What if your daughter's boyfriend did this?

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  • DarthCeltic
    DarthCeltic Posts: 1,274 Member
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    My daughter just turned 3. About a year and a half ago she promised me that whe wouldn't date until she was 25, so I don't have to worry about it for 22 more years.:bigsmile:

    you realized my sister made this same promise..... then got pregnant at 16..
  • know_your_worth
    know_your_worth Posts: 481 Member
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    My daughter would be single.
    ^ :laugh: this.
  • nursevee
    nursevee Posts: 344 Member
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    My daughter just turned 3. About a year and a half ago she promised me that whe wouldn't date until she was 25, so I don't have to worry about it for 22 more years.:bigsmile:

    Hahahahaha. Out of the mouths of babes. I do believe mine said (at that age) that boys were icky and had germs. Mine will be 14 in a couple months and she 'dates' at school (ie: has a boyfriend at school). I'm trying to swallow my fears because the next think is a chaperoned date! *passes out*
  • ANB22
    ANB22 Posts: 64
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    Hopefully you all have a close enough relationship that you can talk to her about it. If it were my daughter I wouldn't tell her that she couldnt see him, talk to him etc etc etc... I know when I was younger that just fueled my fire. BUT maybe bring it up, maybe she doesn't know this about him even if he is curious.... she should be aware too
  • linz1125
    linz1125 Posts: 441 Member
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    It depends on the kid...if he normally is a kid that you think is law-abiding and has a good head on his shoulders, I wouldn't worry but I wouldn't forget it. If he's shady or something feels off, be suspicious. Its possible he was either just curious or researching something for school. If he's googling where to get the ingredients, be worried.

    I would hate for someone to judge me on my search history. But if I google someone on someone else's computer, you better believe I am clearing the history before I leave.
  • fraser112
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    No one just looks up how to make it for sh*ts and giggles. You need to confront him now and quick. Does he watch the show Breaking Bad? Do not let your daughter date a Meth head or dealer. They just Spell Trouble M-E-T-H Trouble

    i could make
    dynamite
    plastic explosive
    cyanide gas
    riccen

    a teacher told us about the anarcist cook ook in school :laugh:

    But never let a teen on your pc unless you want your daughter seeing

    2 guys 1 hammer (murder video)
    2 girls one cup (scat porn)
    Sending naked pictures
    sex on cam

    Websites exist just for pictures of exs and its common practise as revenge to dump your exs pics online.

    Trust me when i say being a teen now is a strange thing
    Not one person i know in my age group hasny seen these videos.

    I hope i have a son for god sake.
  • wewon
    wewon Posts: 838 Member
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    I could very easily see this being the result of watching something on TV like Breaking Bad or some other show and him say, "I wonder how easy that is?" and before you know it he's zipping along through google. I know that I've looked up all kinds of things simply because of something I heard in conversation or read in an article. I'm willing to bet that there are plenty of people that have googled "goatse" or "tubgirl" just to see what they were.

    That being said, I would be pissed for one reason...he used my computer to do this little act. I really don't like the idea of this nonesense popping up in my browser history for a multitude of reasons.

    However, you know this kid better then anyone here, is he the naturally curious type or is he the kind that gets into things like doing drugs? Is he the kind of guy that looks up things like 'how to build a hand-glider" one moment and "How Tall was Elvis?" the next? (and yes, I have done both of those and Elvis was 6'0")

    Its your call, but at the very least I would be having a sit down with the kid about respecting boundaries.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    Not enough info. He could be planning to make it or he could be researching a paper. Ask him.
  • DarthCeltic
    DarthCeltic Posts: 1,274 Member
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    if i were you id be glad he wasnt looking up "how to off my girlfriends parents and make away with the life insurance money.." Id be SCARED then..
  • nikinyx6
    nikinyx6 Posts: 772 Member
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    I know the basics of how to make a lot of illicit drugs...doesn't mean I've ever done it.

    this. people research dumb **** all the time. you could be frank with them and say...."so this was in my history, what is up?" and hopefully you have an honest and open relationship with them.

    this, for sure...if people looked at my search history, they'd think terrible things of me, but I just get curious sometimes :)
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
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    kick his *kitten* to the curb and yell at his parents.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,198 Member
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    I would have to have a serious discussion with the numb nut about the intents & purposes behind said research...Of course that discussion is dependent on 2 things:

    1. I get to him before my ex-husband
    And, failing that #2. he isn't comatose after my ex-husband got through with him.
  • melsmith612
    melsmith612 Posts: 727 Member
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    I'd immediately assume that one of these things were true:

    - He wants to emulate the massive amounts of money supposedly made with meth on Breaking Bad by selling it to other kids his age

    - He wants to try it himself but is too smart to go buy it off a street corner

    - Your daughter wants him to make it for her

    If my mom had ever found something like that in her computer's history when I was growing up, I would have been grounded for 6 months no questions asked and the boyfriend would have been history.
  • Treesy72
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    My daughters boyfriend of many years robbed me of 33000.00 of jewelry and family heirlooms, all my entire DVD collection and other random things. I called the cops and they sent him to rehab for 6 months because he cried to the judge that it was his marijuana addiction that made him do it...... REALLY! You can't even be addicted to that plant! What a stupid judge. So I received 14000.00 from insurance and have to suck it up.
  • DarthCeltic
    DarthCeltic Posts: 1,274 Member
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    My daughters boyfriend of many years robbed me of 33000.00 of jewelry and family heirlooms, all my entire DVD collection and other random things. I called the cops and they sent him to rehab for 6 months because he cried to the judge that it was his marijuana addiction that made him do it...... REALLY! You can't even be addicted to that plant! What a stupid judge. So I received 14000.00 from insurance and have to suck it up.

    he got 6 months? hes almost out.. by my count you have 19k to take from his hide...
  • NicolePatriot
    NicolePatriot Posts: 621 Member
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    Just a thought, but how do you know it isn't her looking that up?
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
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    No one just looks up how to make it for sh*ts and giggles. You need to confront him now and quick. Does he watch the show Breaking Bad? Do not let your daughter date a Meth head or dealer. They just Spell Trouble M-E-T-H Trouble

    i could make
    dynamite
    plastic explosive
    cyanide gas
    riccen

    a teacher told us about the anarcist cook ook in school :laugh:

    But never let a teen on your pc unless you want your daughter seeing

    2 guys 1 hammer (murder video)
    2 girls one cup (scat porn)
    Sending naked pictures
    sex on cam

    Websites exist just for pictures of exs and its common practise as revenge to dump your exs pics online.

    Trust me when i say being a teen now is a strange thing
    Not one person i know in my age group hasny seen these videos.

    I hope i have a son for god sake.

    I used to have a copy of the anarchist's cook book on a floppy disk. (Just for sh!ts and giigles :laugh: )
  • CF4L
    CF4L Posts: 58 Member
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    If you saw it in history he wasn't trying to hide it. Anyone knows how to clear that. Was probably innocent.
  • wewon
    wewon Posts: 838 Member
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    Just a thought, but how do you know it isn't her looking that up?

    LMAO!!

    *Hands over ears*

    I CAN'T HEAR YOU! LA-LA-LA-LA-LA!
  • Oliviamarie05
    Oliviamarie05 Posts: 528 Member
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    Question his morals, berate him in front of your daughter (making a scene is always best), then beat him with your dog while yelling profanities.

    I find this works best.