Where to find Girlfriend

davd422
davd422 Posts: 17 Member
Ok why am I having trouble finding a girlfriend. I'm an attractive 31 year old male. Where is the best place to meet a good women???? Have not had too much luck with online and don't want to go boozing at the bars every night.
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  • BackTatJIM
    BackTatJIM Posts: 1,140 Member
    :x
  • AllTehBeers
    AllTehBeers Posts: 5,030 Member
    What do you like to do? You'll find someone who shares your interest if you go do things you like to do.

    Take up a class
    Sign up for some kind of lessons
    Join a fitness group ( Hey imagine that!)

    Or whatever you're into.
  • rompers16
    rompers16 Posts: 5,404 Member
    Have you tried one of those single activity sites...like singles that meet to take a cooking class/kayak/bowl, etc?
  • RobynLB
    RobynLB Posts: 617 Member
    Get a dog. Everybody wants to stop and chat with you when you have a dog, and they immediately like you for some reason too. Plus, even if you don't end up with a girlfriend, at least you'll have a dog.
  • dare2love81
    dare2love81 Posts: 928 Member
    Ok why am I having trouble finding a girlfriend. I'm an attractive 31 year old male. Where is the best place to meet a good women???? Have not had too much luck with online and don't want to go boozing at the bars every night.

    The free weights area at the gym. Go after the girl who can squat more than you. Just make sure she's single first.
  • Cranktastic
    Cranktastic Posts: 1,517 Member
    Ok why am I having trouble finding a girlfriend. I'm an attractive 31 year old male. Where is the best place to meet a good women???? Have not had too much luck with online and don't want to go boozing at the bars every night.

    The free weights area at the gym. Go after the girl who can squat more than you. Just make sure she's single first.

    Heh...
  • n0ob
    n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
    I met my wife off a message board...
  • davd422
    davd422 Posts: 17 Member
    Well I race road bikes and ride 150 milesish a week. So thats my main hobby. I have a dog already. Been single for 7 months and it seems that the women I meet in everyday situations the majority are married or dating someone already. Funny thing is I'm a nursing student and in my class everyone that I would be interested in is married or engaded. They all ask me about my dates and love to talk about em.
  • Cranktastic
    Cranktastic Posts: 1,517 Member
    I met my wife off a message board...

    how YOU doin?
  • mandag9008
    mandag9008 Posts: 182 Member
    comedy club.bc women like me were awesome. great features and and we make you laugh, also the weights. i catch my self staring sometimes. :).
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    Met my husband at work.
  • mandag9008
    mandag9008 Posts: 182 Member
    I met my wife off a message board...

    how YOU doin?

    ahahahaha
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    I met my wife off a message board...
    *bats eyelashes*

    I love a man with rosy cheeks. Teehee
  • surromom2010
    surromom2010 Posts: 457 Member
    I me my husband at walmart..they literally have EVERYTHING, even significant others. lol
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    The grocery store, church, the coffee shop, the library, local activities (meetup.com), volunteering, bookstores, local sporting events....
  • lovechicagobears
    lovechicagobears Posts: 289 Member
    I met my boyfriend of three years on World of Warcraft. I didn't sign up to meet guys (I'm a gamer). It just worked out that way.

    In the past, I had a few awesome dates thanks to OkCupid.com. It's free, and it's the best matching site I've seen.
  • RobynLB
    RobynLB Posts: 617 Member
    Well I race road bikes and ride 150 milesish a week. So thats my main hobby. I have a dog already. Been single for 7 months and it seems that the women I meet in everyday situations the majority are married or dating someone already. Funny thing is I'm a nursing student and in my class everyone that I would be interested in is married or engaded. They all ask me about my dates and love to talk about em.

    I hadn't considered that already taken problem. Maybe you should date younger?
  • kristarablue2
    kristarablue2 Posts: 386 Member
    Sounds like you already in a female dominated profession, trust me you will run into a hottie first...however have you thought with your workout and school schedule that although part of you want a girlfriend, maybe you are just too busy. But in saying that...I have the same issue...sigh
  • snarf432
    snarf432 Posts: 91 Member
    totally jut replied that I met my huband on e jarmony but my post got removed. Anyway,

    good luck..finding people with similar hobbies is so hard. I was lucky but had lots of bad luck before that. SoI don't even thing there is anything wrong with being single for 7 months...you just have to be patient--something good is waiting for you. Sometime being single can really help you decide your need vs want list for potential Mrs...

    Good luck
  • Brewster1215
    Brewster1215 Posts: 247 Member
    Ok why am I having trouble finding a girlfriend. I'm an attractive 31 year old male. Where is the best place to meet a good women???? Have not had too much luck with online and don't want to go boozing at the bars every night.

    The free weights area at the gym. Go after the girl who can squat more than you. Just make sure she's single first.

    Women who can squat are HAWT!
  • church - find a good one (a lot of churches, well, larger ones, have singles events to help them "mingle")
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
    Craigslist

    or

    http://www.rosebrides.com/ -- RoseBrides.com is dedicated to helping you find your perfect match by making it easy to search the world over for your soul mate and life partner. Here you’ll find many potential matches - Russian and Eastern European women as well as Asians and Latin Americans whom you would otherwise not have the opportunity to meet!

    or

    eHarmony
  • RobynLB
    RobynLB Posts: 617 Member
    Craigslist. You can find everything on there.
  • n0ob
    n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
    Met my husband at work.

    So did he help advance your career?
  • dare2love81
    dare2love81 Posts: 928 Member
    Move to Wisconsin? :flowerforyou:
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    I met my wife off a message board...

    how YOU doin?

    OMG, you crack me up!
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    Met my husband at work.

    So did he help advance your career?

    May have been the other way around. :laugh:
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    First step: The correct phrase is "a woman", not "a women." Good grammar and spelling are sexy.
    Second: 7 months is not long at all. Slow your roll.
    7 months is an eternity for some people.
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    Met my husband at work.

    So did he help advance your career?
    No.

    He knocked me up and I lost my job. He's a jerk.
  • Heather1899
    Heather1899 Posts: 179 Member
    Well....I'll say I went to Zumba fitness classes to meet guys my age...except there were no guys. Only women...so hey maybe you should go there?
    Even if you meet an older lady who is married, she might have a daughter your age!