky, i see. "

    Or requests for nekkid pics.

    What type of amoral d-bag asks women on the internet for nekkid pics??? Besides me, I mean

    You never asked me for any you *kitten*!
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,733 Member


    What type of amoral d-bag asks women on the internet for nekkid pics??? Besides me, I mean

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  • katy84o
    katy84o Posts: 744 Member
    I think of that happened with me, I would have gone to the thread, as well, and rated my husband.

    Yes, it may bother me a bit to see him rating other females, but joining in along with him would make me get over it, I bet.

    *I was thinking this to, only I would rate the next person, not specifically my boyfriend.

    I wouldn't mind, if it was a simple rating. If it was like "damn girl you have the sexiest legs" or "on a scale of 1-10 your a 20! Out of this world beautiful" then it would be crossing the line. But simply rating I don't think I would mind.. ever think that it might not be him just wanting to look and rate the women but HIM needing the confidence booster from the person who rates him..

    Also, I'm pretty positive men are not the only one's who look or lust after others. I'm not married, but I've been with my boyfriend for six years, and only when we were first dating did I get annoyed if he even glanced in another chicks direction.. I know he loves me, and we talk about attractiveness on both men and women that we see all the time. Some we agree on, others we don't. It's always fun when we don't agree and we have to argue why we think that person is so attractive. It's pure entertainment, it's like looking at actors and actresses in movies. Except we do it while we are at work, or at a bar, or at dinner. We also make fun of what people are wearing or doing, so it's not all looks.
  • Yes..I can see this thread, yes she has all of my passwords including this one. And I did it a total of like 3 times purely because I was bored and find it entertaining. And admittedly like to see how others perceive me. Nothing wrong with that is there?

    Priceless.

    I am not laughing with you bro, I am laughing at you
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    What is "creeper message" anyway?

    The hot chicks on MFP get them all the time.....
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    What is "creeper message" anyway? I do not know this term.

    I am not sure! lol

    A lot like "Just wanted to say....lookin game ms ..... ms pretty smile, anytime. your guy's damn lucky, i see. "

    Or requests for nekkid pics.

    What type of amoral d-bag asks women on the internet for nekkid pics??? Besides me, I mean

    You never asked me for any you *kitten*!

    Uh oh. I better send out a mass creeper PM before I get in trouble with everyone on my FL
  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
    What is "creeper message" anyway? I do not know this term.

    I am not sure! lol

    A lot like "Just wanted to say....lookin game ms ..... ms pretty smile, anytime. your guy's damn lucky, i see. "

    Or requests for nekkid pics.

    What type of amoral d-bag asks women on the internet for nekkid pics??? Besides me, I mean

    You never asked me for any you *kitten*!
    Nanny Nanny Boo Boo.....He's asked me many times!
  • I'm can't even speak ...I have been in threads with people talking about there significant others that arn't on MFP but I have never been on one that the other person magically apears!!

    *mouth drop*
  • freddykid
    freddykid Posts: 265 Member
    If it makes you uncomfortable, tell him to stop. should not be big deal. On a side note, it is a little over sensitive and I think if it is bothering you, it is for other reasons. 2 cents
  • Wow.. for those who have given me advice and your perspective I greatly do appreciate it. I know that I do not post in the forums that often! For those who did not 100% agree with me your thoughts did show me a different perspective, in which has helped me understand alittle more. Although even though I know my husbands posts were harmless I still don't like other girls rating him.. alot of it comes with what comes after it ( TONS of friend requests from other girls) and I am not that naive to think that they have innocent/harmless intentions;) For those who think that I am trying to "stir" things up quite honestly I was just get other perspectives on this topic.
  • I'm not married, but I am engaged and we have been together going on 7 years. Honestly, it wouldn't have bothered me at all. My fiance looks at women when we're out, and we talk about how certain girls are pretty and so on. I understand he loves me and wants to be with me, but I also understand he is a guy. He's going to see a pretty girl and make a comment. Those who don't say anything are still looking at women, they are just too scared to say anything. Don't let it bother you. All is well, but it's a bit much to think you are the only woman in the world he finds attractive. I know I always look at men around him, and he laughs and does the same with me

    THIS :drinker:

    Hahaha! Well thanks! It's worked for us for years! I love playing the game of whether he finds a woman attractive or not. But to each their own. I can't expect everyone to treat a relationship the same as him and I. Clearly the OP and her hubby are in complete communication with each other, so I see no reason for this to be a big deal. If it's a problem, speak up. If not, don't. Relationships to me should not be a job, but something that comes natural. Perhaps I'm nieve, but I watched my parents relationship completely fail, and mine flourish. I just go with it being two people in love sharing a life, not making it a huge problem.
  • shellydd
    shellydd Posts: 156 Member
    i dont like flirting of any kind.....leads to trouble
  • Marvi120
    Marvi120 Posts: 24 Member
    I'm married and don't participate in those threads anymore. I see nothing wrong with it if you're both ok with it... but I personally feel like it's a bit disrespectful.
  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
    I'm can't even speak ...I have been in threads with people talking about there significant others that arn't on MFP but I have never been on one that the other person magically apears!!

    *mouth drop*

    There was a thread a few weeks ago where a couple laid out REALLY EXPLICIT foreplay sexting with each other. Like, really dirty. That was a mouth dropper. This isn't so bad.
  • VelociMama
    VelociMama Posts: 3,119 Member
    I'm can't even speak ...I have been in threads with people talking about there significant others that arn't on MFP but I have never been on one that the other person magically apears!!

    *mouth drop*

    There was a thread a few weeks ago where a couple laid out REALLY EXPLICIT foreplay sexting with each other. Like, really dirty. That was a mouth dropper. This isn't so bad.

    I miss all the fun around here. Stupid work...
  • Marvi120
    Marvi120 Posts: 24 Member
    Disrespectful. i agree!
  • IMO, doing a pic rating on this site seems relatively tame.

    Although, I'd imagine something's probably happened in the past, for her to have all of HIS PASSWORDS - or she's an untrusting crazy lady

    & I'd assume homeboy knows the rating would drive the wife batty, and probably shouldn't do it.
  • MoreBean13
    MoreBean13 Posts: 8,701 Member
    I'm can't even speak ...I have been in threads with people talking about there significant others that arn't on MFP but I have never been on one that the other person magically apears!!

    *mouth drop*

    There was a thread a few weeks ago where a couple laid out REALLY EXPLICIT foreplay sexting with each other. Like, really dirty. That was a mouth dropper. This isn't so bad.

    I miss all the fun around here. Stupid work...
    It was late on either a friday or a saturday. You might have been sleeping!
  • LadyOfOceanBreeze
    LadyOfOceanBreeze Posts: 762 Member
    really??? :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:


    And a lot of people post 9s and 10s just to be nice regardless of what the person looks like.
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