Married and heavy flirting good or bad
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What is considered "heavy flirting"?
No penetration, except digital.
Beastie...u dont post that often but when you do KAPOW....its good.
Wait is that flirting? Oh sorry....that post was SO disrepsectful
I know, right? Ha, ha. It's cool, bro. Wanna do it?
heh heh Beavis...she said "do it"0 -
Just an fyi I wasn't referring to me flirting I was referring to her0
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Never ends well.0
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I guess it depends on if you're looking to be divorced real soon.
If you love your spouse, don't do it. If you're having marriage problems -- communicate and work it out. I can't emphasize the COMMUNICATE enough.
Been married 23 years; we've had our ups & downs -- all relationships do; but we've always talked through things (sometimes it was shouting, but we were communicating) and we worked things out. We both give 100% to our relationship and our marriage is much stronger because of it. I would take a bullet for my husband and he wouldn't let me.1 -
BAH!
I say who cares where you get your appetite as long as you satisfy it at home.
bring on the hate, I'm in the mood for it.1 -
BAH!
I say who cares where you get your appetite as long as you satisfy it at home.
bring on the hate, I'm in the mood for it.
Where do we live, again?0 -
I think it depends on just what flirting entails.
Does it make you go home at night and love your spouse even more because someone complimented you and made you feel good, or does it make you think you should go behind your spouses back?
My own feeling is would it be okay to say/do this in public? Would your spouse be upset if they found out?
I think this says it best. If it is truly flirting, and you are not thinking of taking it past the flirts, then I think it's fine. Also, is it okay for her to flirt at the same level if she wants to?
As long as you both take it home to each other, then it's not harmful.
I've been married 37 years, and yes, we have both flirted, but it stays as flirting!0 -
*rolls eyes*If you are "happily" married and not, say a Swinger, why would you be flirting with someone of the opposite/same sex (what ever floats your boat)? That's not respectful to your SO.
Now, if you had an Open Relationship or say where looking to add a 3rd person and both of you agreed on such a thing before hand, then sure. Go for it, just be respectful of the other people involved and make sure everyone is down with it.
Otherwise no, no "heavy" flirting.
Why does one have to be a swinger or in an open relationship in order to flirt? And why oh why oh why do people think that just because someone flirts/compliments/looks at/talks to someone other than their SO that they're not happily married?
I'm a big flirt. It's just who I am. My husband tends to flirt too. It's not a big deal. We are very happily married.
Flirting is fun.1 -
I swear I thought this said "Married and heavy lifting good or bad" I was going to ask why the heck it would matter if I was married and lifting heavy...
Now that I've uncrossed my eyes I'll say "Danger Will Robinson, DANGER!"
BAD!0 -
I guess it depends on if you're looking to be divorced real soon.
If you love your spouse, don't do it. If you're having marriage problems -- communicate and work it out. I can't emphasize the COMMUNICATE enough.
do u mean communciate with your spouse or the person you're flirting with? Just asking for clarification.0 -
*rolls eyes*If you are "happily" married and not, say a Swinger, why would you be flirting with someone of the opposite/same sex (what ever floats your boat)? That's not respectful to your SO.
Now, if you had an Open Relationship or say where looking to add a 3rd person and both of you agreed on such a thing before hand, then sure. Go for it, just be respectful of the other people involved and make sure everyone is down with it.
Otherwise no, no "heavy" flirting.
Why does one have to be a swinger or in an open relationship in order to flirt? And why oh why oh why do people think that just because someone flirts/compliments/looks at/talks to someone other than their SO that they're not happily married?
I'm a big flirt. It's just who I am. My husband tends to flirt too. It's not a big deal. We are very happily married.
Flirting is fun.
can I have my panties back please?0 -
Just an fyi I wasn't referring to me flirting I was referring to her
If this is true, why would you have to ask? You're going to take the opinions of strangers over your own instincts and feelings?0 -
Inappropriate.
Uncalled for and VERY disrespectful!0 -
Depends completely on the relationship. Hubby and I are both terrible flirts, with each other and with everyone else! It is all about trust and honesty.0
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Like they say, "If you wouldn't do it front of them, don't do it behind their backs."0
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How YOU doin? (Joey Tribianni voice)
sorry that was me flirting with every female on this thread.0 -
:noway: Don't even think about it! WROOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNNGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Unless you wan't your tires slashed or wonder why you always get the feeling you are being watched.0 -
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*rolls eyes*If you are "happily" married and not, say a Swinger, why would you be flirting with someone of the opposite/same sex (what ever floats your boat)? That's not respectful to your SO.
Now, if you had an Open Relationship or say where looking to add a 3rd person and both of you agreed on such a thing before hand, then sure. Go for it, just be respectful of the other people involved and make sure everyone is down with it.
Otherwise no, no "heavy" flirting.
Why does one have to be a swinger or in an open relationship in order to flirt? And why oh why oh why do people think that just because someone flirts/compliments/looks at/talks to someone other than their SO that they're not happily married?
I'm a big flirt. It's just who I am. My husband tends to flirt too. It's not a big deal. We are very happily married.
Flirting is fun.
can I have my panties back please?
You already told me you didn't need them!
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I do flirt with people other than my wife, sometimes when she is there, sometimes she hears about it after the fact. And at times she is as big a flirt as I am.
And we've been happily married for over 12 years.
When you respect and trust each other, it isn't a big deal. It is fun, feels good, and is enjoyable to all parties. Of course, you should be ethical with the person you are flirting with as well. Let them know what the deal is.1 -
Just don't. I believe that you shouldn't do anything behind your spouse's back that you wouldn't do in front of them.0
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Yeah, I am an equal opportunity flirt, and wouldn't date a girl who wasn't basically the same way.
It's harmless fun.Just don't. I believe that you shouldn't do anything behind your spouse's back that you wouldn't do in front of them.
See - I agree with you, but flirting doesn't fall into that category for me. I have done it plenty of times in front of SOs.0 -
Pants up or down...there is a difference!
I think you can flirt and not cross a line.
Wanna play just the tip?
Oh and love you Jules!!!!
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I'm a flirt. In front of my man or not I flirt. It's not like I'm all touchy feely all over the guy. I'm not like kissin on his neck and friggin trying to grab his crotch and rip it out to give him a BJ.
But seriously, I flirt. I'm not going to kiss some guy, or like touch him inappropriately. But that is just who I am. I have a friend who is a HEAVY flirt, and she flirts with our guy friends right infront of their g/f's and the g/f's have an issue with it and I tell them that is just WHO SHE IS and they don't get it. It's not going to go anywhere. If you can't flirt and know WHEN to stop, you've got issue's.0 -
Agree if it isn't something you would say or do if the SO or spouse was there, it BAD.0
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I flirt in front of my husband, he flirts in front of me. We only have sex with each other...
So yea. I think I'm good.0 -
i prefer heavy petting1
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I think if "heavy flirting" involves touching, then that's a no-go for me. Although really it's just a matter of trust and respect. I trust my husband (who is a little naturally flirtatious, like myself), but if either of us feels uncomfortable with the type/amount of flirting the other person does, we just say so and ask that they respect us enough to stop that behavior.
However, if you're flirting with someone WITHOUT your partner around, and take actual measures to hide that flirting from said partner (i.e. online comments, asking friends not to mention a backrub or disclosure made, etc.), then I would consider that a breaking of trust.0 -
Bad.0
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I don't flirt. I make E-babies.
Got 99 problems, but child-support aint one!0
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