Guys that are a 3 trying to be with girls that are an 8...

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  • Nurseblondy
    Nurseblondy Posts: 76
    Some women find a man attractive if he is stable and able to support her financially. I dated cute jerks and they did nothing for me. I decided on a mature older guy who was college educated, motivated and treated me like a princess. I have no regrets. He has supported me emotionaly, financially and put me through college without me having to work. I say that overrates looks on every level, I am a big fan of security. If it was all about passion I would still be with my cheating ex. Also a great personality can bump your number ten fold in my opinion. That's not to say you don't have to be attracted to your significant other on some level, but good character just enhances appeal.
  • nessagrace22
    nessagrace22 Posts: 430 Member
    Forget this numbers mumbo jumbo! If you have enough confidence and belief in yourself then no-one is out of your league. Nothing sexier than confidence in my book!
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    I just am confident in myself and hope to find someone that is as well.
    A number doesn't matter to me.
    Should I run them through you for a rating first?
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    I love Steve Buscemi

    me too, guy has something ( strangley) attractive about him!
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    For one, I am not trying to give you a hard time here, because I understand what you are saying.

    But, not everyone going by a " rating" system.. these "3" men may think they are an 8..or whatever..

    CONFIDENCE CHANGES A LOT when it comes to dating... I may not be an 8, but I feel good about myself.. so.. hey.. If i want to chat it up with a hot guy, I will...

    Thankfully, I have a wonderful man who never rated me to begin with.
  • _Witsy_
    _Witsy_ Posts: 609 Member
    Perhaps to them, you are the "3"?

    Just have some confidence and date all the men. You'd be surprised who you may fall for.
  • sunsnstatheart
    sunsnstatheart Posts: 2,544 Member
    What about the girls who think they're an 8 but are a 3 and are complaining about the way guys look?
  • Helloitsdan
    Helloitsdan Posts: 5,564 Member
    I go for confidence and personality.

    So maybe its you?
  • Chief_Rocka
    Chief_Rocka Posts: 4,710 Member
    The price of women is plummeting because they're flooding the market.
  • links_slayer
    links_slayer Posts: 1,151 Member
    Sorry. I'm a 2 that married a 10....definitely out-kicked my coverage.
  • _Elemenopee_
    _Elemenopee_ Posts: 2,665 Member
    I go for confidence and personality.

    So maybe its you?

    +1
  • Maribel_1986
    Maribel_1986 Posts: 457 Member
    I think people shouldn't be rated at all... You meet someone, have great conversation and then figure out whether you want to seek more than just a friendship, if not, you move on. Honestly you make it seem like everyone is like you who rates people based on looks. When I met my boyfriend it was the fact that he could carry on an intelligent conversation that most attracted me to him.
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
    Since I am a 10, I really have nothing constructive to add.
    Except maybe stop thinking of yourself as a 3.
  • IronPlayground
    IronPlayground Posts: 1,594 Member
    I go for confidence and personality.

    So maybe its you?

    ^this!

    Looks =/= Confidence
  • thecanface
    thecanface Posts: 1,180 Member
    Because they know their self worth. They feel they deserve the best, because they are the best.


    what's wrong with that?
  • Manda86
    Manda86 Posts: 1,859 Member
    The price of women is plummeting because they're flooding the market.

    It's all that sub-prime dating - caused the lady bubble to burst.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    The reverse can be said about women that are a 3 going for men that are a 9, maybe you are the 3 but you don't realise.
  • jamiem1102
    jamiem1102 Posts: 1,196 Member
    How do you know the girls they are going for are out of their league? Because YOU rated them a 3 and YOU rated the girl an 8?

    Stop rating people by their looks would be your first step.

    I wish I had your "i love you" gif to insert right now.
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
    I go for confidence and personality.

    So maybe its you?

    +1
    Bringing you up to an 11. I did the math.
  • JoshuaL86
    JoshuaL86 Posts: 403 Member
    I'm a strong 2 and I married a 12! I guess I should stop being so shallow ... ;)

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