When did you know it was over?

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  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    He didn't like bacon. He had to go.
  • stinkpurty
    stinkpurty Posts: 148
    He didn't like bacon. He had to go.

    I agree that is a total dealbreaker. (And turkey bacon does not count.)
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    He didn't like bacon. He had to go.

    I agree that is a total dealbreaker. (And turkey bacon does not count.)

    agreed! lol
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    All I can say is that I've "known" for a very long time. It was only this year that the decision was made. This year we had been married 22 years. It was not an easy decision although I had known it was not a good relationship at all.

    My son and I are much happier people now and although I wish the decision was made sooner, I'm glad that it was made and will NOT look back!!!
  • AnjaZ89
    AnjaZ89 Posts: 235
    i knew it was going downhill when he constantly talked about this new "friend" he met at work, and then my best friend started telling me how he always saw them hang out while I was at work and sometimes after he finished work.


    It definitely was over when I came home late from work and he was lying with her in bed.When I went to our apartment to get my stuff he nearly killed me by putting a knife to my throat, glad my friend was there and saved me :/

    Worst nightmare ever. Now, 3 years later he is still stalking me..
  • shiraLA
    shiraLA Posts: 272 Member
    He didn't like bacon. He had to go.

    ^^^this...it's a killer of relationships.
  • slimtime68
    slimtime68 Posts: 60
    when the distance seems to far to recover
  • ShareeMorty
    ShareeMorty Posts: 324 Member
    The ex husband - 5 years before I left I realised I didn't love him any more. I stayed for the kids and finally this year decided I couldn't pretend any more.

    Recent ex boyfriend, 6 weeks after he told me he had bulimia and anxiety issues, he ruined my birthday because he couldn't cope with my children's normal kid behaviour and I decided that as much as I love him, I need someone who can cope with day to day life and be there for me when I need him not just the other way around.
  • Brewster1215
    Brewster1215 Posts: 247 Member
    This thread has made me realize that being single isn't quite as bad as I sometimes think it is
  • ynotcycle
    ynotcycle Posts: 121 Member
    @Brewster Yea, there is something to be said for that ha.

    I still hold my optimism for new relationships though. The good stuff along the way still makes the painful endings bearable. That being said, I've never had someone hold a knife to my throat!
  • Masqueraded
    Masqueraded Posts: 91
    WhenI started to wonder if it was over...

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