Once I got dumped for
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First guy I slept with, we broke up and re connected a couple years later. He dumped me by saying he felt intimidated by my knowledge in the bedroom. Ummm.....What?! There is more than just missionary!
I have had my fair share of break ups but the one guy I cut loose….he wasn't well equipped (Abnormally small), To be honest it totally freaked me out, I still feel bad about it but when you can’t feel anything…..there’s a problem!!!0 -
being really awesome, but he realized he wasn't physically attracted to me. O.o
Dumbest dumps? (Been done to you or you've thought of
yes, that's evil of me but I know you've all got some evil in ya.
That's dumb?
That is perfectly normal and to be expected if it's true and he wasn't attracted. Ask any psychologist. A healthy relationship requires attraction0 -
He decided to become a Jehovahs Witness and told me I was going to burn in hell for having premarital sex. With him..... :noway:
I dated a Jehovah's Witness. My boyfriends MOM called me to tell me he couldn't date me anymore because he was going to go to hell for dating me...
Uh... Jehovah's Witnesses don't believe in hell.0 -
Thread reminds me of the song 50 ways to say she died
Haha! Reminds me of the song 50 ways to leave your lover! This thread is hilarious!0 -
I was friendzoned once.....that was weird. The jerk still texts me about once a year to check to see if my husband and I have broken up0
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Quote: "I like my other girlfriend better. Sorry."
...Cool.
Umm, I've used that one, only replace "girlfriend" with "boyfriend." Not my proudest moment. :blushing:0 -
Only been in a few relationships but I dumped a guy I was seeing after a few months because he drugged my wine and I ended up in bed with him. Only thing I will always remember:
.......Him: "Is it in yet?"......
There was a pause and I started laughing so hard I was crying. Broke up next morning but I couldn't keep a straight face while doing it. Laughed my *kitten* right out the door.0 -
i was dumped by a guy for being "too honest" (it's true, i'm pretty blunt and quite tactless)...
i once dumped a guy for being a horrible mouth-breather. i tried very hard not to let it get to me, but i couldn't help it! when we would watch movies, not only would i have to put subtitles on, but he would want me to lay back on him in an effort to be more comfortable on my small couch...which was fine...but what was NOT fine was how he would breathe loudly on the top of my head, to the point where little stray strands of my hair would fly forward onto my face. i'm sorry, it grossed me out beyond measure, and i finally broke it off when i realized that i was starting to get ANGRY at him for doing something that he couldn't really help. he was a really nice guy, but...the mouth breathing was an unfortunate deal breaker for me. =/
I totally get the mouth-breather thing - I once dumped a guy because his table manners were terrible. He was over for dinner at my parents' house - ate an entire pizza by himself, and when I cleared the table, there was as much food around the space where his plate was as I think went in his mouth (he also wouldn't close his mouth when he chewed, but the mess on the table was the last straw).
There were several guys I dated in my 20s who dumped me because they "weren't ready to be in a committed relationship" - the funny bit is that each of them went on to marry the very next woman they dated. My friends and I contemplated starting a service - "hey - is your SO having problems committing? have him go out with me for a week - that'll scare him!" :devil:0 -
Studies posted on sites that promote abstinence and marriage aren't likely to be biased at all...:laugh:
Good for you. Some people value good sex as an important aspect of a strong relationship, though. It's nothing to do with being promiscuous, not that there's anything wrong with that outside of a relationship. It's about exploring every aspect of your partner and finding out if you're truly compatible.There are COUNTLESS studies that showcase sex before marriage is integral to healthy intimacy during marriage.
Ridiculous; by that logic no one who has ever waited for marriage has a good sex life because they didn't "practice" beforehand. To me, that sounds like a way for people to justify sexual promiscuity, no matter what your opinion about premarital sex for religious reasons. I do not believe in premarital sex and my husband and I have a wonderful, intimate, loving, fulfilling, healthy sex life. I had zero experience until him and neither he nor I regret it for a moment. Nor do I feel as though I am missing anything. In a committed relationship, sex is just as much about your feelings for your partner as it is about the physical aspect of things; it's got nothing to do with how practiced you are.
http://www.ampartnership.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=134:divorce-and-premarital-sex&catid=12:recent-news&Itemid=37
http://news-releases.uiowa.edu/2011/june/061411paik_study.html
http://www.marriageromance.com/stories/10802697703.htm
Where does that leave those of us that believe marriage is in antiquated and pointless institution? We should just never have sex because we don't feel the need to have a piece of paper that means nothing but says we've committed ourselves to one another?0 -
I got dumped for doing "push-ups" with another guy. I honestly didn't even realize we were a thing! He told me not to fall in love with him because he was going back to Dallas. He came back, and I thought the rules were the same. Men. :ohwell:
Does "push ups" mean what I think it means?
Yep. My high school crush was flirting with me at a bar one night and asked me to come over to "listen to cd's". He was really boring, so it was a major letdown. My not-so-apparent boyfriend came home from work the next morning and was kidding around with me about getting laid that night. I told him to shut up, it was just like the guy was doing push-ups, so that's what he had to bring up. Every. Single. Time. "I'm not out doing push-ups with anyone else!" Ugh. I'm not a mindreader!0 -
Omg this made me laugh so hard!!Not crying when he 'pretended' to dump me. Confused? I was.
Guy: So I think this is it, we should go on a break, or break up.
Me:"Oh, well, ok.
The Next Day
Guy calls me: I think we should break up.
Me: I thought you did that yesterday?!
Guy: That was a test, you didn't seem that upset about it so I decided it's for real now.
Me: Oh. Wait what?!0 -
not letting him cheat on me.
Seriously, the only time I've been dumped, it went like this: My boyfriend and I were both 16 and had been dating about six months (this is a LONG time to a 16-year-old) when his mom made him move about an hour away with his dad, and his ex-girlfriend there (from sixth grade!) tried getting back with him. He told me how hot she was now, how she had this great *kitten* (although, he assured me, I had better boobs) and how he really wanted to sleep with her just one time. He promised he would never cheat on me again if I let him do it just once. He said he was young and needed to sow his wild oats. Needless to say, I told him no way, so he broke up with me. Well, he had his way with her, and he tried to get me back, but I was having none of it (although my poor teenaged heart was broken, I stood my ground). Well, he ended up staying with her for something like 7 or 8 years, and I found out it ended because SHE cheated on HIM. (I know this because he was my brother's best friend, and they've stayed in touch. Trust me, I'm over it and not a stalker!)
And happily, I met my now-husband the following summer, and we are going on 17 years (that's half our lives) together and are still crazy about each other. We're even told we still act like teenagers.
Karma, baby, karma.0 -
When I was 15, this guy was literally obsessed with me. He asked me out multiple times. I kept saying no. My sister thought he was just seriously adorable and told me I should give him a shot. I eventually decided that I'd see if we could make it work. About a week into the relationship he said to me "I'm so happy we're together. I don't even care, if you want to kiss/hug/makeout/sleep with (even though I was a virgin) someone else, that's fine, as long as you do the same with me"
WTF? Way to respect yourself buddy.
That was the end of that.0 -
Studies posted on sites that promote abstinence and marriage aren't likely to be biased at all...:laugh:
Good for you. Some people value good sex as an important aspect of a strong relationship, though. It's nothing to do with being promiscuous, not that there's anything wrong with that outside of a relationship. It's about exploring every aspect of your partner and finding out if you're truly compatible.There are COUNTLESS studies that showcase sex before marriage is integral to healthy intimacy during marriage.
Ridiculous; by that logic no one who has ever waited for marriage has a good sex life because they didn't "practice" beforehand. To me, that sounds like a way for people to justify sexual promiscuity, no matter what your opinion about premarital sex for religious reasons. I do not believe in premarital sex and my husband and I have a wonderful, intimate, loving, fulfilling, healthy sex life. I had zero experience until him and neither he nor I regret it for a moment. Nor do I feel as though I am missing anything. In a committed relationship, sex is just as much about your feelings for your partner as it is about the physical aspect of things; it's got nothing to do with how practiced you are.
http://www.ampartnership.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=134:divorce-and-premarital-sex&catid=12:recent-news&Itemid=37
http://news-releases.uiowa.edu/2011/june/061411paik_study.html
http://www.marriageromance.com/stories/10802697703.htm
Where does that leave those of us that believe marriage is in antiquated and pointless institution? We should just never have sex because we don't feel the need to have a piece of paper that means nothing but says we've committed ourselves to one another?
This discussion could go back and forth all day. It's up to each person to make their decision, live with the result (good or bad), and hopefully everyone can respect other's decisions. I was simply trying to clarify that JW's do not believe in hell fire, didn't mean to open a can of worms. Let's get back to respecting each other and maybe go work out any remaining frustrations at the gym tonight. 0 -
How did this turn into a debate? :noway:0
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Once I got dumped for a man...by my husband.0
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I got dumped, oh wait, make that divorced, and I still don't know the reason. No reason is worse than a stupid reason. i wish she'd just say she hates me or something.0
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I dumped a crosseyed girl once... she was seeing someone else.
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she worked at my sister's salon, and said it was weird dating her 'boss's' brother
they never work at the same time, and my sister isn't her boss, she just owns the salon.
oh, and the only reason we even knew each other in the first place was BECAUSE she works at my sister's salon0 -
I dumped a guy that I didn't realize I was dating..... yeah (that is what it's supposed to say) lol
We were in HS, we hung out a lot, but we had never kissed, never held hands, never went on a date or anything, we would just hang out at his house and play video games. I thought we were just good friends, heck, to be honest I thought he was gay...
So one day he came into where I worked (which he did a lot, my boss really liked him) So the three of us are standing there talking and I said, 'hey I'm not coming over Friday, I have a date" And he looks at me and says "so I guess that means you're breaking up with me?" I said, "I didn't realize we were...." (how do you reply to that???) and he said whatever and left. My boss cracked up over that and was like "You just broke his heart, how could you have not known you were dating him". lol
I've had that happen, too. I had no idea we were "an item," until more than a year later. He was a nice enough guy, but I guess he made too many assumptions? If we're going to be a couple, you should probably at least ask me.0 -
I dumped a guy that I didn't realize I was dating..... yeah (that is what it's supposed to say) lol
We were in HS, we hung out a lot, but we had never kissed, never held hands, never went on a date or anything, we would just hang out at his house and play video games. I thought we were just good friends, heck, to be honest I thought he was gay...
So one day he came into where I worked (which he did a lot, my boss really liked him) So the three of us are standing there talking and I said, 'hey I'm not coming over Friday, I have a date" And he looks at me and says "so I guess that means you're breaking up with me?" I said, "I didn't realize we were...." (how do you reply to that???) and he said whatever and left. My boss cracked up over that and was like "You just broke his heart, how could you have not known you were dating him". lol
I've had that happen, too. I had no idea we were "an item," until more than a year later. He was a nice enough guy, but I guess he made too many assumptions? If we're going to be a couple, you should probably at least ask me.
This is the classic woman saying, "were just friends". All guys know that there is no such thing. LOL.0 -
I can't say it's the "reason" we broke up but my best/worst break up story was, he was MIA for a week (not calling, not coming into my work) so I stopped by his house to ask what's up and he says "Emily, we broke up a week ago".....um where was I? He ended up marrying the chick that happened to be at his house when I stopped by0
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I'm always the one breaking it up. But once I got dumped by the same guy I dumped before for absolutely no reason. I think he needed "revenge". lol0
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This happened to me too! I didn't mind him buying me dinner or taking my shopping. But after only about a month of dating, he wanted to pay my cell bill, have me quit my job, and didn't like me going to school. That's borderline controlling! So, needless to say, it didn't work out. I continue to pay all of my own bills and my friends don't understand why I didn't just let him pay for everything. lol
Borderline controlling? You are too generous. I nearly had a panic attack just reading that, and I wasn't even involved.0 -
Once I got dumped for my best friend... because she had bigger boobs
BUT even though she's no longer my best friend and still has bigger boobs.... she also has a bigger *kitten* :laugh:
I WIN!
I should add that this was all at age 14, I started dating my now husband when I was 15.
good for you, girl!0 -
I got dumped because my Mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer (she has passed away now), and my boyfriend at the time told me I was too sad all the time. Some people's children, I tell you.0
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I dumped a guy that I didn't realize I was dating..... yeah (that is what it's supposed to say) lol
We were in HS, we hung out a lot, but we had never kissed, never held hands, never went on a date or anything, we would just hang out at his house and play video games. I thought we were just good friends, heck, to be honest I thought he was gay...
So one day he came into where I worked (which he did a lot, my boss really liked him) So the three of us are standing there talking and I said, 'hey I'm not coming over Friday, I have a date" And he looks at me and says "so I guess that means you're breaking up with me?" I said, "I didn't realize we were...." (how do you reply to that???) and he said whatever and left. My boss cracked up over that and was like "You just broke his heart, how could you have not known you were dating him". lol
I've had that happen, too. I had no idea we were "an item," until more than a year later. He was a nice enough guy, but I guess he made too many assumptions? If we're going to be a couple, you should probably at least ask me.
This is the classic woman saying, "were just friends". All guys know that there is no such thing. LOL.
I suppose. I've had lots of guy friends that were never more than friends. Many of them are also friends with my husband. But this fellow should have at least asked me to be his girlfriend, or even told me I was his girlfriend (I've had one boy do that successfully, but normally that would be an instant no, unless as in the case of that one boy the aggressiveness rather did it for me), but just assuming boyfriend status without ever mentioning it? That is assuming too much. And you know what they say about assuming.0
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