Girls - your first thought when..

fishnbrah
fishnbrah Posts: 550
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you see a fit/muscular guy, or get hit on by a guy like that do you instantly think he is narcissistic or shallow cuz he's buff? or do you just think, cool that guy has a nice body?
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  • Illona88
    Illona88 Posts: 903 Member
    completely depends on his body language and what he is saying.
  • Salt_Sand_Sun
    Salt_Sand_Sun Posts: 415 Member
    completely depends on his body language and what he is saying.

    ^^yep

    Confidence > arrogance
  • xvxCelticWandererxvx
    xvxCelticWandererxvx Posts: 2,890 Member
    When I see a guy like that I don't think they're narcissistic or shallow but if they act that way, then yes. I'm not able to tell ya about getting hit on by guys like that though. It just hasn't happened.
  • berriboobear
    berriboobear Posts: 524 Member
    Well it has never happened to me, but I would honestly be super shy and embarrassed, thinking more about what he's doing talking to me instead of a woman more suited for him.

    It would be once in a blue moon that that would happen to me...
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    Can't really share the thoughts that go through my head when I see something like that. Let's just say I'm focused on the visual until he opens his mouth--then the thinking kicks back in.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    you see a fit/muscular guy, or get hit on by a guy like that do you instantly think he is narcissistic or shallow cuz he's buff? or do you just think, cool that guy has a nice body?

    Spill it..You hit on someone and didn't get the reaction you were hoping for?
  • KristiLeighS
    KristiLeighS Posts: 112
    it depends on how he approaches me and when come out of his mouth. looks are nice but they aren't everything.
  • alisha_1983
    alisha_1983 Posts: 507 Member
    Can't really share the thoughts that go through my head when I see something like that. Let's just say I'm focused on the visual until he opens his mouth--then the thinking kicks back in.

    ^^^ yep!
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    it really all depends on the approach, message and delivery. If they are cool, then I'll just think, "hey, its a cool, hot guy..." If they come across as better than others, I will probably think "yea, not so much..." Same for any guy, actually.
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    it depends on how he approaches me and when come out of his mouth. looks are nice but they aren't everything.

    Well, there goes my theory of shutting up and lookin purty.
  • fishnbrah
    fishnbrah Posts: 550
    Can't really share the thoughts that go through my head when I see something like that. Let's just say I'm focused on the visual until he opens his mouth--then the thinking kicks back in.

    interesting. this is kind of what i was wondering.

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    Spill it..You hit on someone and didn't get the reaction you were hoping for?
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    no i never hit on girls, im pretty shy. but i was told by a girl that i know that they can be intimidated by a guy with a really nice body or something like that? like im only concerned with looks or something, or their body has to be crazy good too,
  • mdjcpa75
    mdjcpa75 Posts: 17
    Well it has never happened to me, but I would honestly be super shy and embarrassed, thinking more about what he's doing talking to me instead of a woman more suited for him.

    It would be once in a blue moon that that would happen to me...

    ^^^^^This!
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    I'd think "Dude, back off. You saw the ring". :laugh:

    But buff dudes in my age range are pretty hard to find so it's never an issue.
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    If women are anything like us their personality is the last thing on their minds.
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    I know what you mean...girls think I must be totally shy and not very confident..why they slap me, pour drinks on me and go PFFT and walk away is beyond me.....
  • fit_spired_vicky
    fit_spired_vicky Posts: 152
    I would probably think 'FOOD'
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    I can barely think at all when I see a man like that.
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    I think "SHWINNNNNNG!" But no really, I just hold my purse because you can never be too trusting and he maybe trying to rob me.
  • 37434958
    37434958 Posts: 457 Member
    completely depends on his body language and what he is saying.
  • fit_spired_vicky
    fit_spired_vicky Posts: 152
    But, buff/fit guys probably wont hit on me anyways, so I have nothing to worry about!
  • DainaLC
    DainaLC Posts: 18,937 Member
    Well it has never happened to me, but I would honestly be super shy and embarrassed, thinking more about what he's doing talking to me instead of a woman more suited for him.

    It would be once in a blue moon that that would happen to me...

    ^^^^^This!
    Yep, never happened to me either!
  • bug1106
    bug1106 Posts: 31 Member
    a few things run through my mind like, um will this be where he spends all his time, will he be more into the mirror than me, will i have to sneak chocolate and eat salads all the time... Then I wake up cause no guy like that hits on me. thats okay, my husband wouldn't like that too much anyways. ;)
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    I don't really have experience with that.

    Depends on the situation



    Would you be walking up to me with your shirt off?
  • KristiLeighS
    KristiLeighS Posts: 112
    a good looking man is intimidating, I'm not gonna lie. I never would have approached my husband had we not met online. I have always considered him "one of the beautiful people" and me, not so much. I have realized that not all good looking men are shallow and conceited. There are men out there that want a real woman with a real personality. That is why I said that is depends on the approach of the man. Besides, at the end of the day we all get old and looks fade. That isn't really what is important in life.
  • Matt24442
    Matt24442 Posts: 324
    But, buff/fit guys probably wont hit on me anyways, so I have nothing to worry about!

    Dr Chimpanzees wife?
  • BeinAwesome247
    BeinAwesome247 Posts: 257 Member
    It would depend on his approach...honestly, in my area, if they are like super buff they're also super outgoing - I'll ask questions

    Never been hit on so wouldn't know how to react....probably stutter and make an *kitten* of myself
  • berriboobear
    berriboobear Posts: 524 Member
    Can't really share the thoughts that go through my head when I see something like that. Let's just say I'm focused on the visual until he opens his mouth--then the thinking kicks back in.

    interesting. this is kind of what i was wondering.

    Spill it..You hit on someone and didn't get the reaction you were hoping for?
    [/quote]

    no i never hit on girls, im pretty shy. but i was told by a girl that i know that they can be intimidated by a guy with a really nice body or something like that? like im only concerned with looks or something, or their body has to be crazy good too,
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    ^ this, I don't know where it came from (probably the media we see all the time) but it's a feeling of being inferior than what "he" would be looking for since he's in such good shape.
  • TheBaileyHunter
    TheBaileyHunter Posts: 641 Member
    you see a fit/muscular guy, or get hit on by a guy like that do you instantly think he is narcissistic or shallow cuz he's buff? or do you just think, cool that guy has a nice body?

    Nope. He has to talk first before I can make that ascertainment. Prior to that, I'm probably thinking..Oh, tasty.
  • fit4lifeUcan2
    fit4lifeUcan2 Posts: 1,458 Member
    I married him thats how I handled it :laugh:
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    a good looking man is intimidating, I'm not gonna lie. I never would have approached my husband had we not met online. I have always considered him "one of the beautiful people" and me, not so much. I have realized that not all good looking men are shallow and conceited. There are men out there that want a real woman with a real personality. That is why I said that is depends on the approach of the man. Besides, at the end of the day we all get old and looks fade. That isn't really what is important in life.

    Dang...glad I read this before the junk pic FR.... :smokin:

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