Girls - your first thought when..
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i have no clue how to pick up girls, and im 28 lol.
Put up shirtless pic on site with a lot of women.
Ask innocent question.
Be polite and a little coy.
Profit.
You obvs have the smarts. Kudos.0 -
When I see a guy like that I don't think they're narcissistic or shallow but if they act that way, then yes. I'm not able to tell ya about getting hit on by guys like that though. It just hasn't happened.
I think I very clearly hit on you earlier today. :grumble:
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I was eating in Chili's with a friend and our waiter was amazingly gorgeous with the sexiest body. No lie. When he asked for my order I couldn't even get the words out.
I don't judge. I just look. lol
About men hitting on women? Errr I get hit on at the gym, I feel very uncomfortable!!! Some men are just so RUDE, it makes me so mad! Last week I was walking to the machines and these guys said "Shake it, shake it". So annoying. And they stay in groups like hunting packs, seriously GUYS! Why is there FIVE guys per ONE machine!?!???? I don't get it. Must be a man thing.0 -
:laugh: Love this!Well, if he's hitting on me... I think, "cool, he has excellent taste in women."0
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Let's flip the situation- if an attractive woman speaks to/ smiles at/ or comes up to you- do you automatically think she is flirting? Do you think she is shallow for choosing you, if she is flirting?
I would immediately think she was put up to it by a friend and was trying to mock me.
hah- I smile/talk to justtt about anyone. I learned it as a solo barfly when bored and couldn't find someone to hang out with.
If I'm interested, I attempt to make it known, but I don't think I'm great at that part.
Teenage girls weren't kind, so I am a little distrustful of strange women now. If it is initially friendly, then I am find, but immediately coming on strong sets off alarms.0 -
Own experience: the majority of women I come across get the perception of : he must be at the gym 24/7, he's narcissistic, he's probably on drugs, but the ones into fitness are more likely to see it positively as dedication and hardwork.0
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I don't really have experience with that.
Depends on the situation
Would you be walking up to me with your shirt off?
would i have better success shirtless? id be afraid that might come off a bit "douchey" if i undress before approaching.
Honestly either way I would probably turn red and not be able to talk
i am a dork
Also i would have no judgments about you based on your appearance...people are so strange when they say that they worry men in good shape spend too much time in the mirror or are in love with themselves,etc
really?
caring about yourself is a bad thing? plus it doesnt take hours upon hours to have effective gym workouts and eat to accomplish whatever your goals are.
anyway, i like to have an open mind.
If I went up to a girl to flirt and she turned red and got shy, I would find that so endearing that I would keep trying to flirt with her.
lol:blushing:
see, my face really did turn red...well it felt like it did.0 -
you see a fit/muscular guy, or get hit on by a guy like that do you instantly think he is narcissistic or shallow cuz he's buff? or do you just think, cool that guy has a nice body?
I think "cool - he's got a nice body!" I just assume that he cares enough about his body to take care of it unless he does or says something to make me think otherwise.0 -
I don't know about hitting on women, but I do know, when women hit on me, I start to stutter and then I weep openly and then run away. It's just better that way for both of us... :P0
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you see a fit/muscular guy, or get hit on by a guy like that do you instantly think he is narcissistic or shallow cuz he's buff? or do you just think, cool that guy has a nice body?
first thought: What the hell does this guy see in some 48 year old broad? Second thought: DAMN, I still "got it", YES!
When they open their mouths and start talking, that's when I start to judge. A great body is one thing, a great mind completes the package.
See, the man's perspective on this is similar, but still very different. If the super hot chick were to prove to be an idiot or a b!tch, the man would just be wondering how fast he could get away from her AFTER having sex.0 -
Can't really share the thoughts that go through my head when I see something like that. Let's just say I'm focused on the visual until he opens his mouth--then the thinking kicks back in.
interesting. this is kind of what i was wondering.
Spill it..You hit on someone and didn't get the reaction you were hoping for?
no i never hit on girls, im pretty shy. but i was told by a girl that i know that they can be intimidated by a guy with a really nice body or something like that? like im only concerned with looks or something, or their body has to be crazy good too,
So you never hit on woman?
You'd date someone that wasn't as fit as yourself?
Since your shy..I am too..how do you go about dating?
pretty simple, i dont.
that's a shame
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i have no clue how to pick up girls, and im 28 lol.
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we're two peas in a pod, haha! no clue how to pick up guys, haven't really tried to be honest. not enough self-confidence for that yet... if feel like the harder you try to make an impression or to act a certain way, the less smooth it will go. i'd offer to go for drinks if and give each other advice if this were real life =P0 -
Can't really share the thoughts that go through my head when I see something like that. Let's just say I'm focused on the visual until he opens his mouth--then the thinking kicks back in.
interesting. this is kind of what i was wondering.
Spill it..You hit on someone and didn't get the reaction you were hoping for?
no i never hit on girls, im pretty shy. but i was told by a girl that i know that they can be intimidated by a guy with a really nice body or something like that? like im only concerned with looks or something, or their body has to be crazy good too,
So you never hit on woman?
You'd date someone that wasn't as fit as yourself?
Since your shy..I am too..how do you go about dating?
pretty simple, i dont.
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that's a shame
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was thinking the same thing... that's a shame.0 -
I also dont get the "wondering who he is talking to comments"
really?
Like yourselves a little more...please.0 -
I never get hit on by guys like that
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i have no clue how to pick up girls, and im 28 lol.
Put up shirtless pic on site with a lot of women.
Ask innocent question.
Be polite and a little coy.
Profit.
Teeheehee.. :laugh:
Seriously though; I'd soak up the visual, enjoy it, wait for him to open his mouth and THAT'S where the magic happens, or not.
Nothing as unattractive as a guy that turns out to be: cheap, fast and shallow. Anything else; you have my full attention!0 -
Almost like he's fishin', brah...
i have no clue how to pick up girls, and im 28 lol.
Put up shirtless pic on site with a lot of women.
Ask innocent question.
Be polite and a little coy.
Profit.0 -
:laugh: Love this!Well, if he's hitting on me... I think, "cool, he has excellent taste in women."
I mean.... Who doesn't like getting hit on? Amiright?0 -
I don't really get the fear of rejection thing.
Maybe because I have been out of the dating game for so long that I have forgotten what it's like but it never seemed that bad to me.
Most women are generally polite even if they are not interested. I guess some women can be b*tches but then do you really care what someone who takes a simple approach badly thinks?
What's the worst that can happen? "Sorry, not interested"
What's the best that can happen? Mindblowing sex / relationship / marriage.
I like those odds...0 -
hmmm, usually assume he's talking to someone behind or beside me so its their problem.0
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I think:
"Holy *kitten*. He is delicious. I hope he doesn't look at me. Please don't look at me. You're making me sooooooo nervousssss"
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This whole thread's happened before.0
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I also dont get the "wondering who he is talking to comments"
really?
Like yourselves a little more...please.
Oh I looooove myself.. but after being off that "scene" for a LOOONG time, it's a new thing. Takes a little getting used to. :-)0 -
This whole thread's happened before.
Deja Vu!!!!!0 -
Depending on where, from the options I might think shallow. But my first reaction is neither - I think he is just looking for action so I'm not too trusting of the type.
If the manner of conversation is friendly and proves he's not a d-bag I would think the latter - cool he's got a great body. Then I still wonder, what does he want with me - he must be just polite and friendly. That's been my experience anyway, most weren't really hitting on me unless they just thought I was easy.0 -
But, buff/fit guys probably wont hit on me anyways, so I have nothing to worry about!
Dr Chimpanzees wife?
No kidding. I am just killed by all these beautiful people out here saying "It would never happen to me." Am I the only one seeing how pretty these people are? I'd give you all a wink and a nod. Well, maye not the blue head. This is the second thread today where I have seen this.0 -
Not that I have ever had the pleasure of a guy of this nature hit one me but for some reason the first thought that hits me is "i bet they have a small penis"0
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i think 'how drunk is he'?0
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if i see a fit guy then I want to know what program he's doing so i can learn from it, or try his leg workout etc.0
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I look for the short girl he is truly looking at and get out of the way.
Even when I was hot in my 20's muscled guys were less than interested in a relationship. I made friends with many of them and asked once why they never tried anything before we were friends and the answer I got was I was to tall
I am only5'9" and most of them were 6'2" +:noway: I was told the woman had to fit just under their chin preferably below their shoulder! What gives on that?:explode:
Their morons. I have dated girls much taller than I, and much shorter than I. Who cares where they come up to on you?0 -
is he smiling? 6 pack or not, if a guy isn't smiling, he's not HOT, in my opinion.
i'm somewhat intimidated by good looking men. not sure why. if i get hit on by any man, muscular or not, i think i'm very oblivious. because i have zero game hahahah.
i agree with the body language comment. 100%.
That why you wanted me to smile so much when we first met?0
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