The downside of being cute...

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  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
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    Lol oh boy. What did I miss.

    The OP's significant other finds it difficult to be sexually attracted to her because she is cute.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
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    Lol oh boy. What did I miss.

    The OP's significant other finds it difficult to be sexually attracted to her because she is cute.
    She is super cute, though. That's a good thing!
  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
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    Lol oh boy. What did I miss.

    The OP's significant other finds it difficult to be sexually attracted to her because she is cute.
    She is super cute, though. That's a good thing!

    I agree. My guess is her man has someone else or is gay
  • BondBomb
    BondBomb Posts: 1,781 Member
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    So, MFPers, I have an off-the-wall question for you...

    As of late, my (27 y/o) SO has been wanting sex less and less. I finally confronted him about it, and he admitted that he thinks I am more adorable in a child-like way than sexy, and he finds it very difficult to be sexually attracted to me because of that.

    I kind of get it. I have big eyes, I'm short, we act silly together, and I've gone down 2 pant sizes in the past 45 days to boot. But I've been very thin before and no one else has ever had a problem with it!

    I've always had a... voracious sexual appetite, and he's always been more mellow about it, but darn it, one can only go so long!

    Do I need to make an extreme effort to "act sexy", or does he need to accept that I'm young looking? Both?

    Thank you for ANY input on this matter, I know it's kind of weird.

    He might be Gay...you are an attractive woman who works out. A puppy is 'cute'..a girlfriend has to be sexy.

    yep....GAY.

    So if a gay guys Mr whoopee doesn't rise to the occasion does that mean he's gone straight ?
    I apologize if this has been said already. But you are an adult. You can say penis.
  • siport
    siport Posts: 7,429 Member
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    omg she said Penis! thats so not allowed!

    oh damm i said it, im going to hell!!!!!!!
  • V0lver
    V0lver Posts: 915 Member
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    I apologize if this has been said already. But you are an adult. You can say penis.

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  • TheArchyBunker
    TheArchyBunker Posts: 1,967 Member
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    Kind of the same boat. 13 years now and it's getting less and less I lose more she's less interested. But she also puts mother needs and kids before me and anything between us. It's all about the kids. My weight loss hasn't helped any as she liked me "chubby" hell I was just fat not chubby lol.
  • Monkey_Business
    Monkey_Business Posts: 1,800 Member
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    Again, if he had issues with it, she would know. Men still get hard in their 80s. Trust me, I know.

    Well Hello there :flowerforyou:
  • tmm_0127
    tmm_0127 Posts: 545 Member
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    I find it a little odd that this is all of a sudden becoming an issue for him. Obviously he had the hots for you before, and your looks haven't changed, so it's a problem with him and not you.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
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    So, MFPers, I have an off-the-wall question for you...

    As of late, my (27 y/o) SO has been wanting sex less and less. I finally confronted him about it, and he admitted that he thinks I am more adorable in a child-like way than sexy, and he finds it very difficult to be sexually attracted to me because of that.

    I kind of get it. I have big eyes, I'm short, we act silly together, and I've gone down 2 pant sizes in the past 45 days to boot. But I've been very thin before and no one else has ever had a problem with it!

    I've always had a... voracious sexual appetite, and he's always been more mellow about it, but darn it, one can only go so long!

    Do I need to make an extreme effort to "act sexy", or does he need to accept that I'm young looking? Both?

    Thank you for ANY input on this matter, I know it's kind of weird.

    Total cop out. He is losing interest and doesn't have the balls to admit it. Real love for another doesn't diminish over "cuteness". Been with my wife for over 25 years and love her more than I did in the beginning. I'm nothing to look at and almost 60, but my wife still looks at me like I'm something special.

    Move on. You deserve better.
  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
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    This post is a year old and OP hasn't been around sense. I wonder how it's working out...

    A couple months after starting this thread, she started one about porn. She commented that her and her bf watch it together. Someone pointed out that she was the one that started this thread as well, and her response was her bf is ok with having sex with her if he doesn't look at her face.

    She stopped posting soon after that
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    This young woman has not posted in the forums for a year. Why are you bumping this thread and discussing her sex life. Really the motivation for this boggles my mind. It's showing up in my recent topics. Sorry to offend you or upset you. Just being honest.

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