What size is sexy? MEN PLEASE!

Timshel_

Half the people on the site are here for that reason.Otherwise there wouldn't be so many body pics

To a pont yes, but it is also a point of pride, since this is a fitness site. Share and share alike.

YourGirl_Tina

Sorry if the image is ubber big... This I think is sexy.. also my goal...

mllst18

"Sexy isn't about size, which is a good thing since it would appear that no two clothing manufacturers can agree on what constitutes which size... and since most guys couldn't tell you what size a woman wears -- even if they live with her -- I don't think the men you're expecting to answer are going to be able to answer the question accurately the way it is posed."

I was pretty much going to say exactly that. Women give men a lot more credit than they deserve when it comes to knowing sizes, weight, etc. Most normal men don't instantly zero in on your pooch or a little bit of back fat when you get naked, either. Until you point out your flaws to him, he probably doesn't see them/is too worried about his own.

When it comes to lingerie, just think about the parts of your body that you like. I have good legs/boobs for my size, so I like babydoll nighties (IMHO, a corset on a fat tummy may look okay on, but when you get it off it's gonna look all red and creasy; not cute!). It sounds like you are self conscious about your legs, so maybe try a full length gown deep V neckline or something with color blocked panels on the sides. Being in the adult industry, you yourself must know how much illusion affects what is sexy. http://www.celebrateyoursexy.com/lingerie-thursday-dress-your-shape-series-pear/

Thank you so much for the link and advice! I do also like the baby doll nighties! I have tons of lingerie and shoes, and I'm super excited to come up with a winning look!

mllst18

lol

mllst18

My wife likes strippers... :drinker:

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she and I should meet :flowerforyou:

mllst18

That's the problem, IDK if I'll ever be really happy with my size I guess...I've always been bigger and always much taller since I'm 5'11" and I have lost a lot of the weight, but I just keep feeling like I didn't have as much BF the last time I was a size 12...maybe it's all in my head, I'm not sure, but now I'm doing HIIT to get rid of it. I guess I just don't have as much time to work out like I did last time (I was hitting it like 3 or 4 times a day).

kayemme

I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

straight up!

mllst18

I couldn't get past the part where you said you and your husband were in a strip club...

This will take an interesting turn...

I was just confused as to why she was in a strip club with her husband.. Thats all I was saying.

Doesnt seem normal.

We aren't your average couple. We're young, and we like to be adventurous, and we don't have the jealousy issues most couples do.

catrinaHwechanged

Shape is waaayyy more important than size. Unless a girl is morbidly obese, she can very very attractive if she is shaped nicely.

This is so true!!

mllst18

I stopped reading after 38DD...praise Jesus!!

lol

professorRAT

à chacun son goût

BusyRaeNOTBusty

I couldn't get past the part where you said you and your husband were in a strip club...

This will take an interesting turn...

I was just confused as to why she was in a strip club with her husband.. Thats all I was saying.

Doesnt seem normal.

We aren't your average couple. We're young, and we like to be adventurous, and we don't have the jealousy issues most couples do.

My husband and I go to strip clubs. "Normal" is just about as subjective as "sexy".

Ninnylicious

I think it all depends on the guy... I know I am skinny but I can't get any guy that I want, it all comes down to personal preference. However, in my opinion, women are sexy with curves :flowerforyou:

benol1

Its a girl's heart and mind that makes her attractive/sexy.
Size and shape is actually quite incidental - it is the icing on the cake.
kind regards,

Ben

mllst18

I couldn't get past the part where you said you and your husband were in a strip club...

This will take an interesting turn...

I was just confused as to why she was in a strip club with her husband.. Thats all I was saying.

Doesnt seem normal.

We aren't your average couple. We're young, and we like to be adventurous, and we don't have the jealousy issues most couples do.

My husband and I go to strip clubs. "Normal" is just about as subjective as "sexy".

Very true! haha!

jbutterflye

Its a girl's heart and mind that makes her attractive/sexy.
Size and shape is actually quite incidental - it is the icing on the cake.
kind regards,

Ben

nice!

TattooedMuffin

I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

AMEN!!

oudixon

How come guys never ask what size we consider sexy?

Because we are all afraid you will say 9 inches when average is 6

I like to pretend average is 5 so i am BIG. hahaha

dixiewhiskey

I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

!!!!!!!!!!!

:drinker:

brit_ks_89

I'll tell you what is not sexy....insecure women seeking validation from men.

this!!!!!!

silversociety

Google Kate Upton.

brit_ks_89

Your husband wins this debate. Any man that thinks his wife is hot and sexy wins all the prizes. If I were you, I'd accept his love and affection and not come onto the internet and ask random strangers to validate your belief that you aren't hot.

this!!!!

mllst18

I wish people would read the entire post before posting rude and WRONG ideas and comments!

djsupreme6

there is no correct answer...body size really has nothing to do with being sexy

PomegranatePriestess

Some people say being confident makes u sexy..... No way ok so if a 500 pound woman says oh im sexy sure lets see someone say she is so sexy. Im sorry but it does have a lot to do with ur looks. And i would say there really isnt an exact size but i do know being obese is not sexy at all [bold] to me [/bold] even if u think u are...

I fixed it for you. :flowerforyou:

trophywife24

I'm pretty sure that 99% of men could not look at a woman and go "Daaaaaaamn, size 6. I'd hit that"..... I mean, really. Most men know little to nothing about actual sizes. You'd be better off lining up a small, medium, and large cup and asking which one they'd order.


I'm kidding! kinda.....

Z_I_L_L_A

Its a personal question for each man to answer and it will be different for each. Kinda like a my kid has turned 18 but I still see her as a toddler in my eyes. The X use to ask me the same type of question and I would always say the size you are now because I always saw her as her most beautiful state.

As for right now I like crossfit women, strong and sexy.

heymirth

What is sexy

Self confidence and that old saying
"An lady on the outside and a *kitten* in bed"

And Big ( * Y * )

InnerConflict

I wish people would read the entire post before posting rude and WRONG ideas and comments!

That happy world does not exist.

mllst18

I wish people would read the entire post before posting rude and WRONG ideas and comments!

That happy world does not exist.

True!