Ladies, should a man be the only one to pursue?

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  • imchicbad
    imchicbad Posts: 1,650 Member
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    From another thread - "No; a lady should never make the first move. Always let a man pursue you."

    Thoughts, opinions?
    We like to let you think that. But i liked to be chased.
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,010 Member
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    While I don't think it is bad for a women to show her interest/give the OK for the man to seek her out, I think there is a fine line where one might appear desperate/needy. So it may almost be safer to show that interest then lay back a bit until you are comfortable that the man has given the same 'interest' back.....
  • silver_arrow3
    silver_arrow3 Posts: 1,373 Member
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    Hi, I am shy and I sit in the corner alone and people watch..... creepy, right???

    if I had the courage... I'd wear more red lipstick and take off in pursuit.... but, i'm a loser... so, I'll just continue sitting in the corner...

    Liquid courage!

    I did plenty of corner sitting. Then one day I got tired of it. Not gonna say that I won't ever get shot down, but it's exciting to be the pursuer and find out he is also interested. Plus, if I'm out with friends and having fun, it won't dampen my night. Go for it!!