Where to find Girlfriend

meshashesha2012

Creepy is such an interesting thing.

It's only creepy to her when she has no interest. Otherwise, it's not. Lol. So, not being creepy is difficult because it's not controlled by the guy but more about he perception of the woman. I caveat this by saying, most of the time. Lol. There are just plain creepy guys. But, even guys are creeped by those guys. Lol

this is true to a certain extent, but there is such a thing as a creepy but attractive guy, and sorry to say the creep factor trumps all. i'm not willing to potentially end up spread out among several garbage bags or putting the lotion in the basket no matter how initially attracted i was to the guy. once he's crossed the creep zone, there's no coming back.

i personally thinking adding anything along the lines of i think you're really attractive approaches the creep line. if you feel the need to mention anything physical then say something like "you have a stunning smile". even though most of us know that's code for i like your boobs/butt :laugh:

rsm535

Obvious answer I suppose, but you will find someone when you stop looking for them. I met my wife almost 17 years ago by pure chance. I went to visit a buddy that I hadn't talked with in a while. He was dating a girl and my current wife happened to be there visiting her best friend, which was his his girlfriend. We hit it off immediately, dated for a few months and was married. I wouldn't trade her for anything.

Just let things happen. I know it's easy to say and hard to do, but keep yourself out there. It'll happen.

deksgrl

i personally thinking adding anything along the lines of i think you're really attractive approaches the creep line. if you feel the need to mention anything physical then say something like "you have a stunning smile". even though most of us know that's code for i like your boobs/butt :laugh:

It does? I am SO naive.

keelz2010

Try reading The Game by Neil Strauss

Moosycakes

Concerts! The library! Friends of friends!

I guess it depends on what sort of gal you're after

keithmustloseweight

In college i was convinced that if u randomly walked up and asked 100 girls if they wanted to go have sex that the law of averages say that atleast 1 would say yes....so u cud try that...i have yet to try this

No Dan, just.. no.

meshashesha2012

i personally thinking adding anything along the lines of i think you're really attractive approaches the creep line. if you feel the need to mention anything physical then say something like "you have a stunning smile". even though most of us know that's code for i like your boobs/butt :laugh:

It does? I am SO naive.

unless he's a dentist...

dad106

i personally thinking adding anything along the lines of i think you're really attractive approaches the creep line. if you feel the need to mention anything physical then say something like "you have a stunning smile". even though most of us know that's code for i like your boobs/butt :laugh:

Yup.. I agree here..

Had a guy that I met one time for only like two seconds(think long enough to exchange a name before I had to go) email me, and tell me I was super cute and he wanted to get to know me by going for coffee.. Ok fine.

Well I agreed to coffee but somehow that morphed into well lets get lunch, and then we can plan the weekend accordingly.. plus heres my number, and whens the best time to contact you, and by the way you really are beautiful.

Needless to say I shut him down so fast, I'm pretty sure his head spun when he read the email...

TheLongRunner

Being that I am single at 32, I am in no position to give advice on something like this lol.

Pricanma13

the moment you stop looking, is when someone might just fall in front of you

Charmed285

I've been single for 23 years, beat that lol
never in my life had a bf, relationship, or even have guys interested in me

meshashesha2012

the moment you stop looking, is when someone might just fall in front of you

this is why so many people cheat after marriage i guess :laugh:

weldergirl15

If you lived closer I'd date ya! :flowerforyou: :blushing:

marie_25m

you look like you won't have a problem getting one...

no_stagnation

Try reading The Game by Neil Strauss

I read this book, and thought it sucked. From what I remember, all these Losers do is hang out in Bars 5 nights a week and meet loser alcoholic women... & recommend that other men do the same

LittleMiss_WillLoseIt

Hell I've been single for almost 2 years but I love it. Have fun on the side without all the titles and commitments.

vanguardfitness

Stay away from online dating. Huge waste of time. Go out to bars/clubs/gym/beach and start talking to women.

Don't forget to smile.

ihateroses

Stay away from online dating. Huge waste of time. Go out to bars/clubs/gym/beach and start talking to women.

Don't forget to smile.

Not true...I guess its rare but there's (definitely) a chance to find someone online.

CentralCaliCycling

Stay away from online dating. Huge waste of time. Go out to bars/clubs/gym/beach and start talking to women.

Don't forget to smile.

My sister met and married online - they have been together for more than ten years now so I would say it works, especially for those of us that don't have time to go to bars, clubs, gym to chat up some woman or the beach.

dad106

Stay away from online dating. Huge waste of time. Go out to bars/clubs/gym/beach and start talking to women.

Don't forget to smile.

Chatting up a women in a gym is a sure fire way to get you smacked.. because most women hate when when men chat them up in the gym.

Plus depending on how old you are, bars/clubs may not be your thing... those are more for 20 year olds then they are 30 or 40 year olds.

skinnyinnotime

Anywhere, I was chatted up recently in a car park whilst putting my groceries away....with my toddler!

nmullins81

Quit looking. My husband & I met through friends at a time when both of us were warding off men & women b/c we had been hurt so much and were tired of all the crap. We ended up talking some and we got each other's numbers and its all history.

OllyReeves

Ok why am I having trouble finding a girlfriend. I'm an attractive 31 year old male. Where is the best place to meet a good women???? Have not had too much luck with online and don't want to go boozing at the bars every night.

No self confidence issues here obviously......

Briszler75

I met my boyfriend of three years on World of Warcraft. I didn't sign up to meet guys (I'm a gamer). It just worked out that way.

In the past, I had a few awesome dates thanks to OkCupid.com. It's free, and it's the best matching site I've seen.

I also met my SO on ok cupid. :-D

NeverGivesUp

ah you're a cutie, you will find someone when you're ready for it. It is all about timing. I met my hubby on craigslist 11 years ago. You never know where you will meet them, but you are young and there is time. Have some fun first so when you do meet the right one, you will recognize it immediately.

ladymiseryali

I met my fiance on plentyoffish.com.

Chadomaniac

yea ladies! i know my problem is im too picky ( more personality than looks )

laurenz2501

this is true to a certain extent, but there is such a thing as a creepy but attractive guy, and sorry to say the creep factor trumps all. i'm not willing to potentially end up spread out among several garbage bags or putting the lotion in the basket no matter how initially attracted i was to the guy.

LOL!!!!!!!!!! :laugh:

StaceyJ2008

Unfortunately it seems that most socializing goes on at clubs or bars. However, you can always try approaching someone while out running or at the gym.

You could just start signing up for a lot of activities to try to meet people. Good Luck

the_journeyman

Street corner?

JM