Once I got dumped for

I was dumped because I was getting "too thin" mind you I was 250 pounds at the time....:noway: Oh well, it was a blessing in disguise because having sex with him was like bumping into someone in the elevator. Gone in 60 seconds. :laugh:

I got dumped at my grandpa's funeral because.... "You've been so depressed lately, and I don't know what to do to cheer you up"

Ughhh. This was my first boyfriend

:noway: Ugh, he's a loser.

There are COUNTLESS studies that showcase sex before marriage is integral to healthy intimacy during marriage.

Ridiculous; by that logic no one who has ever waited for marriage has a good sex life because they didn't "practice" beforehand. To me, that sounds like a way for people to justify sexual promiscuity, no matter what your opinion about premarital sex for religious reasons. I do not believe in premarital sex and my husband and I have a wonderful, intimate, loving, fulfilling, healthy sex life. I had zero experience until him and neither he nor I regret it for a moment. Nor do I feel as though I am missing anything. In a committed relationship, sex is just as much about your feelings for your partner as it is about the physical aspect of things; it's got nothing to do with how practiced you are.

It's not a matter of "practice," it's been established as a manner of sexual compatibility. The idea that "committed relationship sex" gets constantly grouped with "promiscuous sex" is mind boggling to me (See: Jordan Sparks famously saying if you weren't wearing a purity ring, you were a "slut"). You are very lucky that you and your husband managed to click so well... that is not the case for countless couples who have ended up in sexless marriages (not by choice, as asexual couples are a different ballgame), cases of infidelity, and divorces.

If you decide to do that, it's FINE. The issue was the original topic being broached as being "safer" and therefore "better" than having sex before marriage, when that's just not the case. Also, reading "abstinence only" (something that has been proven to have a bigger failure rate than D.A.R.E, which is a notoriously huge fail) factsheets and information is about as biased as it comes. Try reading, I don't know, scientific studies, government sponsored research, etc. All of it points to abstinence only education being downright dangerous, and look up countless psychological studies, relationship surveys, therapist Q & A, etc. that showcase that being sexually intimate prior to marriage strengthens intimacy between a couple, helps a couple determine if they are sexually compatible, etc.

Plus, you know, not everyone gets married... or can get married, but may still be in a committed relationship. I think we all know where the "SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE = EVIL" advocates stand on those issues though -_-

The phrase "sexually compatible" is a made-up term designed to excuse the rest of the world from throwing away morals. There's no such thing as "sexual compatibility". Screw your 'studies', I have something better. Try HISTORY. There are countless marriages that happened before 60's and the "Free love" movement that were abstinent until marriage and were completely healthy and happy for many many years. Theory debunked. Next.

@LorinaLynn- LMFAO!

His mommy wanted him to move back home with her and his brothers.

And Diablo 3 was coming out so he wanted to move home and play it with them, and expected me to be okay with that - after living together for three years without a break or anything like that.

He didn't understand why I said I resented him and wasn't in love with him anymore, so he told me to find someone else. LOL.

haha i've never actually had a real boyfriend...i don't count the 3 day ones in jr high, and i was always the one to do the breaking up;D

I got dumped because I wasn't Jewish. He knew this before he started dating me, but apparently, it didn't matter until his mom brought it up after I first met her.

Mine was after I dumped him but this the story: i was with this guy from an online dating site and it was kind of on and off and then when it was finally back on for a month, we split up for good and i one day texted him hi and some girl got a hold of my number and started yelling at me to stop texting him. Turned out before he met me, he was engaged and was taking a break and for that month that i got back with him, he was back engaged.

First of all this thread is hilarious! But where do I start....lets go with the top three...

1. I was dumped at 18 because and I quote "what I can get off you I could get off a prostitute"... on our first "date" (took me to maccas and then to a pool hall) he proceeded to get me beyond drunk (i was vomiting), took me home and had sex with me twice..told me i should "respect myself more than to sleep around"- Prior to him i was a VIRGIN :noway:

2. Been seeing a lovely rich man for about 6mths... getting taken to lunch, sleep overs at his and weekends away....new years day I got a call from him (me being mighty hungover) telling me that it was over because he just couldn't see a future....didn't see that one coming. This story gets interesting 5mins later when I got a call from a angry woman asking me how long i've been sleeping with her fiance? Guess that future was hard to see beyond his angry fiance reading his new years text professing his love to me....whoops!

3. Recent was him explaining to me with that song "She's so high-Fastball" that I was too beautiful, too smart and I deserved better than him, and that he couldn't be with me because what we had was so deep & he'd not be able to be with another girl like that until he sorted himself out..... Well it turns out he was able to sort himself out mighty quickly (unlike i was... heartbroken and destroyed) because the young, unemployed, pregnant chick he had as a customer 2mths earlier and him were annoucing their relationship on facebook 3 days later... JOY.

I'm thinking I'm attracted to *kitten* at this point, so I'm not dating for a while.

I was dumped by my first love for been myself at a party, she got jealous because I made her friends laugh (guys and girls). thankfully, I dont date egos anymore lol

I was dumped by my girlfriend because apparently she didn't date girls.


This was nearly three years into our relationship.. . . ..... .. . . :indifferent: