The number one reason I wont date someone

They are skinner than me... I hate that for me. I don't mind if other people do this at all but, for me. I cannot stand it. I have done it before and hated it. Am I alone here? What are some of the things that turn you away from dating people?

You're not alone. My wife absolutely refused to let me start our diet until her weight was at least 5 pounds less than mine.

I wont date someone that is 2 out of the 3.

1.) Taller
2..) Smarter
3.) Makes more money

One is fine but my ego can't handle two.

gosh those 3 are how i likey my men

Shorter than me...that includes when I am wearing high heels... it just doesnt seem right to me and makes me feel awkward.

My ex had like 5 percent body fat and a thin and trim body with nice arms and a kind of natural six pack and he ate everything and never worked out.
But then I found out he was doing cocaine so that explains that.
But still. I was smaller than him in frame but he had no body fat & small legs so I used to feel fat around him.

number one reason for me is they are constantly b*tching about everything, nothing makes you less attractive than a horrible attitude towards everything and everyone, especially toward me, if i wanted to hear someone complain about everything constantly i would get a job at mcdonalds as a cashier/order taker :laugh:

also on another note for all you women that might be responding to this thread with what the OP said what exactly do you classify as "skinnier than you" is it actual weight? looks? body fat? cause i know in my case i have lost alot of my body fat (which was most of my weight) and eventually will be around 200lbs again but i'm getting there slowly to keep my body fat % low while gaining muscle, but once i do get there i will still be somewhere around 10% body fat. so what is it that you think is "skinnier than you?"

Well, I'm married, but back when I was on the market, it was:

1: You must have overall good oral hygiene. Brown teeth, missing teeth, or dragon's breath would automatically disqualify you.\
2: You must have a job and, if not, searching for one or going to college.
3: Have to be taller than me. I dated someone shorter before and it drove me nuts.
4: No drugs and no smoking. Occasional alcohol okay, but I'm not into people who like getting fall down drunk.

Shorter than me...that includes when I am wearing high heels... it just doesnt seem right to me and makes me feel awkward.

this was the one rule that the ladies had that ever eliminated me from their selection.

Things that turn me away are lack of intelligence. oh and not being single is a major turn off haha

My number reason i wouldn't date someone is if they have no job or not trying to make something out of themselves.

43 and happily married but, when I was single.....

High School: dated anything that moved slow enough for me to catch
College: Eliminated Blondes...long story
After College: married a "Kim" divorced a Kim...then dated another Kim and found out what a lying piece of...ok, getting off subject....sooooo, I eliminated Kim's from the list.
Then...no drug related addictions.....Found my current who is almost 10 yrs younger than me so, I was able to train her a little. :laugh:

my number one reason is if they like nickelback.

Shorter and smaller than me. Yeah, the guy would be tiny if he was.

They are skinner than me... I hate that for me. I don't mind if other people do this at all but, for me. I cannot stand it. I have done it before and hated it. Am I alone here? What are some of the things that turn you away from dating people?

And I was wondering how could I go on with my day without learning something about you today

Two things...smoking...and obesity. Now you may think that is a bit hypocritical, but I lost my fiancee to heart disease due to obesity. I wont go through that again. And another reason I am losing weight myself.