Married and heavy flirting good or bad

Brotherdeath76
Brotherdeath76 Posts: 14
edited November 12 in Chit-Chat
Just your opinion. Where is the line?
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  • portalm
    portalm Posts: 201 Member
    Dont....
  • Crazibaker
    Crazibaker Posts: 130 Member
    It's trouble - don't do it.
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    Touching. No touching. If you're calling a lady "beautiful" commenting on her hair.... etc. You better not touch her unless her hair is on fire.


    Also, when flirting reaches an emotional level and you start divulging things you shouldn't.
  • NanaB2011
    NanaB2011 Posts: 50 Member
    "heavy flrting" is not a good idea even if you are not married but are exclusive...
  • cindylou_106
    cindylou_106 Posts: 6 Member
    Inappropriate.
  • confettibetti
    confettibetti Posts: 405 Member
    bad bad bad bad bad...
  • retriev00
    retriev00 Posts: 227 Member
    effing disgusting and disrespectful to your spouse
  • Im_NotPerfect
    Im_NotPerfect Posts: 2,181 Member
    Depends if you value and respect your marriage vows or not...
  • sds76
    sds76 Posts: 215 Member
    for me personally, no flirting. After 16yrs of marriage I just don't have the thought to even flirt with another man.

    However I know some cpl that are completely fine with either of them flirting as long as it's not hidden etc.

    So I guess my opinion is, it depends on the cpl. If one of the parties is bothered by it in anyway than it shouldn't happen at all.
  • hottiebikerchick
    hottiebikerchick Posts: 187 Member
    Why would you have to ask???? ridiculous
  • thisisashleys
    thisisashleys Posts: 8 Member
    I think it depends on each relationship. What would you be ok with your spouse doing?
  • cornfritter22
    cornfritter22 Posts: 230 Member
    I'd like to hear opinions on where the line is also. I'm not married, but in a serious relationship. I'm a waitress and I flirt with my customers. Sometimes I wonder if I take it, or if I let them take it too far.
  • smc1277
    smc1277 Posts: 239 Member
    It doesn't bother me. But if you have to ask then you better not.
  • ElyseL1
    ElyseL1 Posts: 504 Member
    ALL BAD! I respect my husband and would never do that. In fact I lost several close male friends after we started dating because they thought it was still ok to flirt with me even though I made it clear that it was a no no.
  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    Dont....
    Agree. Show respect. Be kind. Be friendly where possible. But no flirting. That belongs to my husband!
  • nancy322
    nancy322 Posts: 1 Member
    My thought is always - Would I be OK if he was doing it too? I am happily married for 11 years, so there is no need to flirt with anyone. You know the answer to the question before you asked it - play w/fire - you gonna get burned.
  • vytamindi
    vytamindi Posts: 845 Member
    If both parties agree to boundaries of flirting, it's okay. Could even be good. Especially if you're starting to feel "OMG I can never sleep with anyone but him/her?!?!" and you could even use the frustration from the flirting to "benefit you" if you know what I mean.
  • PierdoPeso
    PierdoPeso Posts: 25
    Agreed, don't do it if you're serious about your marriage. More often than not, if a person is taking it that far, he/she is looking for something more.
  • auranda
    auranda Posts: 59 Member
    STUPID NONSENSICAL QUESTION.
  • ashlinmarie
    ashlinmarie Posts: 1,263 Member
    Light flirting might be okay (compliments that anyone could give such as hair looks nice or wearing a flattering dress) but heavy flirting no. I have this issue with being a huge flirt, but I make sure to tone it down as much as possible because I love and respect my husband.
  • Turtlehurdle
    Turtlehurdle Posts: 412
    Negative.
  • jeddy3mcc
    jeddy3mcc Posts: 177 Member
    Im not married, but I guess it depends on your situation, but I would say if your marriage is important enough err on the side of caution/ Just the opinion of a single guy!
  • mheath1293
    mheath1293 Posts: 35 Member
    If you really love your spouse, you wouldn't do it. IMO, you wouldn't even have the urge to do it. I can honestly say I don't find any man to be as attractive as my hubby!
  • cyndispot
    cyndispot Posts: 135
    Seriously - you might want to review your wedding vows - and why are you looking for the line if you've committed to those (I mean that's what you did in front of those people and that offciating officer.
  • weightlose88
    weightlose88 Posts: 37 Member
    what line there is no line its a FULL SPOT
    u got a spouse flirt with her only :P dude comeon
  • TrailRunner61
    TrailRunner61 Posts: 2,505 Member
    When you don't know if it's bad or not....it is.
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
    I just wanted to post on this thread. Now move along.
  • BelleHeart
    BelleHeart Posts: 281 Member
    3Usiw.gif

    ^^^^^ I couldn't have said it better myself.
  • sillygoose1977
    sillygoose1977 Posts: 2,151 Member
    Better be heavy flirting with your own wife.
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