Want to be "the hot guy." Others with vain motivations?
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FR sent!0
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Growing up i was always the Fat one.. in the family in the class .. you name it that was me.. the Fat one.. the "Big" one..
In DONE.. I want to be in shape so that next time my uncles call me big.. its not cus im Fat.. its cus i got some guns and i can kick their lil hispanic butts.
^THIS.
Altho for me, it's more like I want to go down little Saigon, tower over the Asian brothers (at 5'4"), and have them staring at my built calves and biceps.. buahahaha...yes.. be very afraid0 -
HAHA! I am a Mommy of 2... but I don't want my gut to look like I am a Mommy of 2! LOL. With that being said... I plan to LOOK and FEEL GREAT after I lose this weight. And this time... I plan to KEEP IT OFF (unless I am prego and then that's ok for weight gain... LOL!!!).0
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This is completely my goal.
I used to be the "hot girl" when I was younger before I gained weight. Then suddenly I was the "fat girl" with lots of "hot girl" friends.
When I started it was completely my goal to become a "hot girl" again.0 -
You people are cracking me up right now. I love your honesty
It's nice to feel good in your clothes and be confident in who you are. 0 -
I just joined yesterday, and I'm interested in friends and accountability buddies, no matter who you are. But it might be nice to have a few nonjudgmental partners in crime whose motivation is solely to be hotter and get more attention. Yeah, health is important to me, and of course I'm excited about improving my quality of life, but it really just comes down to being far-and-away the hottest guy in a room. Anybody else share this sentiment?
at first thats what is on your mind... but by the time you reach the point of being "the hot guy" from a physical standpoint you realize that for attracting women its about personality and confidence and if your physical appearance brings that to you then thats fine...
ultimately by the time you get a much better physique you will realize that you dont want to train to get girls anymore, you will want to train just for the sake of training and improving because you enjoy it..
LOL those sound like the words of a guy who's never been close to 300lbs had to approach women who would laugh and walk away. But hey, maybe they could tell a ton about my personality by the sound of my "hello." Yeah. OK.
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Im also one of those girls who has always been a "fat friend" . Now i feel like its my turn to shine
And i dont feel guilty at all about being vain! I deserve to look hot and have clothes that actually fit 
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i think everyone wanna be hottest than ever.. i'm one of these lol besides of that i want than people see me and think " Oh ok, there's a runner" ... :P0
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My wife is a hot MILF, I just decided that this time I really need to keep up 0
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I can't wait to rock a bikini this summer while I hang out with my 3 kids. I don't mind being hot...even for a mom...if I get to be hot at all, I'll be more than happy! Being hot naked will be awesome too!0
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Everyone has different motivations for fitness. My recent weight loss of 34 pounds (since July 11, 2012) was strictly for an office bet. Outside of MFP, I am very modest about my fitness and don't like the type of new attention.
Be careful what you wish for and don't let the vanity take over your life....0 -
Not going to lie...I want to look good in clothes, out of clothes, on top of clothes, next to clothes....Vanity. Yes, please! With that said I started this mission to have better clothing options. My inner fashionista is beyond pissed now and tired of our super lame clothing options.
Also, the fellas are gonna start lining up and maybe my mom can get that grand child she wants. (That's what the treadmill and the kale keep telling me).
Lastly, (and I guess this is the health part that should be my main focus and what MFPers want to hear) I love to hike and I go on an adventure outdoor trip once a year. My trip to Iceland last year was brutal!!! I want to build stamina, strength, be FIT. Dominate my climbs without feeling like I'm gonna pass out along the way. I'm rewarding myself with a Mt. Kilimanjaro trip 9/2014 for accomplishing this goal.0 -
Vain motivation here. Although I don't think I'll ever be considered "hot" unless I'm feverish. However it would be nice to not be the biggest girl in the group. Feel free to add me.0
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It started out that way, but became something different.
I wanted to be healthy and that motivated me0 -
Yes, want the hotness, want to hear 'WOW'. But, as I get older the health aspect will far outweigh the vain ones.0
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I do it for myself because I like a good challenge. Looking good is just a plus to that.0
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I just want to be confident enough that if someone smiles at me I can smile back without looking around to see if it was really me they were smiling at.0
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Nothing wrong with getting some attention and feeling great about the way you look!0
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Growing up i was always the Fat one.. in the family in the class .. you name it that was me.. the Fat one.. the "Big" one..
In DONE.. I want to be in shape so that next time my uncles call me big.. its not cus im Fat.. its cus i got some guns and i can kick their lil hispanic butts.
^THIS.
Altho for me, it's more like I want to go down little Saigon, tower over the Asian brothers (at 5'4"), and have them staring at my built calves and biceps.. buahahaha...yes.. be very afraid
HAHA.. very AFRAID!!!0 -
I'm sure we all want to be the "hot guy" or "hot gal". That's the whole point, isn't it?!0
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Kind of... I want to be able to wear MORE clothes... not necessarily look "hot". I thought about it and there are plenty of normal weight people that are not hot or attractive - so it's more than just weight (and of course it's more than just looks but come on, that's a given).
Just want to put it out there for those wanting to be hot - please try not to get a big head!! Some guys here started doing P90 and got super obnoxious... one to the point of cheating on his wife and is just a total *kitten* now because he thinks he is hot stuff. Losing a little weight did not change the things that were already ugly like his attitude.0 -
I think that everyone has vain motivators!! Who doesn't want to be the hottest one in the room? hahaha0
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I definitely have vain motivation. I want to see vacation pictures and not cringe when I see myself in a swimsuit!0
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Feel free to add me - I don't mind if the motivation to be hotter or to be fit, one way or the other you'll get fit as you try to get hotter.0
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I wanna look like a fox in my wedding dress. and be able to make it rain abs this summer out on the boat.
and being healthy isn't a bad bonus. ha!
Love it and ditto. I want to be healthier for life, but I also want to look amazing in my wedding dress and in my bathing suit at my bachelorette party!0 -
[careful what you wish for.... people with this mentality often reach their goals and they don't get the social response they expected and they end up putting all the weight back on...
a 6 pack doesnt make you witty and funny..... traps like peaks dont = game
first and foremost.. do it because its who you want to be
very well said:bigsmile:0 -
I want to be a trophy wife0
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I'm with you! I'm sick of meeting a nice guy and having him not interested because he's just not into curvy girls. I want to be the hot ginger fox I know I can be!!0
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I do toooooo!0
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I try to be humble and a bit self-deprecating, but with all honesty I would have to say I wouldn't mind the attention. However, even if I was in amaing shape I would never be that rough, gruff, debonaire type guys in the movies. Just don't have the looks for it. So I will settle with people asking me how I keep in such wonderful shape and try to use any assembelance of fitness I can put together as a positive influence that way.
Being hot isn't that high on my list.0
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