men, does the "I'll kick your *kitten*" male/male trump card...

I played hockey for several years and I have been in my fair share of fights and I have "loss and won" fights on both accounts.
hat being said when our teams would meet again and that guy you recently beat the crap out of makes eye contact and then looks away it can be very empowering..

First things first, you don't have to be the biggest guy there to win the fight. Sure, bigger guys will intimidate a lot of smaller guys, but fighting is an art. Some of the smallest people I know are the best fighters.

To answer your question directly, no, being able to say "I'll kick your *kitten*" never played into why I run and work out. My reasons are far more superficial and allow me to maintain my hedonistic lifestyle.

I have the added benefit of knowing that I can talk my way out of any fight that I'd talk myself into. Worst case scenario, I end up in the next morning's paper.
-wtk

Hmmm, yes it does. I took serious martial arts training for 12 years and do think I can kick almost anyones *kitten*.

I dont think it often, I have been trained to never be the aggressor, but if someone is trying to bully me or if I need to stand up to someone in support of another that thought always goes through my mind even though I try to always present a calm demeanor.

BTW, I have only been in a couple of fights outside of the ring in my whole life and did not start either of them. Most people I know dont even know that I have this skill set.

I do use this mentality to push myself though...."one more rep or I'll kick your (my) *kitten*. LOL

I size up everyone I encounter.

OP! Pipe down or I'll kick yer *kitten*!



(I kid, I'm too damn old to worry too much about that bullsh!t anymore.)

I don't "size people up" - in school, I was the "fat nerd" stereotype, so I never was on the winning side of a fight. That mentality tends to stick with you for a very long time. It's 15 years since I graduated, and I still don't like confrontation. I was a kung fu instructor for 5 years, and one of the many lessons I taught was "looks can be deceiving". That 140 lb grappler can take down a 350 lb power hitter with the right techniques.

Competition? That's a different story. I love to see where I rank amongst colleagues, and to try to get better. Out of the 7 events in highland heavy athletics, I'm especially good at one of them. Holding that "top of the mountain" rank is what pushes me to do better, and the other events follow suit.

So, no - I don't think "I'll kick your *kitten*." I think "I'm gonna outlift/outthrow/outthink your *kitten*" (I use to compete in math competitions before I started with physical activities).

Statements of motivation. Some are as simple as the Boy Scouts with their Be Prepared motto, some are a bit more agressive like the "I can kick anyone's *kitten*" mantra. The one that always sticks in my head and makes me smile (because I've worked with several like him) goes a littel further with the "pre-game" preparation.

I believe it was Major General Mattis from Iraq saying to his Marines--"Be polite, be professional, but have a plan to kill everyone you meet."

Or for the modest man--"I come in peace. I didn't bring artillery. But I'm pleading with you, with tears in my eyes; If you *kitten* with me, I'll kill you all."

He would be a very interesting man to meet.

Not at all.

I am short and frail, more of a brain than a brawn. Most guys I see with the need to be "stronger" tend to have immense issues with control. With so much technology and various means of "protecting" as well as "harming", the need to be "stronger" or "more fit" etc. is greatly diminished. Unless somehow your muscles deflect bullets, knives, automobiles, and other random things.

I can honestly see how many would feel more manly, empowered, or what not from it. I honestly do, and also see the sociological evolution of it, as there was a time when such a mentality was quite vital in our species' history.

But, I have never personally felt that need or desire. Maybe growing up always shorter and generally skinnier than most guys made me quickly develop alternatively (I am far better with convincing guys with muscles to help me out rather than using my own lol).

most fights arent planned. most do not involve guns, knives etc...so all of that technology you mention means nothing in most cases. like you said talking your way out or avoiding it all together is best when you dont measure up.

This question makes me think of another:

Given only one of the following, what would most women choose:
1.) Money (i.e. brain)
2.) Muscle (except for a very few pro-athletes, i.e. brawn)

FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT!

I'm a lover, not a fighter.

But I'm also a fighter, so don't get any ideas.

Yes it does, I used to be a martial artist and want to go back to it as some point but would like to get down to 210 or so first. Only in theory or in fun of course. I don't start fights... usually.