What is a MILF? Should I be offended or what?

angryguy77

It's one thing to think this, or use the term with friends, but to say it to a woman's face is very disrespectful.

But I'd expect nothing less from a culture that's circling the drain.

It's only disrespectful if you believe that women aren't supposed to think about sex or like sex.

I can't imagine that anyone in their right mind would rather be born a female in the US 100 years ago instead of being born a female in the US today.

Only a person with a relatively low, to moderate intelligence level would come to that conclusion.

How stupid does someone have to be to not see the double standard implied by, "it's not ok to tell a woman she's sexy (but it's ok to tell a man he's sexy.)"

What the hell are you talking about?

You're working real hard to draw these links, you might be better served to use that energy for something productive.

I'm betting your the kind of guy that would find evidence of sexism and oppression while reading the Cat In The Hat.

BTW, thank you for reinforcing my previous point.

LiftAllThePizzas

It's one thing to think this, or use the term with friends, but to say it to a woman's face is very disrespectful.

But I'd expect nothing less from a culture that's circling the drain.

It's only disrespectful if you believe that women aren't supposed to think about sex or like sex.

I can't imagine that anyone in their right mind would rather be born a female in the US 100 years ago instead of being born a female in the US today.

Only a person with a relatively low, to moderate intelligence level would come to that conclusion.

How stupid does someone have to be to not see the double standard implied by, "it's not ok to tell a woman she's sexy (but it's ok to tell a man he's sexy.)"

What the hell are you talking about?

You're working real hard to draw these links, you might be better served to use that energy for something productive.

I'm betting your the kind of guy that would find evidence of sexism and oppression while reading the Cat In The Hat.

BTW, thank you for reinforcing my previous point.

You're the one finding disrespect in being called sexy. What the hell are you talking about?

lilcupcake213

Is it wrong that I'm not agreeing with a lot of women on here and I take it as a compliment when someone calls me a MILF? I don't see how someone can read into this so much ...they're giving you a compliment and telling you. "hey you're hot, I'd bang you" ..I think it's awesome!

I like it, too!

Me three

I guess we all read into things as for me. M for Mother - infers a married women. So those who believe it's a compliment or being called sexy, think it's ok for someone to intentially come on to a married woman ? I think you are being decieved by the intentions of the guy saying this to you . He is not saying you are sexy. He has no respect that you are married, and if you go along with it, what are you saying about your own marriage ?

Good lord please tell me you are joking with what you just said. First off, not all mothers are married. And what you're saying is if a man says to a woman that she's a MILF and he thinks she's hot...and she takes it as a compliment..that her marriage is bad? I would say that if that woman took the compliment and then SLEPT with that guy..then THAT would say a lot of her marriage. But it's just a different way of saying someone is hot..that's all it is.

wolverine66

It's one thing to think this, or use the term with friends, but to say it to a woman's face is very disrespectful.

But I'd expect nothing less from a culture that's circling the drain.

It's only disrespectful if you believe that women aren't supposed to think about sex or like sex.

I can't imagine that anyone in their right mind would rather be born a female in the US 100 years ago instead of being born a female in the US today.

Only a person with a relatively low, to moderate intelligence level would come to that conclusion.

How stupid does someone have to be to not see the double standard implied by, "it's not ok to tell a woman she's sexy (but it's ok to tell a man he's sexy.)"

What the hell are you talking about?

You're working real hard to draw these links, you might be better served to use that energy for something productive.

I'm betting your the kind of guy that would find evidence of sexism and oppression while reading the Cat In The Hat.

BTW, thank you for reinforcing my previous point.

You're the one finding disrespect in being called sexy. What the hell are you talking about?

i'm just going to chime in, because no one is saying it is disrespectful to tell someone else they are sexy, regardless of gender.

if you find a woman sexy, walk up to her and hump her leg - should she be okay with that because hey, that's just they way he lets her know he thinks she's sexy? the correct answer is "no."

The point is not the message. It's the way the message is communicated that he finds disrespectful. You can tell someone you find them attractive by sending roses, or by walking up them and make grunting noises.

jbutterflye

Are those the only two options?

foxro

Is it wrong that I'm not agreeing with a lot of women on here and I take it as a compliment when someone calls me a MILF? I don't see how someone can read into this so much ...they're giving you a compliment and telling you. "hey you're hot, I'd bang you" ..I think it's awesome!

I like it, too!

It's all contextual. Maybe we should aske the hubbies here if they would appreciate it if a guy came up to his wife and said he wants to *kitten* her. What if he came up to her and said what a lovely MILF you are and handed her a 20. What would hubby do. Yes not all moms are married, and its the context of the situation.

Me three

I guess we all read into things as for me. M for Mother - infers a married women. So those who believe it's a compliment or being called sexy, think it's ok for someone to intentially come on to a married woman ? I think you are being decieved by the intentions of the guy saying this to you . He is not saying you are sexy. He has no respect that you are married, and if you go along with it, what are you saying about your own marriage ?

Good lord please tell me you are joking with what you just said. First off, not all mothers are married. And what you're saying is if a man says to a woman that she's a MILF and he thinks she's hot...and she takes it as a compliment..that her marriage is bad? I would say that if that woman took the compliment and then SLEPT with that guy..then THAT would say a lot of her marriage. But it's just a different way of saying someone is hot..that's all it is.

Timshel_

It is not a compliment, though some women respond to it. Basically it is a way for a guy say he wants to F**** you with no other interest. If that is your thing, cool.

lilcupcake213

It's all contextual. Maybe we should aske the hubbies here if they would appreciate it if a guy came up to his wife and said he wants to *kitten* her. What if he came up to her and said what a lovely MILF you are and handed her a 20. What would hubby do. Yes not all moms are married, and its the context of the situation.

I can't speak for other husbands, but I know my husband doesn't feel threatened by other people's opinions of his wife. I work my *kitten* off so my husband can be proud to show me off..if that makes me a terrible and shallow person, then so be it. And I don't know anyone that would walk up to someone and call them that. That doesn't happen here...where do you live ?! And if someone told me I was a milf and handed me 20 bucks..I'd go shopping

foxro

It's all contextual. Maybe we should aske the hubbies here if they would appreciate it if a guy came up to his wife and said he wants to *kitten* her. What if he came up to her and said what a lovely MILF you are and handed her a 20. What would hubby do. Yes not all moms are married, and its the context of the situation.

I can't speak for other husbands, but I know my husband doesn't feel threatened by other people's opinions of his wife. I work my *kitten* off so my husband can be proud to show me off..if that makes me a terrible and shallow person, then so be it. And I don't know anyone that would walk up to someone and call them that. That doesn't happen here...where do you live ?! And if someone told me I was a milf and handed me 20 bucks..I'd go shopping

I live at the North Pole given today's weather, which indicates why I'm spending too much time here. My point is that it's contextual and alot of times its a guys way to get sex by hoping you think its a compliment. If you believe it's a compliment so be it and have a nice day

Mustang_Susie

It is not a compliment, though some women respond to it. Basically it is a way for a guy say he wants to F**** you with no other interest. If that is your thing, cool.

Thank you

JustJennie1

It's all contextual. Maybe we should aske the hubbies here if they would appreciate it if a guy came up to his wife and said he wants to *kitten* her. What if he came up to her and said what a lovely MILF you are and handed her a 20. What would hubby do. Yes not all moms are married, and its the context of the situation.

My husband has had people tell him that they'd like to *kitten* me and he's ok with that because I'm hot, he knows it and he's pretty damn proud of the work that I do to look the way I do.

As for saying I'm a MILF and handing me a $20 he'd punch the guy in the head because I'm worth a lot more than that.

bluefox9er

basically it means your only obvious quality is that someone would like to have sex with you despite being older and having had children.

There's probably a twisted compliment in there somewhere.

I'm old fashioned and believe there are far more creative and respectful means of complimenting a woman.

LilacDreamer

if there is ever a time you don't want to ask people, or if they get embarrassed, you can always look it up on the internet. Going to Google.com and typing the word or phrase is helpful. you can also put quotation marks around it. There's also a website called UrbanDictionary which is basically a dictionary of slang terms. The address is www.urbandictionary.com - but just keep in mind that people on there can be pretty vulgar.

bluefox9er

It is not a compliment, though some women respond to it. Basically it is a way for a guy say he wants to F**** you with no other interest. If that is your thing, cool.

^^ this ^^

Mustang_Susie

basically it means your only obvious quality is that someone would like to have sex with you despite being older and having had children.

There's probably a twisted compliment in there somewhere.

I'm old fashioned and believe there are far more creative and respectful means of complimenting a woman.

:flowerforyou:

Silver_Star

If you called me a MILF, Would you be offended it I called you a mother f@cker ?

This should be on a giant billboard!!!

msaestein1

MILF Means Mom I'd Like to F__K. I this it is a little disrespectful however coming from youngsters that don't know any better I would say it is a compliment. I am trying to be a DILF, so at least I know I still have my mojo.

If that's you in the profile pic, mission accomplished.

^^^^ This. Hubba hubba

ksuh999

At least they didn't call you a GILF.

Sambytheway82

I'd love to be someone's milf

skinnyinnotime

Is it wrong that I'm not agreeing with a lot of women on here and I take it as a compliment when someone calls me a MILF? I don't see how someone can read into this so much ...they're giving you a compliment and telling you. "hey you're hot, I'd bang you" ..I think it's awesome!

I like it, too!

Me three

I guess we all read into things as for me. M for Mother - infers a married women. So those who believe it's a compliment or being called sexy, think it's ok for someone to intentially come on to a married woman ? I think you are being decieved by the intentions of the guy saying this to you . He is not saying you are sexy. He has no respect that you are married, and if you go along with it, what are you saying about your own marriage ?

I'm married, not dead.