Christmas, porn & a nasty virus

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  • sm1zzle
    sm1zzle Posts: 920 Member
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    you must have assumed I read any of it.

    Then perhaps you should stop commenting and making yourself look foolish.
  • vjohn04
    vjohn04 Posts: 2,276 Member
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    Not to be presumptuous.... But Is the reason for his porn watching due to lack of sex on your part ?

    If not you need to sit him down and have a real world conversation with him and find out what the root cause is. The fact that he is the Pastor of a church means nothing. Just because someone is into the church thing does not mean they are not still human.
    Was thinking the same thing.

    This, and this ^
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,735 Member
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    is there when we start posting funny gifs?

    i'm confused.
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
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    But honestly, who hasn't found themselves feeling a little randy at 4am, just out of nowhere, amirite?

    As if there's some kind of time that is considered Porn Free. Silly prudes

    not a prude..but randy at 4am? wake me up!!!!!!!

    THIS!!!! my hubby is 11 years older than I, and sometimes he needs the porn to "rev up his engine" a little. I have no problem with that as I reap all the benefits!

    Right! My husband is 54, and porn is free, whereas cocaine or meth or viagra are very expensive. :smokin:
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
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    is there when we start posting funny gifs?

    i'm confused.

    I'm leaving that one alone. Most of the appropriate gifs for this thread would lead to a strike. :laugh:
  • sm1zzle
    sm1zzle Posts: 920 Member
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    But honestly, who hasn't found themselves feeling a little randy at 4am, just out of nowhere, amirite?

    As if there's some kind of time that is considered Porn Free. Silly prudes

    not a prude..but randy at 4am? wake me up!!!!!!!

    THIS!!!! my hubby is 11 years older than I, and sometimes he needs the porn to "rev up his engine" a little. I have no problem with that as I reap all the benefits!

    All engines need some sort of fuel.
  • WinnerVictorious
    WinnerVictorious Posts: 4,735 Member
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    is there when we start posting funny gifs?

    i'm confused.

    I'm leaving that one alone. Most of the appropriate gifs for this thread would lead to a strike. :laugh:

    Bill Murray... Caddyshack... scene where he's washing a golf ball... animated gif.

    it exists. :tongue:
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
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    you must have assumed I read any of it.

    Then perhaps you should stop commenting and making yourself look amazingly awesome.

    While I do appreciate the flattery, you really don't have to.
    I am just a simple soul trying to make the world a brighter place.
  • Deedsie
    Deedsie Posts: 348 Member
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    "Dear Sweet Baby Jesus (my favorite Jesus) please help me to not wake up randy at 4 AM and give my computer an STD on your birthday. Amen"

    But seriously, this too shall pass. Are you sure that this is worth all the energy you are putting into it?

    I mean at the end of the day, what does the fact that he saw other people naked really matter to you? And honestly, I would lie to you about it too. I would be scared that you would tell a bunch of strangers about a simple mistake that I made during a very stressful season.
  • rphkenny
    rphkenny Posts: 4 Member
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    Truthfully, it all depends on how YOU feel about HIM. There are so many red flags here, it is almost impossible to count them ! If you love him and don't want to lose him, then counselling is a must ! I don't know how you feel about porn (nor do I know you at all and for that I apologize for chiming in without being introduced.), but that is a private matter and should be left as such between the two of you. Privacy is another issue should you choose to report him to the church. This may open up a can of worms that you don't want to be made public. Best of luck to you both !
  • Aviva92
    Aviva92 Posts: 2,333 Member
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    What kind of church is he a pastor for? You need to speak to his superiors and initiate an invervention. They will understand your position because they will also want him to live a pure life. How can the shepherd lead a flock if he himself has gone astray? You can conquer the immorality together and get back onto a virtuous path, but you need to act on it and seek outside support. If he won't listen, you must speak to the members of your church and get them to rally around him in support. That supportive network will surely enable him to align his actions with the savior once again.

    you want her to rat out her husband and potentially get him fired? wow.

    I don't think that viewing porn is a big deal at all. Religion is weird.
  • sm1zzle
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    I really appreciate the flattery, you really know hot to make a guy smile. :)
    I'm sorry for all the back and forth..I've just been playing hard to get.

    Wow. That certainly Is nice...and way weird, but I don't get down like that.
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
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    I really appreciate the flattery, you really now hot to make a guy smile. :)
    I'm sorry for all the back and forth. I've just been playing hard to get after I saw your spread on www.gaybearstv.com/fisting

    Wow. That certainly Is nice...and way weird, but I don't get down like that for groups less than 5

    Oh. Nevermind then.
  • sm1zzle
    sm1zzle Posts: 920 Member
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    I really appreciate the flattery, you really now hot to make a guy smile. :)
    I'm sorry for all the back and forth. I've just been playing hard to get after I saw your spread on www.gaybearstv.com/fisting

    Wow. That certainly Is nice...and way weird, but I don't get down like that for groups less than 5

    Oh. Nevermind then.

    5th person gets a free cucumber.
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
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    is there when we start posting funny gifs?

    i'm confused.

    I'm leaving that one alone. Most of the appropriate gifs for this thread would lead to a strike. :laugh:

    Bill Murray... Caddyshack... scene where he's washing a golf ball... animated gif.

    it exists. :tongue:

    :laugh:

    Yep, that scene would work for this thread.
  • bellygoaway
    bellygoaway Posts: 441 Member
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    You might want to look at xxxchurch.com. They deal in stuff like this. He needs to tell someone in authority over him, or it is only going to get worse, not better. Trust me, I know.
  • Aviva92
    Aviva92 Posts: 2,333 Member
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    Watch the porn with him. Then at least, you're together, and maybe you'll learn something new. :flowerforyou:

    ^^ This.. It only becomes as big of an issue as you both allow it to become.

    Seriously? There is a difference between a guy randomly looking at porn and waking up at 4a.m. on Christmas to look at porn. Are you ****ing kidding me? That's NOT normal. You all are making it seem like it's no big deal and some how HER fault and she should just join in. He's the one with the issue. There is a difference between someone who looks at porn occasionally and someone who is addicted to porn.

    what makes you say that he's addicted to porn? just because he's viewing it at 4am does not lead me to believe he's addicted to it. it just means that he doesn't want to deal with his wife potentially seeing him doing it and nag him about it.
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
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    I really appreciate the flattery, you really now hot to make a guy smile. :)
    I'm sorry for all the back and forth. I've just been playing hard to get after I saw your spread on www.gaybearstv.com/fisting

    Wow. That certainly Is nice...and way weird, but I don't get down like that for groups less than 5

    Oh. Nevermind then.

    5th person gets a free cucumber.

    awwwww...a bromance!
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
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    Wtf are you on about ?

    Strong first post.
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